Originally posted by: neha2607
Arya did not ask her to fake romance. All he asked was that whether his hugging create problems in her personal life they have had a history. Not to forget he had a valid reason for it as well, which is completely logical.
But i failed to understand why the hell he wud like to hold hand or hug? For what purpose. has he come here to hold girls hand or hug them??
I m more amazed does in real life exes ask such questions?Before you say his question implies he was indeed looking for a romantic angle then that hugging and holding hands wala ques was completely logical. He wanted to be sure his closeness won't affct her relationship since even he has a friend who is insecure knowing their history. You r going to stay with your Ex under the same room...things could create problems btw the personals lives of these two.
When he recommended Minisha's name was he unaware that he had to live under same roof? If someone's present flame is insecure than there is no question of asking such thing. Simple pleasantries are enough.This is something guys ask in real lyf too when they need to interact wid their frnds who are in a relationship to avoid any problems.
SAlman had so many girl friend but he claimed on Cofffee with that after break up he maintains low profile or stay away from his old gfs. in real life too, ppl simply maintain a hi kind off relationship. u do a survey on forum n u will find hardly anyone ask their ex dat can he or she hold hand or hug. This is totally beyond logic🤓There are bf's/guys who are protective and don't like other guys being close to their gals even if it is in a friendly manner, whats so wrong is a guy asks a gal about this.
When in real life something like this is called looking out for a friend thn why is this such an issue inside the house ?
We are in such era where ppl study in co-ed system, many have relationships but no one ask such questions neither to their ex nor to classmates. It is not a matter of wrong or right its the matter of reasoning, necessity.Why is something that is treated so normally in real life being made into an issue.
Coz its not normal, ppl dont have problem of their being ex. ppl fall in relationships and develop new, but its very uncommon to ask such silly question?And you think a person would keep cool knowing how his image and character has been assassinated by someone whom he considered a good friend. Do you really think his simple denial and a private convo with Minissha would make people respect him or believe...after all he is that same spineless guy and someone who can't even stand for himself on nation TV when his iimage was being targeted is called what Amar was called in the previous season of BB.
O so Arya assassinated someone's character?Plus Minissha is no kid nor is she no naive that she misunderstood his convo...she is what 28+/30+ well-educated woman who knows how things work in the world and specially how media is about these issues. If she is so concerned about her image thn why did she even bring this topic up...You bear what you brunt. She had clearly called for it. Arya was angry and he had all the right to be. That's human nature...would you tolerate and maintain calm if you got to know someone is pointing at your character on national tv ...leave national tv waise bhi in normal life also no1 would keep calm and think rationally after what had happened.
U know what , in Indian society male does anything he gets scot-free, but a female is proven guilty. I feel ppl gets educated, but still mentality doesn't change.