Don't TWIST Rimi's comment !! - Page 2

Originally posted by: diasingh2

@bold What???

Everyone including Salman was calling out on Suyash and Prince on SATURDAY!!

What are you talking about?
Rimi did acknowledge that Suyash and Prince were aggressive.

What did you want her to do? Fight with them?

I want her to stop saying it is Prince/Suyash's nature so if they behave aggressively it is okay. I want her to stop saying that women need to be submissive near aggressive men.
What does salman have to do with ? We are talking about Rimi here.

Originally posted by: Super Kool

As I have said in a similar topic...Mandy and roch are no good for women's right...they did use women card and that's not fair...have the guts to receive what you give...I agree with Rimi here (though rishab was pulled up using the same 'women card')...however, what irked me about Rimi was her generalisation...auratein aisa bahot kartein hain...mentally torture karti hain...from what I saw it was terrible on her part to generalise...also, the arguement that if someone is putting you through emotional roller coaster...it's natural you will get physically aggressive towards that person...really...?? Then why on earth salman is bashed for his women beating ways...

I have never been a Rimi fan (used to like her in initial weeks)...but didn't expect her to carry a torch for regressive thinking...Mandy, roch, Rimi...the list keeps growing...the only woman who has a balanced head on her shoulders is diggy...the precap had me second guessing but will reserve judgment till the episode unfolds...

See. what Rimi said can be manipulated and twisted easily.

I won't say that she carries a torch for regressive thinking.
What she was trying to say, what she probably had in mind and what she actually said are very very very different things.

Yes there are lot of people in our country who are suffering from this type of mentality.

I am just surprised that no one tried to give her the benefit of doubt.
Her statement is not as bad as it is made out to be.

She was talking in context of Mandana and Rocehlle, I still don't think it was a very big genralization coz she is a woman herself. and obviously she didn't include herself .

and I have actually known some women who have mentally tortured men in their lives. So, she wasn't completly wrong either.

There's no point wasting energy trying to get these people to see it the way it is!If gets get taken out of context and misconstrued,then let them!Sometimes in life it's best not to waste your breath trying to prove a point to people who would not have it any other way.The bigger person is the one who like it or or not,says their piece and silently walks away,Rimi Sen style!😃

Originally posted by: diasingh2

See. what Rimi said can be manipulated and twisted easily.

I won't say that she carries a torch for regressive thinking.
What she was trying to say, what she probably had in mind and what she actually said are very very very different things.

Yes there are lot of people in our country who are suffering from this type of mentality.

I am just surprised that no one tried to give her the benefit of doubt.
Her statement is not as bad as it is made out to be.

She was talking in context of Mandana and Rocehlle, I still don't think it was a very big genralization coz she is a woman herself. and obviously she didn't include herself .

and I have actually known some women who have mentally tortured men in their lives. So, she wasn't completly wrong either.

Originally posted by: -Rambler-

I want her to stop saying it is Prince/Suyash's nature so if they behave aggressively it is okay. I want her to stop saying that women need to be submissive near aggressive men.
What does salman have to do with ? We are talking about Rimi here.

Even I won't approve of Prince and Suyash's behavior my dear.
Why would anyone?

Like I said before, her statement can be twisted very easily.


I dragged Salman because I think KSP got grilled enough by SALMAN on saturday
so, Rimi didn't really need to call out or say them anything.

Women don't need to be submissive near aggressive men. They must fight back.
But if they can't take it, then get ready to face it. In other words, don't use the women card.

This is what I feel and this is what probably Rimi actually meant.

I respect you opinion vaise.

Originally posted by: diasingh2

@bold What???

Everyone including Salman was calling out on Suyash and Prince on SATURDAY!!

What are you talking about?
Rimi did acknowledge that Suyash and Prince were aggressive.

What did you want her to do? Fight with them?

Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

do you really expect people on this forum to not twist/exaggerate things?

so if KSP are bullies...why was everyone bullying them on saturday and sunday episodes? telling them what they should do and not do. That's called bullying. Pretty much threatened to end their careers and everything.

Such dumb hypocrisy.

I agree Prince and Suyash went overboard and they should get reprimanded for it, but so did Mandana and RoRo with their degrading comments about people in general and their aggressive screeching and crying.

Its too much hypocrisy...and if one person speaks up...aka RIMI she gets butchered and hate messages like she is currently.

India has been the biggest country of double standards...and it continues to be.

agree with you..😉

But

@bold

That's one Rimi Sen style comment😆😆
which is meant for only intelligent people

It can be twisted/ manipulated so easily😛 Be careful!😉

Rochelle and Mandana are totally wrong. No doubt. But this not a way to justify Prince and Suyyash's behavior. "You are a woman then behave like a woman". It's like saying you are a woman so the only thing you should do is giving birth and stay home to raise them. Do only what your husband says. Or even it's like a boy should never cry. 😆 Rimi could have just said that if you will poke you will get a reply. But instead of that she said be a woman act like a woman. 😕

Originally posted by: diasingh2

Even I won't approve of Prince and Suyash's behavior my dear.
Why would anyone?

Like I said before, her statement can be twisted very easily.


I dragged Salman because I think KSP got grilled enough by SALMAN on saturday
so, Rimi didn't really need to call out or say them anything.

Women don't need to be submissive near aggressive men. They must fight back.
But if they can't take it, then get ready to face it. In other words, don't use the women card.

This is what I feel and this is what probably Rimi actually meant.

I respect you opinion vaise.

What is there to twist when she said all this. It is just a lame excuse IMO. Let's just agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Rochelle and Mandana are totally wrong. No doubt. But this not a way to justify Prince and Suyyash's behavior. "You are a woman then behave like a woman". It's like saying you are a woman so the only thing you should do is giving birth and stay home to raise them. Do only what your husband says. Or even it's like a boy should never cry. 😆 Rimi could have just said that if you will poke you will get a reply. But instead of that she said be a woman act like a woman. 😕

See I agree with the fact that,
"You are a woman then behave like a woman" is as bad as "a boy should never cry".

Both are horrible, stereotypical & disgusting statements.



In my original post I did mention that I don't approve of Suyash & Prince's behavior.

And I don't think Rimi was trying to justify Prince & Suyash's behaviour.

She was talking in context of Rochelle and Mandana who victimized themselves in front of
Salman and placed all the blame on KSP.

But again, you have all the right to have an opinion. Mine is just different from yours.😊