Gautam is losing the plot in trying to prove a point

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Ramsha Saud

@ram92

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Posted: 10 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Gautam needs to be who he is. He does not need to become Pritam or Tanna to get the message across. We all know he is better than Pritam and Ali or even Tanna so he has nothing to prove to anyone. There is no point losing your individuality to becoming somebody else.

I am seeing from gautam's pov. He is the one and only person who has been islolated in a true sense, given worst punishments and treated like crap since so many weeks. He was doing that task standing for more than 24 hrs, physically and mentally exahusted and there comes ali with all his gay pros crap. Pritam was the one who encouraged ali to do that in the name of task. None of gautam's team member used their full potential to make ali stop or pritam lose. When gautam cried and gave his reaction, hypocrite pritam was the one who said k over acting kar raha hai and was justifying ali's act. The whole house knew that ali was wrong but none of them took a stand against him like they did with sonali.

Gautam had to show pritam mirror by taking his wife name, to make him feel how it feels and everything is not an act, no drama. Somethings are beyond this game show, nothing can justify what ali and pritam did. If gautam have not done this, pritam would never felt what gautam went through. In today's episode gautam himself admitted that he is a a normal person, he has his own flaws. He cant be a saint all the time by forgiving these people and giving them a chance again and again. And so many times gautam has given chances to pritam but there is a limit to everything.

Gautam has crossed his saturation point. Considering his state of mind he could have said worst to pritam's family but no he did not. He just took her name and pritam got all riled up. Keechad ko saaf karnay k liye keechad mein utarna padta hai and thats what he did.

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* Unnati *

@* Unnati *

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Posted: 10 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: Mehakphool

Actually pritam told ali to provoke. Even in than prank sam supported pritam and not GG..so sam should stop acting that she is his friend.

I partly agree with you. Sam did feel bad for GG & tried to stop Ali, but I guess she was more like, in a fix ? if she had to support her friend or team. Because she did stand with Ali initially, but as she saw him lowering his standards, she got irked & moved away. That way, she also didn't stop her team mates from doing what they did, but also expressed how she was clearly against the cheap remarks hurled against Gautam.

Yeah, I just wish she was a bit more firm & loud in revolting against Ali. But I get her dilemma.

(Which is why, I understand why Gautam was so mad at her. He felt that the player or the contestant in her, overweighed the friend in her.)

Edited by * Unnati * - 10 years ago

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Rida

@Mysterygirl_me

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Posted: 10 years ago

#73

I'm sorry but I beg to differ.

As gautam said, he is a human. Whenever someone hits a human on a personal level or below the belt, it hurts and trust me it hurts bad. So what if it is a show or bigg boss said something or whatever. Bigg boss never said to go personal and make such a cheap and crass comment.

Secondly, he's as real as anyone of us. If your sad and hurt you can't fake around and be friendly and do haha with people in the house. And he is the last person to change himself for the purpose of the game. He doesnt has game on his mind. He's being like he would in his real life. So losing the plot or gaining the plot is not a consideration. Like he said to upen that hes not thinking about cutting who from the game next. He has never ever plotted like that.

There goes your answer. He's doing what he feels like irrespective of the cameras. In whatever light it shows him, he's hurt and will be seen as hurt only.

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TheBoss

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Posted: 10 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: Mysterygirl_me
I'm sorry but I beg to differ.
As gautam said, he is a human. Whenever someone hits a human on a personal level or below the belt, it hurts and trust me it hurts bad. So what if it is a show or bigg boss said something or whatever. Bigg boss never said to go personal and make such a cheap and crass comment.

Secondly, he's as real as anyone of us. If your sad and hurt you can't fake around and be friendly and do haha with people in the house. And he is the last person to change himself for the purpose of the game. He doesnt has game on his mind. He's being like he would in his real life. So losing the plot or gaining the plot is not a consideration. Like he said to upen that hes not thinking about cutting who from the game next. He has never ever plotted like that.

There goes your answer. He's doing what he feels like irrespective of the cameras. In whatever light it shows him, he's hurt and will be seen as hurt only.

Hence I support him for what makes him stood out. However I do not support his flaws. Only humans make mistakes, hence it doesnt make him right or wrong. I support him for all the situations you have mentioned above this is why I find him to be a champion material but I cannot support him for questioning ones upbringings or dragging their families into his battles. That is outside the realm of the game show, to me, in my opinion thats all.

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aachan

@aachan

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: tv666
he tells other ppl to not get personal, yet he himself always gets personal... hypocrite loser he is👎🏼

How is Gautam hypocrite?

Do you understand the 'hypocrite' word itself what it means? I really don't think you understand it and in way you added in sentence, it does not make any sense. 😕

First of all, at the beginning of the cage task that happened, everyone was ignoring Gautam. In the other hand, the members were talking to other without helping him or even giving a him a rule book so he could read it, if not then someone could have explained that to him?

After that, Bigg Boss gave a task to Ali & Karshima about fake briefcase, they went up to Gautam and lied to him, so he could quit the task before hence. If so, then why they didn't mention it to Pritam and went straight up to him instead?

Then in the last moment, Ali decides to provoke Gautam even though he knew he stood there nonstop for 2 / half days.

This is where things get worse.

With this issue's situation, Gautam wanted to clear out his logic with Pritam. Gautam just said his wife's name. He (Pritam) then suddenly got hypocrite about him mentioning his wife's name all of a sudden.

Where was he? When Ali was trying to provoke Gautam during the cage task?

