Gautam - Praneet Fight : Some Clarifications

Originally posted by: ms.red_bird

Ok so the award for the most brainless fight goes to this one! 😕 kya tha yeh!!! Typical pati-patni fight lag rahi thi. Pati comes home tired and patni complains about saas so pati gets annoyed and says dnt eat my brain I am tired. Patni gets upset says something pati reacts and the mahabharat starts!! 🥱

I think both were really stupid. Panditji ki problem hai that he has become very cranky in these past 6 7 weeks. It happens sabka nature hota hai. Panditji seems tired and frustrated hence loosing cool on each and everything and add a gigantic ego to that and we are all set for destruction. I know for sure he is not doing this for drama or for saving himself from elimination. This is his true self. It doesnt make him a bad person. Its just that he is mentally tired - of everyone and everything. He wants something new something different. For him change is what brings positivity.

Gautams problem is that he has become very defensive. The bedroom gang has cornered him so much in these weeks that he expects 110% loyalty from his P3. If anyone from P3 tries to say he is wrong then he freaks out thinking that he might loose them and acts out and add to this the desire to not let people see your vulnerability - leads to show ki arrogance ke i dnt need anybody. Those who dont agree think of the confession room part where Karishma said nobody likes you - the way he reacted. So typical of kids who do not want others to know that they also need love and care. And in return Gautam does the same for P3G.

Also one major reason for the phadda is that Praneet is lazy and laidback. He likes to take things easy. Safai karega but utni jitni absolutely zaruri ho. Gautam has OCD and wants perfection. My sister is just like Praneet and I like Gautam have OCD. My sister and I share a room and trust me we have very similar fights. Its natural because there is a difference in personalities. So its not like they hate each other. Its clear they dont. Its just that they get on each others nerves which happens between real friends too. No big deal.

In the fight yesterday Gautam was being his OCD self. Praneet knew that it was his responsibility to take out the kachra which he did not. Gautam thought kisi aur ki duty hai. If you watch carefully Praneet did not say ke kiski duty hai. Koi naam nai lia chup raha. He was so tired that he did not want to say ke meri thi and hear 2 3 taunts from Gautam who is OCD ka ghulam - cant help it (trust me on this one) Gautam saw Praneet doing it so he thought kisi aur ke hisse ka kaam Praneet kar raha hai. Wo tapp gaya ke kyun mera dost kare. He expected Praneet to be straightforward and jiski duty hai usko bole ke karo. Praneet ko pata tha uski hi duty hai so he tried to rafa-dafa the topic by saying ke harr baat mei kyun jhagda karna blah blah. But phir baat chalti chali gayi. To cover himself up Praneet started shouting. Gautam got pissed off ke he is not taking my side but bedroom gang ke saath khara mere baare mei baat kar raha hai. His anger was visible. Jaise wife ghussa kare ke pati jaa ke saas sasur nand se discuss kar raha hai jhagda 😆

All in all both were not wrong. Its just a clash of expectations and habits. Aur yeh chalti hi rahegi but take my word on it that they will remain friends.

Originally posted by: spkurmind

Bang on.all clear. Are you a doctor by chance,I too need a counselling, and I am serious.

Originally posted by: NathuPyare

Excellent analysis! I agree!

Praneet is lazy at times but when he works, he works! Just like any other LIBRAN... I understand his behavior because I'm a libran too... hell, I even share his b'day 😛

and...it so happens that I shared a room in hostel with another guy who's happens to be a Saggi like Gautam, and we used to quarrel just like them ... almost every day!

Initially others used to intervene in our fights but then they saw that even after every fight we would go to the hostel canteen together, and fight with anyone who would try to bitch about the other with either of us,...so, finally everyone stopped intervening, saying.." chhodo yaar, inka to yahi chalta rehta hai,..." 😆

Praneet and Gautam kinda remind of me of myself and that friend... fighting together but staying together!

Your post brought back good old memories... thanks! 😊

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

I agree with most of your points.

However, I wish people would stop labeling and projecting Gulati as a victim and trying to justify his strange behavior.

In my opinion, nobody really cornered him or did anything to him after the third week..specially after these guys came to know that Gautam is popular outside. Yes, they have had arguments but they were part of tasks etc. No need to label them as specific targeting of Gautam.

So why is this baggage being carried forward nearly half-way into the show?! If anything, you don't really see him trying to mix with the others (the reverse also holds true). The others might not be pally with him, but I haven't seen any victimization in the last month! Both sides argue, both sides pick fights in the task. How is Gulati the only one who is at the receiving end all the time!!

So why is his pathetic petty behavior, nit-picking behavior, trying to provoke people... being ignored or at best, being justified as a reaction to something which happened with him weeks back!!?

And have the HMs become suddenly dirty and unhygienic? Why didn't he find faults during th captaincy of others. This guy is plain bad news and a vindictive soul!