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Posted: 3 years ago
#11

Shamita is not hated for her dominating nature. But because of the favoritism she receives. If salman n BB would not have favored her so much may be her fan following would have grown a lot. Because ppl would have seen her both strong and weak side.

And every contestants whether its hina, Shilpa, Siddarth, Rubina etc had some lovers and some haters.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#12

BB game is equally important for everyone. And just one among all is served with everything required for the game without her earning it, no one is going to give two hoots about it... The main reason people are unable to connect with her is because of the pure bias channel, creatives n host showering her upon. Maybe it's not her mistake... At the same time... It's her mistake of drowning in this temporary glory where she forgets to treat other people with due respect. She is self centered whether her fans accept it or not. The extent of her self centerdness is that she even treats her rakhi Bhai as a trash. She loves preaching people but she cannot take the same back from anyone. Because she thinks she's righteous enough.. dude. Cut the crap. Strong women doesn't do that. They will speak and let others speak. They will criticize people and have the guts to take the same from others, when they are wrong.


About language, English is the global language and it's royal unlike our local languages which you have mentioned. Since she's the only one who speaks a word of Hindi in a sentence and everything else in English, people tend to have an opinion about her belonging to the elitisism. Elite is not a defamation. It just represents her belonging to a luxury class. (Contestants who speak other languages are also wrong in that matter as the rules are very clear that they must speak in Hindi)


She maybe classy and good looking in the external appearence. But her actions and words tell otherwise. She may speak fluent English but her intentions are always upbeat. The problem with her is she dislikes anyone who shows her the mirror. She just doesn't want to look at the darkness she have in herself.

I for once don't believe in looking down upon dominating women. Women are fierce and they must be equally treated. But one should not misuse the strength of being a women to the extent of being snooty...

You may have clearly not mentioned the name... But each sentence reflects the personality of a women you are trying to defend. And one is a saint to accept your views on the other people in the society who watches the show with a very different perspective.

Let's agree to disagree. We are never going to be in the same page.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#13

You are getting too much philosophical and emotional for privileged brat, and playing woman card for wrong reason. I guess you have no idea that Siddharth Shukla was called many names in this forum because Salman and channel were biased. It's not about gender, it's about partiality and Bollywood flop queen is above successful telly actresses attitude.


The comparison with Gauhar and Rubina is like comparing apple and orange. There was nothing easy or cake walk for them. They were judged by Salman in worst possible way. But if anyone dares to point finger at superstar shetty, they have to fight with Salman. Just treat her the way Gauhar and Rubina were treated, let her fight for herself, Salman should stop acting like shammo ka papa.


Only thing I agree, people should stop age shaming.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#14


The hate against BW is because talented 'outsiders' are ill treated , ignored & their movies snatched. SSR's movie - Drive - had an OTT release whereas while shooting theatre release was promised to him. This was before Covid. Can you imagine this happening with any movie of Varun, Alia or Sara? I can't. Not because they are more talented but because of being part of film families or 'insiders'. Have you seen the video of SSR being ignored by KJo at a party & Yami being ignored on India's Got Talent where she was called as a guest? That's the kind of treatment which most commoners hate.


Audience is familiar with many Punjabi words & also Tapori words thanks to BW. English is not as commonly understood esp. with the north audience. I agree with this point though - only Hindi should be allowed.


Siddharth was dominating. It was his way or highway. Same for Shilpa, Rubina. Deepika wasn't. Rahul Roy wasn't. I don't see gender issues here.


Afsana called Rajiv Uncle in the same breath she called Shamita Aunty in her interview. I don't understand why the uncle part is being ignored & aunty part highlighted. Afsana is age shaming everyone she felt went against her, not only one person. As far as I can understand, Rashmi referred to Shamita as a senior with respect. If she called Shamita old, she's wrong.


In the end, I see her as dominating, speaking her mind, well dressed, good looking, impeccably styled, always taking a stand, can persuade people in her way, and fixes relationships with people even after fighting: THESE ARE qualities of a winner. If you have not judged Siddharth Shukla, don't judge her too.


Now, I have not named anybody. But if you have these judgments & pseudo notions, you yourself will know it's about whoom!


Frankly, I can only one person as dominating in the entire BB15 house - didn't even need the 'her' clue. I doubt anyone can be more specific than that.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Everyone is judged on this show - it’s what they sign up for. Yes, their personal lives should be off limits - that I can agree, and also that unfortunately, much of social media doesn’t adhere to that caveat. But Shamita is not the only casualty of that - plenty of contestants bear the brunt of prejudice and pre-conceived notions.

