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Posted: 9 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: purva

People are ignoring the context in which Rimi said that line.. her point was if you want to be treated like delicate flowers by boys during task then you have to behave like ones too. Nothing wrong with what she said if you remember the context. But people just see what they want to see and turn a blind eye at everything else. 🤔


Thank you! That's all she said, I didn't think anything when I heard that but as soon as I checked the forum, it was flooded with hate topics/comments on Rimi.

And later on, all she said was that some women torture men mentally, poke them, get them to show their aggressive side and then play the woman card. She was VERY DIRECTLY hinting at Ro and Mandana. People are behaving as if she was acting to be someone else for a month and with two sentences her true self came out now..

As someone already rightfully said here, people only see what they want to see so don't waste your time trying to convince them
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Posted: 9 years ago
#32
its like when women poke in their own way - fine
when guy does it their own way - not fine

result - women power wins!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Radhakrish19


Ok. Its a genuine question. Didn't she totally generalise when she was with prince and suyash ? I thought so or did I miss something ? Because this is what I gathered from the episode and from the discussion among members on the forum. It's fine to say, don't expect to be treated like delicate flowers if you don't act like one. However, when she was with suyash and group I though she passed a generic comment about how women torture men emotionally and hence they end up at the recieving end of their aggression. Aurat ho Aurat ki tarah rahi. I thought this entire arguement was flawed.

Rishabh is the only one left in my book of bearable contestants.


To me it was an extension of her washroom discussion with M and R.. when she said "women frustrate men mentally and when men react aggressively women look like victim" it was regarding that task with M and R. If you cherry pick that one sentence regardless of what they were talking before then I agree it sounds very bad.. but we can't ignore that she started that conversation with washroom discussion. This is how I look at it.. 😊


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Posted: 9 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: purva

People are ignoring the context in which Rimi said that line.. her point was if you want to be treated like delicate flowers by boys during task then you have to behave like ones too. Nothing wrong with what she said if you remember the context. But people just see what they want to see and turn a blind eye at everything else. 🤔



What i heard she said that "Mere samne prince and Suyash jaise koi aye to mai unsee takkar nahi le sakti, mai darpook hu. Tum mey guts hai mujh mey nahi. Isliye kahti hu aurat ko aurat ki tarah rehna chahiye mard se panga nahi lena chahiye. Aurat itna karegi (Small trouble) to mardh itna karege (Big trouble)".

Rochelle said - "To hum chup chap rahe unke samne."

Rimi meant that as a women don't fight with strong men. Nothing like if you are fighting like men then take it like men. It was other way, the girl should not fight with men but behave like girls like me. I am darpok.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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In the washroom, it was okayish. Main darpok hoon etc. Fine. Her opinion.
This is the complete text of what Rimi said to the boys in the living area..
Mujhe boli Mandana ki tum kyun nahin accept ki ki voh log gundagiri kiye. Main boli gundagiri nahin voh log aise hi hain. Unko aise hi accept kar lo. Maine bola ladki ho ladkiyon ki tarah raho na. Tumlog bhi toh equal hona chahte ho na ladkon se. Toh aisa hi dikhega.
It's okayish up to here too. It's her regressive opinion about how women should behave. 'ladki ho ladkiyon ki tarah raho na.'. 🤔 It goes downhill when she's talks further. The following statement is her general opinion about all women.
Panga kabhi nahin lena chahiye strong aadmi ke saath. Aurat log kya hai mentally frustrate kar dete hain aadmiyon ko. Aur aadmi jab physically aggressive hota hai na tab laachaar aurat lagta hai. Lekin yeh log yeh nahin sochte ki ladkiyan bi equally yeh hai. Unko mentally torture karte hai yeh log.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36
To be honest That was pathetic and down market. She stooped to the level of 2 totli abba jabba with that one comment
Both totli did larka-larki for one full episode and proved that they are good for nothing and Rimi reached to their level with just one comment.


If that comment was for RoNa then it was perfect coz if they want to cry larki hu larki hu every Saturday then don't mess up with boys.

But


The way Rimi said it looked like it was for all women.

Biggest W*F.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: MithiBani

In the washroom, it was okayish. Main darpok hoon etc. Fine. Her opinion.

This is the complete text of what Rimi said to the boys in the living area..
Mujhe boli Mandana ki tum kyun nahin accept ki ki voh log gundagiri kiye. Main boli gundagiri nahin voh log aise hi hain. Unko aise hi accept kar lo. Maine bola ladki ho ladkiyon ki tarah raho na. Tumlog bhi toh equal hona chahte ho na ladkon se. Toh aisa hi dikhega.
It's okayish up to here too. It's her regressive opinion about how women should behave. 'ladki ho ladkiyon ki tarah raho na.'. 🤔 It goes downhill when she's talks further. The following statement is her general opinion about all women.
Panga kabhi nahin lena chahiye strong aadmi ke saath. Aurat log kya hai mentally frustrate kar dete hain aadmiyon ko. Aur aadmi jab physically aggressive hota hai na tab laachaar aurat lagta hai. Lekin yeh log yeh nahin sochte ki ladkiyan bi equally yeh hai. Unko mentally torture karte hai yeh log.


I was perfectly okay with the first half of the convo - The blue part

@ Red part - THIS she is discussing with the aggressive brats. There everything went down the drain because tumko pata hai ki woh log aur already aggressive hai and by talking such things to the spoilt brats directly you are in a way encouraging/supporting their act.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: rupa_6


I was perfectly okay with the first half of the convo - The blue part

@ Red part - THIS she is discussing with the aggressive brats. There everything went down the drain because tumko pata hai ki woh log aur already aggressive hai and by talking such things to the spoilt brats directly you are in a way encouraging/supporting their act.

Yup. She sorta endorsed their bully behavior. Voh log aise hi hain. Aise hi accept kar lo. Main toh darpok hoon isliye kar loongi. Ermm
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: deepalee


Obviously they haven't watched GONE GIRL. so they don't know what women r capable of.

Some human beings irrespective of their gender are capable of depravity...


On a serious note...why aren't these people objecting the viewer's question to suyash if it's kish who's the man in their relationship?

That caller is not in the house...she is not a participant that is why there are no elaborate discussions on that person's sexist views...that doesn't mean the caller's views are endorsed by everyone...

If u think women r no weaker sex n rimi should be hanged. Then stand up for kish too...Coz her strength was sacrificed by calling her a man .

Hanged?? exaggeration ...on a lighter note, if sexists were asked to kiss the noose, the population curve will take quite a plunge...coming back to the topic in hand,...Yes, the comment on kish was sexist...it was condemnable...kish deserves an apology from that caller and anyone who has passed a sexist remark on her...Rimi and the caller both are people with regressive thinking...



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Posted: 9 years ago
#40
There's nothing to twist! She said it clearly! And the way she was justifying that moron Prince's action! It sounded like they are bullies. They are destined to bully other people! Stay calm and behave like a doormat like me. And her 'ladki ho toh ladki ki tarah raho was cherry on the cake!

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