Madhurima also toxic... ALL ppl toxic

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Posted: 5 years ago
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After seeing the toxic men and their behavior yesterday -- donot want to give a free pass to women also.


Madhurima is a classic toxic woman abuser. SHe gave excuses saying Vishal was pressing all her buttons so she reacted. BUT ... wasnt she also pressing all his buttons? Did he react the same way? She is another example of blame the victim.


Hated how this incident was used to make a joke of Vishal. It should have been called out strongly as well as men abuse is really not talked about - not only in India but in the world.


This whole season was just of toxic relationships. Sid, Paras for his in the house and out of the house relationship, Asim no less fr how he spoke to HImanshi when she was teasin him with Vikas. Just tht she wasnt here long - God knows how much worse that would have got. These men want absolute control of the women they are with to the extent of what they do and who they should speak to.


Then, Arhan the fraud, Himanshi and Chow fr how he dumped her over a show and how easily she went into a new relationship despite being in a 9 year old one where she was abt to get married and the famous Sid Naaz.


Hope this season would be a lesson to see and realize how toxic relationships are, but sadly many seem to be praising them from the angle of how the women is only good when she takes all the shit and still stays with the abuser.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I dnt agree abt Asim he is vocal abt everything from day1....vo aisa hi hai usko jo baat nhi psnd vo bol deta hai...tumhare liye vo disrespect hai to no comments...tumhe insaan ki pechann hi nhi fir...Agar vo kuch na bolta to log jaror bolte joru ka ghulam nd all...Vo prank acha nhi tha islye vo gussa hua thoda sa but bd mein he sorted the matter...Its nrml...Isko toxic nhi bolte apna opinion rkhna bolte hai...Udhar himanshi glt thi to bolna bnta tha...Asim ki jis k saath bhi shaadi hogi vo bht lucky hogi usko palko pe baitha k rakhega aur apna opinion bhi dega jb usse bura lagega...Uske saath khada bhi rahega...Tumne bs ye prank wali baat notice kri jo itna vo Himanshi k liye khada rha vo nazar nhi aaya tumhe had hai...Dnt compare these boys with our Asim...he is lot better than them....Usko apni limits pta hai...Himanshi 1 month rah k bhi gyi hai tb bhi Asim vaisa hi tha koi change nhi aaya hai...Asim knws how to respect woman nd make them feel special ❤️

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: garima22

I dnt agree abt Asim he is vocal abt everything from day1....vo aisa hi hai usko jo baat nhi psnd vo bol deta hai...tumhare liye vo disrespect hai to no comments...tumhe insaan ki pechann hi nhi fir...Agar vo kuch na bolta to log jaror bolte joru ka ghulam nd all...Vo prank acha nhi tha islye vo gussa hua thoda sa but bd mein he sorted the matter...Its nrml...Isko toxic nhi bolte apna opinion rkhna bolte hai...Udhar himanshi glt thi to bolna bnta tha...Asim ki jis k saath bhi shaadi hogi vo bht lucky hogi usko palko pe baitha k rakhega aur apna opinion bhi dega jb usse bura lagega...Uske saath khada bhi rahega...Tumne bs ye prank wali baat notice kri jo itna vo Himanshi k liye khada rha vo nazar nhi aaya tumhe had hai...Dnt compare these boys with our Asim...he is lot better than them....Usko apni limits pta hai...Himanshi 1 month rah k bhi gyi hai tb bhi Asim vaisa hi tha koi change nhi aaya hai...Asim knws how to respect woman nd make them feel special ❤️


This is the excuse everyone has been giving abt aggressive men through all seasons. He is showing his anger so he is so correct and right. And aggressive men are praised on the pretext of ohhh they are being so real.


Yes people are allowed to get angry but there is a way to express anger. None of the men including Asim are doing it decently. Just tht Himanshi was there for a short time but I think this relationship would have also progressed to the same over possessive, control freak types like the others in the house. Even the prank was not all that bad to have reacted that way. Making silly excuses and allowing men to get away with such behavior is why we get the "typical" Kabir Singh kind of Indian men.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I agree with the TM. Toxic relationships have been the highlight of this season. Be it man or woman, no one should be given a free pass to abuse/demean the other person involved in the relationship. And the victim who's taking it without raising her/his voice is to be blamed equally. Aggression can be used wisely in the game. Just shouting around, showing one's prowess doesn't give you an A-certificate for being a strong contender.

What I've noticed is that the contestants in this game have taken out their frustration on their respective partners/friends in the guise of friendship/love, whereas its clear domination IMO. Being jealous/possessive to some extent is sweet, but when it goes overboard it's not healthy for any relationship.

I hope the sufferers in these relationships realise and walk out of the relationship sooner than later for their own sanity

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Posted: 5 years ago
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You evict a person for violence and then make fun of the same violence. She is the one who always started with her taunting. If you can't digest something then don't do it.


We had some violent women this season. Even Mahira and Sana slapped the guys many times.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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And many of these toxic relationships are look up to and promoted on national television 🤪

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Gaslighting, demeaning and encouraging delusions is not the same as getting angry with a silly prank.


The reason we call out Sid, Sana, Paras to an extent and Madhurima are because their behaviour has consistently been toxic and unreasonable. This is not the template of relationships that we should be promoting.


It's not just with Sana, Sid has done this with friends too (recently with Aarti) - where he mocked her and told her not to use her brains among other things.


IMHO the three worst culprits are Sid, Sana and Madhu. Paras is an egocentric fool and Rash is an emotional fool to be taken for a ride by a cheat.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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This is s clear indication that it's not always a guys mistake when a relationship goes south.

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