Originally posted by: Khushi...
While I agree that it's not right what Gautam did I don't agree with the bolded part. That's like saying only women are women's own, that men don't matter.😕
This business about women are your own because they're the same gender and therefore you shouldn't blame them for things, is wrong. Wouldn't that make the women like the men that do wrong to them? Standing for what's right matters not about a persons gender.
So for me both Diandra and Sonali are doing wrong too, more so Sonali as she keeps switching between Upen and Gautam, and she admitted using Upen to make Gautam jealous. Gautam is also wrong for his behaviour, but why is him trying to make her jealous by using someone else worse than her using someone for the same reason? At the end of the day why is it OK for Sonali to use both men, yet they can't use her? Aren't they as bad as each other, or are we meant to support her just because she's 'your own?'
Sonali doesn't respect herself, so I'm sorry to say, but how can she expect respect from others? She is doing wrong. Women shouldn't be supported in their wrongdoings, that is part of the reason why some men disrespect them.
Basically my point is it shouldn't be men vs women, both should be blamed equally for the wrong they do and women shouldn't be excused just because they're women. And if a woman is allowed to do something, then a man should be allowed to do it too, or both shouldn't be allowed.