Justifying Jay's maa ki gali - Page 4

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Apparently, BC and C galli is okay with him but MC boldo toh pata nhi kya hojaega.

Also, the way he was saying sab Gadhe, bewakoof, Jaahil hai..............ab kisine waha bold diya.........ye sab unka trigger hai toh??

Btw. Those are gaalees too. 😂😂. Those words he uses for others 😂😂

Originally posted by: BeingBlunt

Wanted to write an essay but someone already did so here it is. 😆

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5253327#159042566

P.S. Jasoos bro. Didn't i tell you about this story being pushed? 😆

Housemates don't have the counter to this, they feel its genuine. 😆

The person having the counter is not in the show. 😆

P.S Whatever jay said today wasn't maa ki gaali at all. Lip reading se clear pata chalta hai. Pratik made a random scene of being ultra sensitive.

Bhai. See this thread.

The dil ka saaf sanskaree putra out and out lied about the gaalees. Btw. Isn’t calling others gaddha. Bewakoof etc he said in epi also gaalees 🙈🙈.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5254706#159126843

In this case both of them are wrong. Both of them are short tempered. Galli dena is wrong but in this show one has to stay strong.

Jo galli deta hai woh apni mentality dekha deta hai uss par aisy out of control hojana khud ko hurt karna that's not good.

People need to stop justifying and glorifying gaskins given to Maa’s. It’s too much. Show respect for your own mother because when you give a Gali like that, it shows your mentality, your thought process and the environment you come from. it was unnecessary today

Originally posted by: vibha28

But you cannot tell people how to act. You can only control your reactions. So if I don't like something I cannot expect you to cater to my whim and just don't do it. That is beyond my control but what is under my control is my reaction to what you say or do. Who cares if his mother's finds it offensive? I really don't know his mother and her reactions are none of my business. If she is just like her son and gets triggered then maybe mother should not have allowed her son to consider TV as a medium.

Pratik can have his feelings he is entitled to them, similarly Jay can have his feelings as he is entitled to them as well. It's the reaction that matters. This is a game - in this game if you are going to get triggered every time things do not go according to your wish then you are not going to go far.

In the UK and US, MF, F, and even cee you next tuesday is a very very common thing to say. No one cares - and rather than getting triggered over a bad word people should be getting triggered about real issues. Pratik can't have it both ways. He was harping on and on about intentions, perhaps it wasn't bad intention from Jay's end either? He never sought to clarify that so its irrelevant at this point what and how Pratik or his mother feels in my opinion.

Yes you can very well tell people how to act WITH YOU. If they don't want to listen then that's their choice but it also shows their character.

You're saying if someone is abusing you, you are not even going to tell them to not do it? Doesn't matter if they listen or not, you have to try at first.

"Mother shouldn't have allowed her son to do reality TV", do you even hear yourself what you're saying? Don't be so blind in defending your favorite. How could she stop her grown up son? His mother or sister are not playing this game. They are not part of Bigg Boss. So this is a dirty game Jay is playing. I don't even think he's playing a game. I just think he's an arrogant piece of shit showing his true face.

It doesn't matter how normal abuses are in US, UK or Antarctica. Abusing someone's mother or sister is not justified at all. You are dragging someone's family while fighting with them. It shows your internalized misogyny.

If it wasn't a bad intention then Jay should've apologized or at least said that he didn't mean anything to Pratik's mother. But he didn't. He justified it by saying he said nothing wrong. Trigger ho ya jo bhi ho, this shows Jay Bhanushali in poor light.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Yes you can very well tell people how to act WITH YOU. If they don't want to listen then that's their choice but it also shows their character.

You're saying if someone is abusing you, you are not even going to tell them to not do it? Doesn't matter if they listen or not, you have to try at first.

"Mother shouldn't have allowed her son to do reality TV", do you even hear yourself what you're saying? Don't be so blind in defending your favorite. How could she stop her grown up son? His mother or sister are not playing this game. They are not part of Bigg Boss. So this is a dirty game Jay is playing. I don't even think he's playing a game. I just think he's an arrogant piece of shit showing his true face.

It doesn't matter how normal abuses are in US, UK or Antarctica. Abusing someone's mother or sister is not justified at all. You are dragging someone's family while fighting with them. It shows your internalized misogyny.

