Jasmine is no Doormat. She is a very sharp woman ( I am calling her woman as she is no fragile, abla nari, she knows very well what she is doing). Her cry baby acting, is a pretence. Salman was trying to help Jasmine, but he didn't realise that he is over doing it, and they were on national TV. Jasmine understood the situation and it was then only Salman realised that Jasmine doesn't need his help.
If Jasmine says Aly isn't bullying her. That doesn't mean she is doormat or she doesn't get his bullying. It just means that Jasmine does not want to make it a big issue and she has things under control.
She expressed this well when Salman asked her whether Aly & Rahul bullies Rakhi. Her answer was no one can bully Rakhi she gives befitting replies. This only highlights the fact that she understands Aly's nature and she has no issue with it.