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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kakka_ji_kahin



why he got enlightened only after he was told by Sambhavna. BEfore it he was equally enjoying it. I have seen in many scenes he did not even bother to remove the lipstick mark.
Sonali Stopped Ali when she did not like the touch. She liked the same touch with Upen.

I did not see the same behavioral change from Gautam side.
He was okai to take hugs kisses and reprimanded Pritam for objecting it .

But all of a sudden he made Diandra a Pariah just because he is not looking good outside.



He did said that it was his mistake and he has to sort it out and he did with sensitivity without putting any blame on her when she said talli ek haath se nahi bajti, then he accepted his involvement by saying maine kab kaha ki ek haath se baji hai, he clearly got the idea that no one outside is liking it and he took a decision collectively with discussing with her, had he completely ignored her people would have buried him but he didn't fo that did he. People were bashing for not owning up now he owned up and bashing is still going on, I have not seen one person from the IF that has accepted that they fired the Gun too early by watching the sneak peak and apologize. Let's be fair people will find a reason to bash him no matter what.
Edited by jacktheripper - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: kakka_ji_kahin



why he got enlightened only after he was told by Sambhavna. BEfore it he was equally enjoying it. I have seen in many scenes he did not even bother to remove the lipstick mark.
Sonali Stopped Ali when she did not like the touch. She liked the same touch with Upen.

I did not see the same behavioral change from Gautam side.
He was okai to take hugs kisses and reprimanded Pritam for objecting it .

But all of a sudden he made Diandra a Pariah just because he is not looking good outside.


He realized it didn't look good..infact vulgar. So?
Reverse the situations again...if a woman feels that her boyfriend...a regular friend...doing something in public to her is running her reputation---does she have a right to ask him to stop or not. Earlier he played along...and if now he knows better---why can't he ask her to stop. Everyone should have the right to tell the other person to stop fondling/foreplaying in public at whatever point in their relationship.
It's not that you feel violated only because you are forcibly touched...you can feel violated if you think its causing you the public humiliation.
He felt her physical violation more strongly when he felt it was a source of public humiliation for him.
Doesn't he have a right to stop his humiliation?
Whoever starts something an action all the time...he only has to be told to stop it...if its violating the other party in ANY way.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#33
The Bigg Boss house is possibly THE EASIEST place to give someone the brush off or say later.. ALL you have to do is say we're on camera and it'll look cheap or we'll explore this outside. So this excuse that Gautam found it hard to say anything in case it looked like a reject is complete bakwas.

He CLEARLY had no problems with it and only developed the problem after hearing from party guests and after Sambhavna told him he's not gonna win the game this way.


Then he did the worst thing possible and tried to lay all blame on Diandra Please let's NOT ignore that Puns and Dimpy BOTH had to BRIEF him that he can't say that and they told him how to say things or sort it out.
Edited by Sakina3 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: hppp


<div>[/DIV]I think he said "WE" about what they had to stop together...and YOU about what she had to stop doing.

HE didn't say no then...but he wants to say "no" now...and look at the reaction. He can't even tell her to stop doing a particular thing. How should he have said "No" by the way...(Imagine Diandra pulling him to the bathroom...and he shouldn't even say "stop taking me there"...somebody form this forum would give him a directive---he should have said "we must stop visiting the bathroom TOGETHER"...and unless he uses the same exact words as people on this forum direct him to---he can't even stop her)


What people man!!



Yes, like you others in the forum have their Opinion too.

My objection is when he said 'tum jese hug karti ho.. aschha nahi lagta'

Right. Then what about those times when he used to ask her 'come here and give me a hug'

Matlab ab jo Di karti hai wo aschha nahi lagta. And Also in front of Puneet he said 'wo leke gai thi muje' 😕 matlab twice she dragged you? 🤔 then why didn't you say anything then or stopped her? 😳


When Pritam tries to ask him about bathroom shenanigans, GG replies so rudely.
And when Sambhavna says the same, GG ki phat gai.


Di told him.. 'I don't want to be played on show or outside'
Tab kya hua tha. Couldn't he have cleared it out to her then?

And now he wants to come out clean and say 'I never committed'


With Sonali also he did same, He sang song for her ,flirted with her, Kissed her on cheek (and it was sonali who said 'yeh kuch jyada ho raha hai' )
At the end he was like, no I don't want anything to do with Sonali.


Gautam's actions never justify what He says.
He is not a kid to NOT understand what he is doing & what message his actions give out.

It's just that Gautam wants to have his cake, and eat it too
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Posted: 10 years ago
#35
Completely agree with TM. ive lost respect for Gautam too. he led Diandra to believe he is interested. hes spineless n it shows
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Posted: 10 years ago
#36
Totally Agree...I am also big fan of Gautam but he ruined his image behaving like Ashmit&veena, gauhar&kushal,Armaan&Tanisha.
He was best player compared to all these people but he played dirty with diandra and also insulting Sonali in public. He is not a famous personality compared to Sonali. Sonali is well known Model and actress.
He was really good Candidate to win Bigg Boss 8 but now i feel he is not that great.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#37
I think Diandra is not at all interested in the game now.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: throughmysenses

A Forum where we have Neanderthals & Cavemen arguing that a Guy is HELPLESS when a beautiful Girl THROWS herself over him, your post is indeed insightful & welcoming. Kudos! Thank You!

Janitor Boy, never even for a Second, realised that accepting & sharing the responsibility of the whole Fiasco would have earned him hundreds of Fan Following. Like Idol, like Supporter.



+100


After seeing numerous ridiculous posts blaming (only) female contestants for getting close to men, forcing themselves onto the guys, only letting their friends touch their bodies but not the fan favorites, using "women card" all the time and other stupid issues, I honestly had no expectations from anyone, let alone a fan.

I can't thank you(TM) enough for this post, because there are certain issues that go beyond the show and thank you for pointing them out. Irrespective of the people involved...young men and women need to know that this behavior of blaming someone else's character/nature for one's own convenience/amusement and shifting blame to another to come off as the better one...especially in such cases is not OK. Normalizing this behavior and celebrating it is not only ignorant, but also very scary, as they perpetuate disgusting double standards already rotting our society.
I'm glad to see this post from a supporter, adds more weight than posts from non-supporters. Kudos for the sensible and unbiased approach. 👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
#39
kudos to the TM for his/her stand. in this virtual space of mob mentality it is hard for a fan to take a neutral stand. most stick by their favourites more for saving face in front of the ones they argue with on these forums, and end up justifying the wrongs that their favorite HMs do. this we saw last season too with gauhar's fans.
it is perfectly fine to be someone's fan, and still point at their faults. it shows levelheadedness. so, well done!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: throughmysenses

A Forum where we have Neanderthals & Cavemen arguing that a Guy is HELPLESS when a beautiful Girl THROWS herself over him, your post is indeed insightful & welcoming. Kudos! Thank You!

Janitor Boy, never even for a Second, realised that accepting & sharing the responsibility of the whole Fiasco would have earned him hundreds of Fan Following. Like Idol, like Supporter.

Yup. Agreeing to that foasco & owning up like a man would've been great for him. The poor woman had warned him...I don't wanna be played inside or outside the house. 😒
Edited by MithiBani - 10 years ago

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