If it wasn't a bad intention then Jay should've apologized or at least said that he didn't mean anything to Pratik's mother. But he didn't. He justified it by saying he said nothing wrong. Trigger ho ya jo bhi ho, this shows Jay Bhanushali in poor light.

I am sorry you are very contradicting in your response and I shall try but it appears you are very emotional lol 😂

Saying a bad word is not abuse and if that was the case then why did Pratik swore in OTT? Didn’t he care then? So it is abuse only when others do it but when he does it that’s okay? So who is being a blind fan now? Additionally, abuse is subjective. India a land where women die daily of domestic abuse and dowry drama and are not safe at night now that is abuse not saying F***K to a man child.

If someone abuses me I distance myself from the situation and then I involve authorities, I don’t start hitting myself and cry me a river in the corner. However if someone said MF to me I will shrug because I am strong enough to know it’s irrelevant. Also, it will hypocritical of me to ask you to not say a bad word when I was saying it myself.

On the one hand you say how can a mother stop her grown up son but in the same breath you also say that mother will get offended? Huh? So Jay should care about Pratiks mother when Pratik mother herself has zero control over her own kid? Okay that’s super confusing.

So are you saying Pratik never swore in OTT? Didn’t say BC? Ever? Well if he can do it so can others. It’s called Karma. Also, it appears your worldview is very sheltered because if you will get offended every-time someone will swear you will be offended a lot.

Pratik himself didn’t apologise properly until he got raked over by Salman and Jay hasn’t done anything wrong so why should he? And no he is not my favourite at all. I like most of them except cry baby Pratik, Nishant, and love birds. But this is a wrong battle like every battle that Pratik picks.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

What did Jay say that abused Pratiks mothers? Last I recall it’s Pratik in the show not his mother and I don’t see Gali a bad word at all. You do that’s your prerogative. We can agree to disagree but I don’t care much for Pratik or at this point his mother who gets offended apparently as easy as her son. Maybe Pratik can leave the show and be somewhere where no one will abuse him or anyone else.

I find it funny because it is and yes there is physical and mental abuse but that’s the part of game. Like they say if you are not going to s**t then get off the pot. Now don’t say I swore at you 🙄

I am not a fan anything blind or otherwise I just dislike Pratik and his enemy are my friends therefore if someone were to really say something then I wouldn’t care either.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

I know it wasn't Maa ki or Faa ki gaali from what I am reading on other posts. Pratik as usual wants to cry wolf and gain sympathy. No one is abusing anyone's mother maybe Pratik is abusing his own mother by making her a focal point almost every time, Maybe Jay should break the latch off the bathroom door when Pratik mum's inside, I guess that is more Pratik's cup of tea,

No that wasn't meant for you and in fact compared to Pratik you appear to be more put together as you said it won't matter to you - that's exactly how it should be. Thank you for proving my point, I appreciate it.

Pratik for me is persona non grata so if someone wants to abuse him I literally give a D***M about it.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

You know what is the strange thing I find in these arguments?? That gali is not a bad word... If that is the case then why in anger or to throw insult people use 'gali' ... N why the more anger they have , the more bad word they use.... If gali is not a bad word then why not use 'biryani' 'roti' etc in anger

'gali' used in anger is meant to hurt someone like body shaming or age shaming... then why body/age shaming are considered so bad , they are also a word, person shouldn't be bother about it.... there are terms like mental harrasment that means no body is harming physically but only with words.....

N the gaali on mother, sister n daughter in anger is actually given to that person+his mother/sister/daughter whether people accept it or not doesn't matter.... Coz it is same like earlier in wars, the male who used to win the battle used to rape the mother/sister/ daughter to shame the male of the house, .... N now with time, mysogynist just change that physical abuse with words... People need to stop bringing someone mother/daughter/sister in their fight intentionally or unintentionally n atleast stop justifying it that it's not a bad word

Gaali - MC

Abuse - Teri Maa xyz hai.

The difference is ki Gaali is given to the person in front of you.

It is meant for only that person.

Abuse personal ho sakta hai. Which is not good. Agar Jay ne aisa kuch kaha hota to obviously he would have been wrong.

Samajh me aya difference??

I feel bad that I need to explain this difference.