Gautam - Praneet Fight : Some Clarifications - Page 2

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

I agree with most of your points.

However, I wish people would stop labeling and projecting Gulati as a victim and trying to justify his strange behavior.

In my opinion, nobody really cornered him or did anything to him after the third week..specially after these guys came to know that Gautam is popular outside. Yes, they have had arguments but they were part of tasks etc. No need to label them as specific targeting of Gautam.

So why is this baggage being carried forward nearly half-way into the show?! If anything, you don't really see him trying to mix with the others (the reverse also holds true). The others might not be pally with him, but I haven't seen any victimization in the last month! Both sides argue, both sides pick fights in the task. How is Gulati the only one who is at the receiving end all the time!!

So why is his pathetic petty behavior, nit-picking behavior, trying to provoke people... being ignored or at best, being justified as a reaction to something which happened with him weeks back!!?

And have the HMs become suddenly dirty and unhygienic? Why didn't he find faults during th captaincy of others. This guy is plain bad news and a vindictive soul!

@blue ... that is exact part I did not get .. what was gautam trying to prove getting so hyper about kitchen stuff, it wasn't his duty neither he is captain that it would be his responsibility to find out why kitchen is in mess n why ppl didn't do their chores .. like outta blue he went hyper about messy kitchen, wasn't it yesteday or day before he was asking diandra about dirty towels also .. like really whats gotten into him all of sudden he wants to see to it cleaning is done ... n week ago he was complaining to puneet that upen made him clean garden

sorry but I dont buy it .. gg was doing faltu ki shor abt things that didn't even concern him .. & if it bothers him so much then bloody well make urself useful n do it urself!

Originally posted by: kritikakk

@blue ... that is exact part I did not get .. what was gautam trying to prove getting so hyper about kitchen stuff, it wasn't his duty neither he is captain that it would be his responsibility to find out why kitchen is in mess n why ppl didn't do their chores .. like outta blue he went hyper about messy kitchen, wasn't it yesteday or day before he was asking diandra about dirty towels also .. like really whats gotten into him all of sudden he wants to see to it cleaning is done ... n week ago he was complaining to puneet that upen made him clean garden

sorry but I dont buy it .. gg was doing faltu ki shor abt things that didn't even concern him .. & if it bothers him so much then bloody well make urself useful n do it urself!

and Salman himself said it today - Ghar mei sabse zyada kaam Gautam karta hai!

Originally posted by: ms.red_bird

Ok so the award for the most brainless fight goes to this one! 😕 kya tha yeh!!! Typical pati-patni fight lag rahi thi. Pati comes home tired and patni complains about saas so pati gets annoyed and says dnt eat my brain I am tired. Patni gets upset says something pati reacts and the mahabharat starts!! 🥱

I think both were really stupid. Panditji ki problem hai that he has become very cranky in these past 6 7 weeks. It happens sabka nature hota hai. Panditji seems tired and frustrated hence loosing cool on each and everything and add a gigantic ego to that and we are all set for destruction. I know for sure he is not doing this for drama or for saving himself from elimination. This is his true self. It doesnt make him a bad person. Its just that he is mentally tired - of everyone and everything. He wants something new something different. For him change is what brings positivity.

Gautams problem is that he has become very defensive. The bedroom gang has cornered him so much in these weeks that he expects 110% loyalty from his P3. If anyone from P3 tries to say he is wrong then he freaks out thinking that he might loose them and acts out and add to this the desire to not let people see your vulnerability - leads to show ki arrogance ke i dnt need anybody. Those who dont agree think of the confession room part where Karishma said nobody likes you - the way he reacted. So typical of kids who do not want others to know that they also need love and care. And in return Gautam does the same for P3G.

Also one major reason for the phadda is that Praneet is lazy and laidback. He likes to take things easy. Safai karega but utni jitni absolutely zaruri ho. Gautam has OCD and wants perfection. My sister is just like Praneet and I like Gautam have OCD. My sister and I share a room and trust me we have very similar fights. Its natural because there is a difference in personalities. So its not like they hate each other. Its clear they dont. Its just that they get on each others nerves which happens between real friends too. No big deal.

