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Posted: 10 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: rits08

Sorry Boss... As much as I dislike Tanna, I dont agree with your post! Being a girl myself, I know how chape guys can be... getting a number is not a difficult task especially in their industry! Even in normal lives, numbers get passed on and exchanged... And there are enough creepy men to send spam messages and all!


You wont believe so many incidences Ive faced lol😆 This one guy got my number from somewhere and den kept messaging me about how we know each other... when i said forget it, he started asking for friendship... I blocked him on watsapp, he started smsing me...i ignored...den he kept quiet...4-5 days bak he called to wish NY.. i dint knw it was him.. den again started messgin me to unblock him..i just ignored him again😆


That is exactly what Im saying. Did anyone put a gun on her head? No. Why cant she do what you did and block those who she does not want to entertain? What is the point to go on years and years. Rahul claims they used to exchange messages all day long. She says it was her 1 message for his 25. Whatever the claim one thing is clear that she is responding back.

I totally agree with you however imagine some married friends husband is hitting on you. What would you do? You will first try not to entertain him. You will also try to have a word with your friend and tell her that you want no part of this. You will know in your heart that this is not the right thing to do. You are not going to give him your phone number, and exchange day and night messages with him. That is any self respecting person does.

If he was sending her the messages she too was replying back for a number of years. There lies my problem.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: Natkat

I feel your next topic will be why is karishma eating, why is karishma standing. Nothing more to say so attack her character.😡Which world are we living in. It looks like all the mods have gone for a holiday.


I make topics on my convenience. Instead of sending the mods to holiday, you should consider taking one dont teach them how to do their jobs. No need to come here and moral police when you have nothing to contribute to the discussion.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: piataylor

There is no law that says once a man gets married he will not have any female friends specially in the same industry or workplace.

So if Tanna exchanged messages with him as a friend that is fine but if the guy crossed his line and started to become creepy she did the right thing and blocked him.

This is a common occurrence in everyday life.

Blaming Tanna for this is really uncalled for in this case.


That is only her side of story. Rahul claims otherwise. We are all free to believe what we wish to believe. He claims they used to talk all day long. She should have known better instead of handing out her phone numbers and social media contacts to every tom dick and harry. If she blocked him why is she entertaining his jokes even now? I will make a woman out of you and I can afford you is apparently funny to her. Im sure she used to laugh the same way in their exchanges.

Again. No need to blame the man here, people are missing the point. She enabled him.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: TheBoss


That is only her side of story. Rahul claims otherwise. We are all free to believe what we wish to believe. He claims they used to talk all day long. She should have known better instead of handing out her phone numbers and social media contacts to every tom dick and harry. If she blocked him why is she entertaining his jokes even now? I will make a woman out of you and I can afford you is apparently funny to her. Im sure she used to laugh the same way in their exchanges.

Again. No need to blame the man here, people are missing the point. She enabled him.


Rahul never claimed different... Sambhavna clarified it in the kitchen infront of Both KT and Mahazan... 😆

It's a pretty clear issue... If Mahajan tried to flirt, you should make a post on Mahajan ... Not on KT...that's common sense 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: SoPunk


Rahul never claimed different... Sambhavna clarified it in the kitchen infront of Both KT and Mahazan... 😆

It's a pretty clear issue... If Mahajan tried to flirt, you should make a post on Mahajan ... Not on KT...that's common sense 😉


I did made a post on Rahul. And I do not in the slightest condone his behavior or his jokes. My only bone to pick here is that as a grown up KT knows better than to entertain and enable him for as long as she has done and continually does so. It all comes down to a simple yes or no.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: Born2Pizza


Well you are not alone in this, even married men tried on me. I told them to leave me alone but they just keep coming back for me everytime. 😭 Life is hard, i tell you.


