The way Gautam put all blame on Diandra very bad but I knew all the way that Gautam would do this when out of BB House. But this change came while inside the house because of all the outside feedback from friends. Btw I hate Gautam still I would say Diandra should not cry or shed tears cause when Pritam showed concern for her heart break after WKW, she was angry what he got do ,it's her matter.Then when Upen said Gutam should have answered , she said i don't want to know his stand only(which clearly indicated that she is only interested in her physical desperation being fulfilled even if he is fake). Then she said i am 35 yrs old women i know how to handle heart break or emotional stuff etc. And in Bathroom when Gaudi were discussing WKW she never insisted to know why he didn't answer the question himself which any sensible would do in order not be used but the thing is she had no problems in getting used, she behaved carefree and don't care about her how her character comes across on TV. This doesn't mean what Gautam did was not wrong.He should own his mistakes.
Dimpy was very logical when she tried to make him understand that Diandra is a carefree girl , no strings attached but if he has strings then he should not change himself to be like her and start flowing like her. U should not change your character for others. Then she said you know her better than any of us(Puneet and Dimpy), so he should know better how to handle this situation.
I think any contestant stuck in this situation should not have taken a prompt and immediate step like Gautam did. He should have tuned down slowlyand brought to pltonic friends level and exited gracefully.This way after coming out of BB he could have gracefully come out of the situation. Now, Diandra can easily play victim woman card and bring him down.
Sonali was much smarter, she played on her terms always and never allowed the guys to go beyond a point where she didn't want to very smartly. Watch her expressions when Gautam kissed her and when Upen tried to kiss her on lips. It was a total discouraging expression to other and a total"NO" signal.
Edited by justinnow - 10 years ago