Originally posted by: Uma2010
Absolutely right! To superficial or less passionate people their signals are totally unreadable and even macabre! Siddharth and Sana have a charted pathway completely their own that we shouldn’t ever benchmark ourselves or others and trying to understand them through the normal pair of lens is only going to be unsuccessful.
For me, the more amazing thing is that Siddharth saw through her and identified her as his on Day 1. His inner self had the wisdom gained through the years and his search had been extremely painful and tedious. And so, when he found her, he just found her. No questions. And hence nobody could question him on her- his affection or fondness or whatever for her was unquestionable- how can anybody question one’s own? His destination was truly clear for him and no longer foggy, but whether he could or would reach it or not was always his concern and frustration.
For Sana, her search for her person had just begun since some years- she has been hurt by life, but lesser by relationships per se and hence her search was more for someone who would understand and protect and play and just be for her always. She never realised the depth of her own need for love beyond what she dared to dream and wish. And when love did come avisiting her, and in what force it did, by god, she would never let go for the life of her. She too had identified her one. For life and lifetimes again.
There are many true relationships like theirs amongst us- unconditional love. We just don’t get to watch these couples and their everyday journeys onscreen. Those of us who have it in our lives, identify immediately. Those who have hope for the same, believe and hope ardently. Those who have borne pain first or second hand and lost hope, have too much of negativity and recognizing Sidnaaz is not something their ego would allow. Their sense of perception has been marred. What one doesn’t have nor can’t, cannot be.
Amazingly Amazingly put, Uma. I couldn’t add more even if I wanted to.
@Bold- I haven’t really seen something so special come to life. They had both equally worked together to come into and sustain this relationship.
Initially acting according to their true natures and then to the end, effectively taking each other’s personalities as if wearing a long forgotten, but cherished, pair of jeans and tshirt.
The Episode 30, if you would go back, you can actually see the provident changes coming soon. It was actually so so clear if you look at the end right from the beginning. It couldn’t have been any other way. Those saying it is one sided or mere friendship, how thick they’d have to be to not recognise something so profound and simple at the same time. You cannot un see or ignore something so terribly unique and organic.
I sometimes really wonder how solos must deal with relationships in their own life. It is easier to accept them together than to find pointers into believing that they aren’t together or in love.