Haaw ji😲😲 who dared to eat my Pizza?😡😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: TheBoss


We are arguing about the same point, if you claim that we live in a progressive society then why is only the dude getting the blame here? If you don't want attention you wont get attention. Refer to my first post I have made it clear that my only issue here is her gender card, yet again. She is privy to the party and has no reservations in exchanging messages day and night for years and then she goes on to badmouth him behind his back as if she was held onto some gunpoint. But here she rather have all the influential contacts, she rather bait him with the end of her short stick by throwing bread crumbs and then she cries a river when he gives her the attention she is seeking.

This "Maneater" belongs with me in the cave.


The problem here is gross amount of presumptions, assumptions, conjectures and suppositions:

1. Assuming that Rahul hit the ground running by being his ridiculous self, hitting on her blatantly and being such an irritant that KT should have blocked him instantly years ago.

2. Conjectures about the nature of their conversations and then flogging KT over it...why did she even talk to him? Why o why?

3. Presumptions about why did she even remain in contact with him.

And to your - why is only the dude getting the blame here- much of it is based on historical data. Their conduct in public (I.e. Reality TV domain). While we have seen Rahul being insufferable, irritating and throwing himself at women without any thought and without any dignity...KT has conducted herself very well and with dignity. So people are likely to give credence to her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

While we have seen Rahul being insufferable, irritating and throwing himself at women without any thought and without any dignity...KT has conducted herself very well and with dignity. So people are likely to give credence to her.


Lets agree to disagree here. We have all seen her "dignified conduct". The only thing is we have seen it from two different perspectives. Her dignified conduct with her boy toy, and then with how she enabled Rahul and Pritam's advances and catcalling and laughing along shows where her dignity lies.

You may think I have my shaders on and I think you are drinking too much of KT kool-aid. It all comes down to our perspective on how we see this issue thats all.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: TheBoss


That is exactly what Im saying. Did anyone put a gun on her head? No. Why cant she do what you did and block those who she does not want to entertain? What is the point to go on years and years. Rahul claims they used to exchange messages all day long. She says it was her 1 message for his 25. Whatever the claim one thing is clear that she is responding back.

I totally agree with you however imagine some married friends husband is hitting on you. What would you do? You will first try not to entertain him. You will also try to have a word with your friend and tell her that you want no part of this. You will know in your heart that this is not the right thing to do. You are not going to give him your phone number, and exchange day and night messages with him. That is any self respecting person does.

If he was sending her the messages she too was replying back for a number of years. There lies my problem.


Well with what Dimpy said today, I believe you got your answers... Karishma wanted favours and she took them from Rahul...toh block kaise karti?😆
But on a general level, there are a lot of chape men around... and girls usually tend to ignore them.. like even i have a few frns who keep messaging n stuff but then i ignore them... if they get too obsessed only then i block them! And she clearly said that she blocked on WA, toh he started messaging...waha block kia toh fb pe! If hes bothering her again and again then its not her fault! But if she used him for her personal benefit and den started ignoring him, defaming him then its wrong! But since im not their cellphone, so i don't know the truth... and thus i wont say anything further!😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rits08


Well with what Dimpy said today, I believe you got your answers... Karishma wanted favours and she took them from Rahul...toh block kaise karti?😆
But on a general level, there are a lot of chape men around... and girls usually tend to ignore them.. like even i have a few frns who keep messaging n stuff but then i ignore them... if they get too obsessed only then i block them! And she clearly said that she blocked on WA, toh he started messaging...waha block kia toh fb pe! If hes bothering her again and again then its not her fault! But if she used him for her personal benefit and den started ignoring him, defaming him then its wrong! But since im not their cellphone, so i don't know the truth... and thus i wont say anything further!😛


I didnt see todays episode my dear but thank you for clarifying it now. It all makes sense. I wasn't even aware of this benefits angle. I know how you are in personal life and obviously you are not going to entertain any leechad or his advances. You also had no qualms of giving back or standing up when somebody tried to get free with you. Thats all Im saying that it comes down to an individual how they wish to play along. Do they enable someone or do they draw the lines. Here she used him for all the benefits she needed and decided to hang him to dry.

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