Gautam is losing the plot in trying to prove a point - Page 11

GG's whole approach to justifying or explaining a point is what's totally wrong.The point he tried to make to Pritam could hve been done in a more appropriate manner minus the aggression in his tone and body language...which always seems to be the reason for people reacting to him with such an outburst.He comes across as if he's making an attack out of aggression...when at times that may not be the case.The other thing is its always me,me,me,me!Everything has to be the centre of his world.Everyone has to justify their loyalties,friendship and be answerable to him for their actions.But these same rules dnt apply when it comes to him.What does he want Pritam to do to prove his friendship?Give a written confirmation in blood?Pritam was there by his side yesterday when he was upset and on other occasions too.Even today Pritam saved him to prove his friendship... but that again will be seen as a strategy to people and GG too.I mean come on...if you could hve the strongest member up for noms on the last week...who wouldn't take up that opportunity if you were looking at it game wise?

Originally posted by: herms_angel

Lets not forget that Gautam only broke down and lashed out when everyone followed him in the bathroom to check him if he's alright. When a person's in a vulnerable state of mind and people around him are pressing the matter, it causes him/her to break down. Also, he lashing out or breakdown was kind of long over-due. First, he's always been bullied, targeted, cornered and ridiculed from the start and second, more recently, Ali was after him for almost two weeks. Gautam kept it together for the longest and his reaction only came after Ali went to disgusting limits to get him out of the task.

The reason Gautam expected someone to take a stand vehemently was because everyone behaved in such a casual manner while Ali was on and on making filthy remarks like its a no big deal. He didn't ask anyone to take a stand for him, he expected someone to take a stand against the kind of shit Ali was spreading. Yes, Sambhavna showed her displeasure but not as strongly. Yes, Rahul asked Ali to cut it out too but again, very casually. Yes, KT told Ali to cut out the crap too but she told him a bit more assertively than the others for which gestures of hers Gautam saved her today.

If you have followed the episodes and live-feed closely, you'll notice that Gautam and Pritam shared a genuinely deep bond at one point of time. And given the kind of person Gautam is, he gets attached to people emotionally easily. So, when someone's talking filth to a friend and another friend is just watching by, especially when he's not being provoked despite being in the task is bound to hit Gautam somewhere. I think he's more upset with Pritam than with Sambhavna, Rahul or anyone else because Pritam (like you said earlier above) was very-well aware of the provocation Gautam was being subjected to and yet made himself appear oblivious.

Cut to tomorrow's precap, assuming Pritam came to him to lecture Gautam on sportiveness and forgiveness, Gautam has every right to retaliate. No, I do not say bringing up families in between is an idea or the correct approach but sometimes you have to get down to someone's level and explain it to them in their language if that's all they understand. People, in general, are sensitive about their respective families and friends, its like a sore nerve you twist to get a reaction out of somebody. So, if he's done that, while the approach undoubtedly is not worthy of appreciation, I'd say I get where he's coming from. Simply because, he's been tested time and time again.

Completely agree with everything especially the underlines which not a lot of people understand 👏

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Well said and if you have seen I have called him (Pritam) out on all those issues. Its simple, my problem is with Pritam but not with his wife. Just like I don't have a problem with Dimpys father or Mahajans father, Alis family or Pritams wife. These are all non parties to the act, they should not be held accountable based on the actions of these housemates.

Originally posted by: FaultInOurStars

Wat i saw on precap---

Gautam-tumhara biwi ka naam keya hey?

Pritam-amanjot

Gautam-are neyi woh nehi hey nam

Pritam-are keya bol raha hey,uska nam aman hey

Gautam-aree neyii

Pritam reacts!then gautam said i only said abt her name and ur reacting like this aab mujhe kaisa lagta hey...

Pritam continues shouting

Now here where is defaming family?is that a crime asking ur wifes name?or if iam unsure abt her name i can ask!cant i???

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

+1

Pritam only told him to provoke. He had no idea what he was going to say to Gulati. The assumptions are 🥱.

I don't understand what is the big deal!

Originally posted by: Mysterygirl_me

@ bold

well they have mics for a reason my friend. if someone in lounge area can listen to another person talking in the washroom, i am sure pritam could hear what ali was telling him. he could obviously hear it. and yes he cant leave the task or his spot but could have atleast stopped ali not to pass such derogatory comments all in the name of provocation.

Dear.. If you remember.. When BB offered the offer of nominating someone which Tanna took and Dimpy had issue.. Dimpy had complained to Upen that me and pritam couldn't even hear what you read and even Tanna said to dimpy we couldn't hear you calling us... And once the task was over and GG was crying.. Pritam and Ali sat in the Living area sofa and Pritam asked Ali what exactly did u tell GG? He asked Ali to go ahead with the task but he didn't ask him to give such comments and he didn't know what was being said too


@Kwerky - Bang On..👏 There are many things that are twisted and told as per convenience yaar..🤢

@TheBoss - Thank you for the post.. Appreciate it..

Originally posted by: Mysterygirl_me

@ bold

well they have mics for a reason my friend. if someone in lounge area can listen to another person talking in the washroom, i am sure pritam could hear what ali was telling him. he could obviously hear it. and yes he cant leave the task or his spot but could have atleast stopped ali not to pass such derogatory comments all in the name of provocation.

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

And I'm quoting myself here :

Pritam having stood there & not even chiding Ali when it went below the belt, means he is a partaker in the mud slinging act. Him supporting & speaking in Ali's favour in the room, to everyone, means he is a partaker and is equally guilty.

^ What? I don't understand that mic comment. 😕 When Ali started his provoking towards Gulati, you could see Tanna in the distance near Pritam, talking to him.