Trying to understand Upen's game is driving me insane. One minute he is best buddies with Ali next minute he is fighting. Then he refuse's to do his chores and disobey's the captain. A little bit later he is comforting her because she is crying!!! He needs help this not normal behaviour.
It's pretty simple actually ...
When you get to the end of your rope. Tie a knot and hang on.
Franklin D. Roosevelt