Edited by aachan - 10 years ago

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Olicity

@Olicity

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#76

I don't agree. GG knew that Pritam was the mastermind behind yesterdays incident . He wanted to get back at Pritam badly.I think after four months of being in the receiving end of all the HMs he has decided enough is enough and started giving it back. He is a normal human being like one of us. We cannot expect him to act perfectly, by the rules all the time.

On a lighter note, wasn't he just saying his bhabhi's name. What is the big issue ?

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Rida

@Mysterygirl_me

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Hence I support him for what makes him stood out. However I do not support his flaws. Only humans make mistakes, hence it doesnt make him right or wrong. I support him for all the situations you have mentioned above this is why I find him to be a champion material but I cannot support him for questioning ones upbringings or dragging their families into his battles. That is outside the realm of the game show, to me, in my opinion thats all.

I can totally understand your point of view and its really commendable how your such an unbiased and logical viewer but still a fan due to all the reasons you mentioned above. It's an amazing quality. 😊

But call me really biased or something but I can't seem to find any fault in gautam's way of explaining to Pritam how a simple comment or even a mention of a sensitive or dear topic can provoke you and wire you up. Like pritam did in the precap. He just mentioned aman's name after pritam did and pritam immediately got wired up. Now think how all these cheap words of Ali would have felt to Gautam.

Secondly, I truly believe after all the sufferings and the entire bigg boss journey that gautam has been through there really is no chance to say anyone else can be the winner. He really has come a full circle on the show. He is the reason for the popularity of the show and also a sufferer at the hands of so many people. During his time he has made people love him for his realness and almost all housemates thought good of him and i want to believe that they still do. But solely because of every grilling that gautam has been through. He deserves to be the winner. its an understatement to say because only he deserves to. I know karishma has also suffered a lot and has been hurled all sorts of comments and no matter how much I hate her I do believe she comes a close second to gautam and should be there in top 2 or atleast top 3. As this season somehow was always centered around Gautam and then karishma comes a close second.

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annihilation

@annihilation

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Posted: 10 years ago

#78

Lets not forget that Gautam only broke down and lashed out when everyone followed him in the bathroom to check him if he's alright. When a person's in a vulnerable state of mind and people around him are pressing the matter, it causes him/her to break down. Also, he lashing out or breakdown was kind of long over-due. First, he's always been bullied, targeted, cornered and ridiculed from the start and second, more recently, Ali was after him for almost two weeks. Gautam kept it together for the longest and his reaction only came after Ali went to disgusting limits to get him out of the task.

The reason Gautam expected someone to take a stand vehemently was because everyone behaved in such a casual manner while Ali was on and on making filthy remarks like its a no big deal. He didn't ask anyone to take a stand for him, he expected someone to take a stand against the kind of shit Ali was spreading. Yes, Sambhavna showed her displeasure but not as strongly. Yes, Rahul asked Ali to cut it out too but again, very casually. Yes, KT told Ali to cut out the crap too but she told him a bit more assertively than the others for which gestures of hers Gautam saved her today.

If you have followed the episodes and live-feed closely, you'll notice that Gautam and Pritam shared a genuinely deep bond at one point of time. And given the kind of person Gautam is, he gets attached to people emotionally easily. So, when someone's talking filth to a friend and another friend is just watching by, especially when he's not being provoked despite being in the task is bound to hit Gautam somewhere. I think he's more upset with Pritam than with Sambhavna, Rahul or anyone else because Pritam (like you said earlier above) was very-well aware of the provocation Gautam was being subjected to and yet made himself appear oblivious.

Cut to tomorrow's precap, assuming Pritam came to him to lecture Gautam on sportiveness and forgiveness, Gautam has every right to retaliate. No, I do not say bringing up families in between is an idea or the correct approach but sometimes you have to get down to someone's level and explain it to them in their language if that's all they understand. People, in general, are sensitive about their respective families and friends, its like a sore nerve you twist to get a reaction out of somebody. So, if he's done that, while the approach undoubtedly is not worthy of appreciation, I'd say I get where he's coming from. Simply because, he's been tested time and time again.

Edited by herms_angel - 10 years ago

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844681

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Posted: 10 years ago

#79

why gautam bought aman name...i didnt understand?what was the point trying to prove and hows it related to what ali did

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Mehakphool

@Mehakphool

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: TheBoss

I have never sided with Ali. Gautam was rightly mad at him. The only issue I had with him yesterday was him going off on friends and his expectations. As for Pritam Im not sure why Gautam always have to give family examples? Some days ago over Upen-Tanna relationship he brought his wife and asked him if he would cheat on her? I knew he was trying to prove a point but the thing is its getting a bit repetitive to bring families into equation.

Not everyone is going to fit Gautams barometer and he needs to understand that. There is no point convincing others to be like him or get his viewpoint. He is who he is and they are who they are. There is a time where one must agree to disagree and move on. Serves no purpose to give family examples. He loses his individuality doing so and becomes the likes of Tanna with her moral preaching and superiority complex about her family and her english medium acts.

When a person like pritam taking ali below belt comment as a joke to gg then gautam had to explain for different ways. GAUTAM didn't even insult his wife and pritam began screaming and shouting. This is exactly what GG was proving his point. If ali had called pritam gay prosti**** he would had abused ali and might had done hisna. My problem is with pritam, he is playing mastermind game and ali is just playing along. If pritam dislikes gautam then he should tell him on his face, not saying brother to his face and then bit*hing behind his back. It was protam who had a problem that mahek is giving him water, and company. Why? It clearly shows what an immature person pritam is. Either be honest in a friendship or don't pass your opinion.

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