(Meta-topic) Sudden burst of hate on this forum (especially for Asim) - Page 3

Originally posted by: sahisri

In this same forum,

Shukla was bashed

Rashmi was bashed

Shehnaz was bashed

Mahira was bashed

Like asim but recently the name calling of fans and pointing out particular members of the forum or particular fandom is 👎🏼

Share your opinions openly and dont point out others , no fandoms are victims nor villains

Simple: When you can't take it dont give it....

report who personal attacks and dont encourage them 🤷‍♀️

agree

I am seeing more hate for himanshi and rashmi... Asim is not as liked here as he used be but he is still far away from being disliked...hate to bohot dur ki bat hai😆

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

I'm very sad to say this - but it doesn't feel like that same forum I used to know, with the wonderful people I've had countless interesting, funny, frustrating, calming, reassuring, and heart-touching conversations.

This part is absolutely true. I have had so so much fun here with members although we were support different contestants in different seasons.

And even though the contestants were bashed, the members were very polite to each other and everyone’s views were respected, Sadly that has changed and so I don’t post here. There is so much rudeness.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

I am seeing more hate for himanshi and rashmi... Asim is not as liked here as he used be but he is still far away from being disliked...hate to bohot dur ki bat hai😆

Asim is disliked her quite a bit now and all the dislike topics are coming from a Certain section of people!

Rashmi right now is the most liked contestant here and she’s liked by both Rashmi and Shukla fans- and some fans like me who love Asim but still really like Rashmi( despite being a little disappointed with behaviour of some of her fans).

About Himanshi- you’re right though. She probably is more disliked her than even Shefali J and Mahira.

Originally posted by: ..WitchGrave..

No this is not usually the way here. J don't know what happened but I don't like it. I for one never make demeaning post and expect same from others. Here now it's not about discussion more like neecha dhikho .

Their is a reason this is discussion forum it's more about debating putting your views forward . I don't like Twitter because their anyone can come and tell you anything !

Here their are/were rules . Now hardly anyone follows rule ! I saw a post saying tharki Asim just bcoz he has a habit of wetting his lips - but that's it that little thing makes Asim tharki . I was severely disappointed by the behaviour of forum members !

Bold- agree 100%

I agree

See it's always nice to have a civil discussion on sane topics !

What i have noticed is :

1. There are not many people who make posts BUT a couple of them who make MANY POSTS ! SO, it's not like many have changed priorities...It's more of few trollers who are going all out with their hatred for Asim and hence creating so many posts agains him....ratio is still the same....4 Asim fans making let's say 6 posts....2 Anti Asim fans creating 10 posts

2. Few fans have started nitpicking every small mistake of Asim ...which u have already explained....I mean if he is wetting his lips by his tougue he is THARKI. he's fragile, uska zyada ho raha hai....To be honest I avoid such topics coz what are u even going to discuss about ..Blind hatred is toxic for all.

3. Another thing...those few who create MANY HATE POSTS have only one agenda - to spread hatred about Asim ....If u will read their posts u will get to know know what I am talking about...u can't argue with them ..it's a waste of time

4. I am not even sure how many actually watch the episode...when i read few comments I feel like they haven't watched the episodes and reacting on basis of edited videos and updates

5. Rashmi - Asim fans had a fall out I think....so now it seems many Rashmi and Shukla fans have joined their hands in spreading hate about Asim ...I feel this is the major thing that has happened this week ......Also it's astounding that few are willing to support Shukla just so that they can put Asim down...Anway to each his own

As far as I am concerned ....I usually like making posts about my fav...also like doing civil discussions till the point i feel it's worth it..post that i prefer ending the discussion on a civil note if the i feel there isn't any concrete conclusion and the other person is simply stretching the topic ....I also like to ignore blind hate posts ..well I try to ignore for the most part :)

But must say - It's a well written post 👍🏼

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

Okay guys, first of all don't accuse me of being delusional here 😆 I am an Asim fan and this is my Asim-centric perspective. But I hope all fandoms read this and give me some honest thoughts. I am very well aware that Asim made some mistakes this week, especially his reaction with the Rashmi/Himanshi thing. But it was a small thing in the larger picture. Clearly neither of them have taken it to heart and I'm sure they must have talked it out later too, judging by how they were still friendly after the incident. But just look at the number of threads, woh bhee on f**king ridiculous topics:

- Asim ka bohot zyada horaha hai

- Asim arrogant hogaya hai

- Asim said "I don't owe them anything" (An extremely common phrase that people say all the time)

- Intense scrutiny, like his smile after Sana and Shukla argued (by the way, this is coming from fans of the man who famously smirks and chuckles when others are getting blasted on WKV, most notably when Rashmi's entire personal life blunder was exposed on TV).

