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Posted: 10 years ago
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completely agree wid u ..:)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Too good post. And that too from GG fan.

I am happy u noticed it and raised your voice too.

too good.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ethical way was to say

That Diandra I and you have crossed limits, and we should not done this on national television. My mother is also not happy but I owe equal responsibility to this. We are good friends but it my not look that good to be that intimated on national television. But feelings are real and we will explore outside.

If Guatam would said something like this...he would have been a sensible person and not a coward.
What i really din't like was...he putting all the blame on D as if he wasn't a part of it and was forced to do that.

Very nice post TM👍🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kakaji, Pranaam.


Chha gaye aap. Very well written post.


Gautam looked very bad saying 'tum yeh karti ho.. tum woh karti ho'

Wasn't it was him, who asked come here and give me a hug


And now saying.. jese tum gale milti ho, aschha nahi lagta.


The same thing when Pritam tried telling him about bathroom.. He was like, mujhe mat sikhao. Pandit mat bano tum.

And now when Sambhavna says the same thing, He wants to stop it all.

Why didn't he consider what Pritam was saying & at least tried clearing it out with Di once?


Ok she took you to bathroom First Time, But what about 2nd time. You could have said no.

And now also, you can say 'We need to take it slow'. Use WE


But no, Ab jab game bigad rahi hai, he wants to come out clean putting everything on Di. 👎🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think he did say.
But is it news...that Diandra is more aggressive? If a girl were dating a guy---and if he were more aggressive about throwing his arms around her in front of her family. She'd go and tell him to stop it...and that's acceptable for a woman to do that---but not for a guy if situations are reversed?
I don't understand how does this get wrong when a guy does the same thing, asking the more aggressive party to stop the demonstration!
It's not like he didn't accept his share. He realized she needs to be clearly told to stop an action.
So guys can't stop women from being more aggressive? Are we becoming too touchy about women "feelings" all the time. He wasn't talking about who owns what responsibility---he was asking her to stop kissing him.
As a woman, I find it suffocating. I want equality...not special treatment!..Not men having to observe protocols all the time. You treat us equal..we treat you equal! Anyone who is more aggressive gets the same treatment, same feedback..man or woman!
It's ironical when people say that a guy isn't helpless if a woman throws himself on him. But if the same guy talks to the woman about it--people are up in arms against him. How is he supposed to tell her to stop...telepathy??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yawn when we gonna end this topic it is tiring to read at least ten thread daily on the same topic move on guys.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No he is not. He told Diandra what he felt was right.
no matter how much u try to sugar coat it.
things like this always sound bitter.
Initially it was Diandra, who kept on chanting that yes we r just flirting n blah blah...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kakkaji...kya likhat hein aap. Dil se pranaam!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi



Kakaji, Pranaam.


Chha gaye aap. Very well written post.


Gautam looked very bad saying 'tum yeh karti ho.. tum woh karti ho'

Wasn't it was him, who asked come here and give me a hug


And now saying.. jese tum gale milti ho, aschha nahi lagta.


The same thing when Pritam tried telling him about bathroom.. He was like, mujhe mat sikhao. Pandit mat bano tum.

And now when Sambhavna says the same thing, He wants to stop it all.

Why didn't he consider what Pritam was saying & at least tried clearing it out with Di once?


Ok she took you to bathroom First Time, But what about 2nd time. You could have said no.

And now also, you can say 'We need to take it slow'. Use WE


But no, Ab jab game bigad rahi hai, he wants to come out clean putting everything on Di. 👎🏼

I think he said "WE" about what they had to stop together...and YOU about what she had to stop doing.
HE didn't say no then...but he wants to say "no" now...and look at the reaction. He can't even tell her to stop doing a particular thing. How should he have said "No" by the way...(Imagine Diandra pulling him to the bathroom...and he shouldn't even say "stop taking me there"...somebody form this forum would give him a directive---he should have said "we must stop visiting the bathroom TOGETHER"...and unless he uses the same exact words as people on this forum direct him to---he can't even stop her)
What people man!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hppp

I think he did say.

But is it news...that Diandra is more aggressive? If a girl were dating a guy---and if he were more aggressive about throwing his arms around her in front of her family. She'd go and tell him to stop it...and that's acceptable for a woman to do that---but not for a guy if situations are reversed?
I don't understand how does this get wrong when a guy does the same thing, asking the more aggressive party to stop the demonstration!
It's not like he didn't accept his share. He realized she needs to be clearly told to stop an action.
So guys can't stop women from being more aggressive? Are we becoming too touchy about women "feelings" all the time. He wasn't talking about who owns what responsibility---he was asking her to stop kissing him.
As a woman, I find it suffocating. I want equality...not special treatment!..Not men having to observe protocols all the time. You treat us equal..we treat you equal! Anyone who is more aggressive gets the same treatment, same feedback..man or woman!
It's ironical when people say that a guy isn't helpless if a woman throws himself on him. But if the same guy talks to the woman about it--people are up in arms against him. How is he supposed to tell her to stop...telepathy??



why he got enlightened only after he was told by Sambhavna. BEfore it he was equally enjoying it. I have seen in many scenes he did not even bother to remove the lipstick mark.
Sonali Stopped Ali when she did not like the touch. She liked the same touch with Upen.

I did not see the same behavioral change from Gautam side.
He was okai to take hugs kisses and reprimanded Pritam for objecting it .

But all of a sudden he made Diandra a Pariah just because he is not looking good outside.


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