They both demotivate each other. Statements bhi ek jaisi hain. I really wish k ye donon durr ho jaein is show main kuch negativity kam hogi donon side se otherwise I think I will be skipping their conv in near future.
But Manara's intention is not coz she is upset for Anurag.....she is only saying this coz Anurag is interacting with the people she is insecure of.