Rochelle's INSENSITIVE and selfish comment!

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zehreeli.kheer

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Wow.. ppl never fail to amaze on this forum... if you see the uncut video of keiths return he told her in cr about his brother and she did get really upset... her boyfriend told her he was fine now and was consoling her in cr... i am pretty sure that ptiya and kawal convo came much later after she was told... she kind of acknowledged that they were right in keeping this from her.. how is that wrong ir selfish?!!

Coming to keith.. he has had 3weeks to get over the initial shock.. he is a part of a reality show and he is doing what he paid to do.. ppl dont usually parade around thier sadness and had he done so everyone would have said that he is using sympathy card so ya... there is no pleas8ng some ppl

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Darya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Kwerky
Is THAT what you interpret from this?

If she would have been told about the tragedy as soon as Keith left or when Priya/Uncle came in... what would have happened? She is trapped in that house...with NO MEANS at all to reach out to Keith or talk to him/his family about this terrible tragedy.

What good would it have done to anyone or her if she came to know of it earlier..when you have no means to talk about this or share the grief with your boyfriend/family? How would anyone deal with the grief/situation trapped in that house?

And I am sure...if she would have been told about it earlier...she would have cried and then we will see people calling her fake and drama queen ..asking for sympathy.🤔

Don't people hide information about terrible tragedies from their near ones until it is absolutely necessary?

Didn't Keith HIMSELF REQUEST everyone to keep the information from her and the HMs?

Sometimes..it is good to see and think from another perspective too.

You misunderstood the whole post...read again! 🥱

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Kwerky

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Shrumunj

As I said Iam thinking from my perspective.
A sudden n unexpected tragedy and returning to the show where ur expected to provide entertainment.
Plus he even watched the show from out, that's wat he said
I must say he's coped with the situation pretty fast .

And there's nothing to get personal, we both are family friends if Keith
Just like ur assuming , Iam doing it too.

We have had contestants exiting the show in emergency
Keith is not the first case

I wasn't getting personal. I was just saying how can we be the judge of how fast or slow should people cope with a tragedy?

What are we expecting him to do? Sit at home and cry? Mope all day?

Or come back on the show and sit in the corner and cry? If he is back on the show, he is back as contestant and doing what needs to be done.

My point is: don't we all expect that people who are hit by terrible tragedies should cope with it and move on as fast as they could? Is it a disservice to the one who passed away if you get back to your life and profession?

How LONG, according to you, someone should remain sad...in order to prove that he is really affected by a tragedy? Four weeks? Two months? One year?

There are countless examples in the showbiz where people returned to work within days of losing family members. You do what you have to do.

Working and being busy is one of the BEST ways of coping with loss...that's all I know.

Edited by Kwerky - 9 years ago

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Kwerky

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: xDarya

You misunderstood the whole post...read again! 🥱

Oh, I did understand the post, Sir/Madam.

You misunderstood her reaction and called her selfish and insensitive for no reason. But that's your opinion. I put forward mine.

Edited by Kwerky - 9 years ago

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fast trak

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

I watched the sneak peek nd when Keith said abut his brother, Ro was clearly upset nd sad. Don't recall much of her reaction when Keith announced to the housemates, but as she already knew, I guess she was over the shock, unlike the others. Also d time period can't be made out.

So definitely Ro was very upset hearing the news nd yes she wld hv felt helpless and upset if she had been informed when Keith was not there.

It's each ones perspective to how they behave and react in situations. Crying buckets also doesn't mean it's real. These can do anything for cameras. At least I'm happy Rochelle came across as real. She may have been upset and cried but not non stop. Even Keith is moving on. Doesn't mean he has forgotten his brother's death.

Like Suyash sobbed non stop on seeing his sister in confession room. I didn't understand why he cried so much. She's very much healthy and happy. Just that he couldn't meet her. But the choice was his so why cry? Was it to show the audience that he loves her to bits but can't go because of the task? Can be interpreted either ways.

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Darya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

This post isn't about how they are dealing with the tragedy and all..it's about her comment was she was said at a wrong time.

Seriously, imagine your friend tells you about his brother's dead and how he is broken and a few moments later you go like 'Thanks for telling me..such a relief..now I don't need to get a call from someone else.' 🤔

It's just wrong and insensitive..you are worried about yourself more than someone's emotions about his loved one dying.

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zehreeli.kheer

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: xDarya
This post isn't about how they are dealing with the tragedy and all..it's about her comment was she was said at a wrong time.

Seriously, imagine your friend tells you about his brother's dead and how he is broken and a few moments later you go like 'Thanks for telling me..such a relief..now I don't need to get a call from someone else.' 🤔

It's just wrong and insensitive..you are worried about yourself more than someone's emotions about his loved one dying.

But thay wasnt the first response!!! This response came much later... keith told her in cr... she was very upset and he c9nsoled her... it was evident in the video from her state that she cried for quite sometime implying that she was in there for quite a bit of time.. the comment you are talking about came mych later after she had had the time to let the news sink in and accepted it and also made sure that keith was fine!

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Darya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: fast trak
Rochelle herself has lost her brother. She has twin brothers out of which one died. Was in army I suppose. So obviously she understands the pain of losing a brother. It's different ways of looking at things.

That's sad!

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Darya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: yamyam

But thay wasnt the first response!!! This response came much later... keith told her in cr... she was very upset and he c9nsoled her... it was evident in the video from her state that she cried for quite sometime implying that she was in there for quite a bit of time.. the comment you are talking about came mych later after she had had the time to let the news sink in and accepted it and also made sure that keith was fine!

He was talking about his experience and how the news broke him..I'm sure he didn't tell all that to Rochelle in the CR. It was really sad the way he explained things even Kishwer was crying.

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Darya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Kwerky

Oh, I did understand the post, Sir/Madam.

You misunderstood her reaction and called her selfish and insensitive for no reason. But that's your opinion. I put forward mine.

I didn't misunderstand her reaction 🥱..her comment was wrong I never said her reaction was.
We don't need a genius to know what her comment meant and when was it said.

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