In the fight yesterday Gautam was being his OCD self. Praneet knew that it was his responsibility to take out the kachra which he did not. Gautam thought kisi aur ki duty hai. If you watch carefully Praneet did not say ke kiski duty hai. Koi naam nai lia chup raha. He was so tired that he did not want to say ke meri thi and hear 2 3 taunts from Gautam who is OCD ka ghulam - cant help it (trust me on this one) Gautam saw Praneet doing it so he thought kisi aur ke hisse ka kaam Praneet kar raha hai. Wo tapp gaya ke kyun mera dost kare. He expected Praneet to be straightforward and jiski duty hai usko bole ke karo. Praneet ko pata tha uski hi duty hai so he tried to rafa-dafa the topic by saying ke harr baat mei kyun jhagda karna blah blah. But phir baat chalti chali gayi. To cover himself up Praneet started shouting. Gautam got pissed off ke he is not taking my side but bedroom gang ke saath khara mere baare mei baat kar raha hai. His anger was visible. Jaise wife ghussa kare ke pati jaa ke saas sasur nand se discuss kar raha hai jhagda 😆

All in all both were not wrong. Its just a clash of expectations and habits. Aur yeh chalti hi rahegi but take my word on it that they will remain friends.

Originally posted by: ms.red_bird

I dnt know how most of you have missed him being a cleanliness freak. Maybe because I have seen it on previous live feeds. He was always finicky about it. The only reason why he liked Ali and supported him was because he thought Ali is doing well as a captain and making these housemates work and clean the house. Before any captain came the duties assigned were not really fixed so there was no accountability. Ali was the first captain and he ensured that sab insaan banen aur system aaye (despite not liking Ali one bit I really applaud him for👏👏) He was complaining because Garden is the heaviest duty. Bhari dopahar mei full sunlight mei Gautam Praneet and Ali used to work and clean it. No duty compares to it. But he did it well nonetheless so much so that Upen made him the captain coz he was so thorough and good.

I am not saying that he is not trying to prove diandra is a bad captain - he believes she is not worthy and she is doing nothing but justifying it with her negligence.


And eventhough he is not the captain but he lives in the house and he likes it clean so yes he will say it. Humare apne ghar mei bhi our mothers are the head of the household but jab bhi koi kachra hota hai ya kuch we all crib ke yeh kya hai xyz ko bolo yeh na kare blah blah. So I dnt know what is the big deal with it. Aisa to nai ke ghar chamakta saaf hai and Gautam brings kachra and scatters it and then blames diandra.

And its not just Gautam. Upen ki captaincy ke time even Ali used to complain alot about saaf safai. If you see in livefeeds camera mei ja ja ke bolta tha yeh saaf nai wo saaf nai. Gautam to atleast muu pe captain ko bol raha hai ke yeh saaf karwao.

with due respect to your opinion, however:
@blue ... is the only reason gautam is being more vocal about it now

2ndly .. every season this matter arises about so & so much is shown on livefeed but not in the episode, and obviously we all know that epis are just edited portions, but to come & say you really dont undestand why pp pin point this as you see more in lf [for which you are right in your place) however its also a fact that even mojority of voting audience just watches epis n makes their opinions on that basis ... and ppl will call it out for what it is n comes across as, irrespective of how much anyones tells them theres more to it then shown! so even though you may be right in ur place, but it cannot be the one and only valid defence of his action!

3rdly ... im aware ali has complained about upens's leniency as a captain when it came to chores ... but its also a fact both he n gautam made a fuss about amount of work given to them to do ... even if we accept that yes gg n ali are clean freaks n amount of work given is much more strenous, but there they are again at fault, rather then crib n rant about it, they should have voiced it directly to captain that they need more help ... and if it (uncleanliness) bothers them so much, then just zip it n do it!

ultimately the onux is on them, on one hand they want thgs done to their standards and expect all others to follow same, yet same time they want too toot their own horns the see how much work we are forced to do and crib n complain about same! it all just comes across looking like sympathy seeking! gautam takes the further by cribbing about kitchen which wasn't even his chore, what business is it of his to interefere in others responsibility n chores, if not to make captain look in bad light for not doing her job n hms look bad for not doing their chores properly!

n im not going to comment what others do in their homes, that's their issue if they want to crib n leg off on others ... but as far s i am concerned, I also dont like ppl messing up my room n kitchen, even if it is just for dusting & cleaning purposes, I still dont like others touching or moving my stuff, or discarding garbage inappropriatly, so whats the solution? I just do it myself because i am particular about it, I dont have the time n energy to create an issue that who did this mess or moved my order of things or didn't put garbage in trash can, its pointless of me to waste my time blaming others when ultimately il just end up correcting the wrong myself!
if you want somethg done right, do it youself! n in this case gautam did opposite, faltu ke bhakera khada kar diya!

edited: since you have brought up gg being such a clean freak, have a look at this uncensored video

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1485175478436956&id=1466265413661296&refid=17

here we can clearly see just how hygenic n clean freak gg is, check him out sitting ontop of kitchen counter, where food is prepared, with his shoes on, this seems to be after 1st day of building task, n not jst shoes on counter top but they are all in same clothes they wore during task!
so what level of hygiene is gautam showing here? this is same guy who made a fuss about kitchen being dirty?? how ironical!!