But this thread itself is judging viewers and stereotyping their opinions - by claiming that the source of every anti-Shamita opinion is rooted in an irrational hate or agenda against Bollywood, or worse - in sexism and misogyny.

People will watch this show and have their own interpretations, opinions, likes and dislikes - as I’m sure you do.

I, for one, think that Shamita is neither classy nor strong - when one bothers to look beyond the superficial. And it is her conduct on this show that shapes my view - as opposed to any preconceived notions. Jhagda shuru hua nahi with mere mortals like Umar ke Shamita’s rather non-classy language and body language pops out, and her touted grace takes a holiday.

And despite a heavily privileged journey - started off privileged, barely spent a day in the jungle, has her dietary needs always taken care of, has had her brother, boyfriend and friend sent in respectively for her - not to mention Salman on the weekends. And yet - a little bit of negative feedback, and a couple of her relations leaving - is all it takes for her to want to quit and go home. That’s not strength - and I don’t measure strength on superficial levels.

She speaks her mind - indeed, she does. But the content of that and delivery of it - viewers will decide how they feel about it. You think it makes her a winner. I think she’s weak AF, orders people about, is hugely entitled, self-absorbed, rude and condescending, thinks the world is her due and treats people like specks of dirt unless they toe to her line. To each their own.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#16

Lol. Please stop playing the woman card for Shamita. She's being bashed because she's getting an obscene amount of favours from the channel and Salman. She was even sent out of the house so she could get feedback and come back better prepared! NOBODY is allowed to speak a word against her without being trashed by her personal bodyguard Salman.


You know all these very well. So playing 'Ohhhhh she's targeted because she's a womun' is nonsense.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#17

It's very easy to play woman card to give an excuse for treating everyone like dirt how convenient plz save this for something serious and deserving

She is being favoured big time and thats not that cant be hidden by any shaam daam dand bhed

Her only good thing is her dressing style like I said earlier bas dresses dekhne k liye we can visist her insta account not necessary to watch her rolling her eyes every now and then

She is no different from Koena Mitra in fact Koena was more successful but Shamita here is getting favoured just because she js someone's sister

Honestly I do find her real and better compared to Tejja bcoz Tejja bahut dramatic h

But Tejaswi ko bahut jyada sunaya and beizzat kiya jyada h on the show by BB and PC compared to that shamita ko 1 percent bhi nhi jabki she has also done wrong things in the show

It's quite obvious that ppl will see the partiality

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Posted: 3 years ago
#18

One thing I would like to add She earned her connection with Neha and Raquesh . BBOTT was always promoted as part of BB15. She made friends with Vishal in BB15 . Rajeev is her Rakhi brother but he is also a known personality in industry . Many contestants knew each other before BB . Rashmi n Tejaswi are besties . Kundra n Nishant were best friends . So the accusation is completely baseless

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Posted: 3 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: I_Have_A_Spine


Yes true... but men are judged at a lower benchmark than women. Especially a strongly opinionated woman, who doesn't change her voice to flirt with other men or flirt with Salman.


Why does she need to do any of that when she is getting all of that for free? She is living like a queen, getting all exceptions.


Claiming that public being turned off after seeing special favor and biasedness is Because she is a strong woman who doesn't flirt is the most dishonest take ever


A strong woman doesn't need biasedness or special diet or paid holidays to win.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harish111

None of the previous winners you named got special trearment, special diet, special holidays out of house, friends and relatives coming to help them. Thats the biggest turn off for the audience


In Guatams case for example, his potrayal was one man against the entire house, BB and salman all seemed against him and hence he got public sympathy. BB and salman scolded him every weekend


In shamitas case she is against others but no one dares be against her, BB and Salam support her and listen to her every need. They never scold her


You dont get audience sympathy that way. And janta is janardhan, you can call them biased or whatever, in the end they are the paying viewer


Sallu scolded Gautam every wkw? Really? Maybe I watched a different bb 8 then 😂😂


It was mostly Tanna who got bashed every wkw partly cuz of her own stupidity and partly cuz of bb and Sallu’s bias.


Gautam ever only got light slaps on the wrist lol


An entire task was dedicated to him Gautam city for God’s sake. Heck Sallu even bashed a crying Tanna just cuz she made the mistake of not finding his joke funny 😂😂


Ghanta Gautam was bashed lol


Edited by Kinginthenorth9 - 3 years ago

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