Two things I've noticed. Firstly, these threads are usually (not always) made by newbies or groupbies. Secondly, they don't last very long, because they aren't topics that prompt a deep discussion. Ab "Asim ka zyada horaha hai" pe kya bat karein? 😆

I fell in love with this forum (and you amazing people - including from other fandoms) because this was a place to have well thought-out, interesting, deepdive conversations about the housemates. There were plenty of times when I, as an Asim fan, have criticized him. I still remember last week one of the users (Oye Chup Kar) started a genuinely beautiful thread because they could no longer support Sid, and so many people described having gone through the same thoughts at different points in the season. It prompted an honest conversation about subjective viewing, tolerance thresholds, and it was lovely to see people be mature and admit to having evolved opinions based on more and more information coming every week. There have even been really deep, heartfelt threads started by Shukla fans defending his intentions and character, while still acknowledging his natural instinct for violence & bullying.

I'm very sad to say this - but it doesn't feel like that same forum I used to know, with the wonderful people I've had countless interesting, funny, frustrating, calming, reassuring, and heart-touching conversations with. Something happened about 2 weeks ago. Now, its just full of insults. There will be a thread called something like "Asim is heartless," with one reply saying "Sid Paras ka chela hai" and another saying "Chuslet hai hee ehsaan faramosh," and yet another saying "Rashmi aunty is too old to star as a lead." Where are the discussions? Where are the topics that make you think, and the replies that make you rethink?

What is going on? Does this always happen around finale time? (My first time being active on this forum this season) Has social media PR activity reached IF as well? Are people just trolling for their own comic effect?

i dont knw much abt ths bt FORUM has bashed sidharth the most for reasons and No reasons called him POS, Thukla , Nasheeda, Ganda , his fan given name as Shuklis n all .. anyway

no fandom should cross line ..i agree

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

IMO as the finale nears, the most popular HMs with chances to win will be more viciously attacked, their smallest matters blown out of proportion and their every moment scrutinized.

During such times, what irks me most is that some really horrid things done by a HM who's no threat gets completely overlooked or barely touched n the other strong HMs even innocent gestures highlighted, often falsely.

One has to decide which posts topics one wants to discuss about n yup don't give fodder to the trolls.

Agreed. But there is a new trend of IF members being bashed or being insulted, which was not there before.

bold - correct. Avoid replying to certain threads.

Originally posted by: anshvi

I agree

See it's always nice to have a civil discussion on sane topics !

What i have noticed is :

1. There are not many people who make posts BUT a couple of them who make MANY POSTS ! SO, it's not like many have changed priorities...It's more of few trollers who are going all out with their hatred for Asim and hence creating so many posts agains him....ratio is still the same....4 Asim fans making let's say 6 posts....2 Anti Asim fans creating 10 posts

2. Few fans have started nitpicking every small mistake of Asim ...which u have already explained....I mean if he is wetting his lips by his tougue he is THARKI. he's fragile, uska zyada ho raha hai....To be honest I avoid such topics coz what are u even going to discuss about ..Blind hatred is toxic for all.

3. Another thing...those few who create MANY HATE POSTS have only one agenda - to spread hatred about Asim ....If u will read their posts u will get to know know what I am talking about...u can't argue with them ..it's a waste of time

4. I am not even sure how many actually watch the episode...when i read few comments I feel like they haven't watched the episodes and reacting on basis of edited videos and updates

5. Rashmi - Asim fans had a fall out I think....so now it seems many Rashmi and Shukla fans have joined their hands in spreading hate about Asim ...I feel this is the major thing that has happened this week ......Also it's astounding that few are willing to support Shukla just so that they can put Asim down...Anway to each his own

As far as I am concerned ....I usually like making posts about my fav...also like doing civil discussions till the point i feel it's worth it..post that i prefer ending the discussion on a civil note if the i feel there isn't any concrete conclusion and the other person is simply stretching the topic ....I also like to ignore blind hate posts ..well I try to ignore for the most part :)

But must say - It's a well written post 👍🏼

This! 100%.

The need to ignore is very important now!

Also people should concentrate on making more positive posts than negative ones!

Originally posted by: Abruh

i dont knw much abt ths bt FORUM has bashed sidharth the most for reasons and No reasons called him POS, Thukla , Nasheeda, Ganda , his fan given name as Shuklis n all .. anyway

no fandom should cross line ..i agree

I agree! Name calling contestants is bad. But worse is name calling and targeting fandoms!

I’ve always defended the same even when Sid fans have been questioned for liking Sid, coz at the end of the day everyone has their opinion and perspective even if the other person doesn’t understand it.

I like how you post- you’re generally so respectful. Also your cat was so cute!