Rashmi's way of handling shukla

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Posted: 5 years ago
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So Rashmi was bashed in wkv for going against Shukla and shukla made her life hell in the house....so she is handling it in other ways.


Gauhar was bashed in wkv and Tanisha and salman made her life hell in the house.... Gauhar did not adopt an approach towards Tanisha and armaan the way Rashmi had adopted.

I would have liked rashmi taking shit from Salman and not being with Shukla the way she is now.

Rashmi is timid but she is also darpok.

She is a good person but lacks spine.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I don't think she should fight where it is not needed. If she can plainly ignore she does. If she can't ignore she gives back. She knows shukla much better than any other people out there so she knows better how to handle him without fighting. Har action pe reaction dena zaroori nahi hota. I guess she prefer her peace of mind by letting go rather than grudges rakhi aur khud ka hi dimaag kharab karo. Gauhar and Rashami are two different people and their way of handling people are different. Rashami has spine and that's why she is antishukli till the end. But as an mature person har baat pe khun garam nahi karna wo janti hai.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Being a Rashami fa I wont agree fully... but toa certain extent I would have liked her to put SHukla in his place...which is gutter.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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If Rashmi did'nt have a spine she would not have maintained her anti-Shukla stance till the very end, even with all the insults, harrasment and humiliation.

Why are we pretending that she suddenly became BFF with him cause she has not. She does reply too all his taunts with taunts of her own, she just does that with a smiling face. Gauhar and Rashmi are both different individuals,so why would their approaches be the same?. Rashmi is more of an introverted and soft spoken person, and there is nothing wrong with that.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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The problem is that people believe being strong is only when you look very tough, try being extra straight forward and assertive.


No you can be soft yet strong. Mental strength is a state of mind. This is her nature. This is how she is.


I think Rashmi has done best given her situation. There is no point in swimming against the current when you know you it isn't possible. Her fight was not only with Shukla but with Chanel, makers.


Gauhar's situation was very different. I think only Salman used to favor Tanisha because of his bond with kajol.


For Rashmi situation is more complex.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Debamalya

Being a Rashami fa I wont agree fully... but toa certain extent I would have liked her to put SHukla in his place...which is gutter.

If you were a Rashami fan, you wouldn't agree lol.

TM literally calls. Rashami spineless and darpok. And you agree, being a self proclaimed Rashami fan. 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I agree with you I hate the way she is so normal with shukla why can't she ignore that guy completely

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Posted: 5 years ago
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i sometimes feel she still loves him...so much she bends back wards for him even after soo ugly fights...


I sometimes feel she is good with sana..because she knows sana will be in touch with Sid, so she herself can be in loop ......


I could be wrong though .....bcoz she is cordial with others even though they target her so much!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: colors_123

i sometimes feel she still loves him...so much she bends back wards for him even after soo ugly fights...


I sometimes feel she is good with sana..because she knows sana will be in touch with Sid, so she herself can be in loop ......


I could be wrong though .....bcoz she is cordial with others even though they target her so much!

She literally had blocked him from contacting her. 😆


Also, why on earth would she need Sana to remain in loop, when they have a great number of common friends already.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Rashmi is the most mature contestant inside the house......she has taken a lot in life....and her relation with sid joh bhi hain is not even a thing in comparison. As rash said woh sid ki tarah zindagi bhar pampered nahi rahi hain.....uske experiences bahut different hain. And i personally believe ....people who have strength to forgive people are not spineless.....i have high regards for such people.....it takes strength to forgive and move on.....lad toh koi bhi sakta hain......ladne se ho kya jaata hain .....kisi ko kuch nahi milta.......maturely talking and trying to sort out in worse situations is something i myself admire in life.....kam kar paate hain log par karna chahiye. I strongly believe in an eye for an eye makes the world blind.....being nice with others is imp....i like her approach.....when he is cordial with her ...she is cordial....when he passes taunts.....she passes taunts.....when he fights....she fights. I like what sid said today too .....ki if you are friends and things went wrong.....then he believes ki end aise karo ki ek doosre ko mooh dikhake nikalna na pade......i like that for this reason ....he planned a meet and cleared things out. Though i wish yeh cheez woh asim ke saath bhi apnaye....joh hona tha.....ab ho gaya......if you dont wanna be friends.....its okay....i get that.....but be cordial....dont take grudges with you from the show.

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