Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho
okay! So I’m going to counter these by logic coz you’re willing to listen I guess!
1. Crybaby and sympathy? Okay! Firstly Asim has never cried on the show ever. Also sympathy seekers are what is called Mahira on the show! Woman dishes out but the moment someone says a word to her, she starts the waterworks!
Also anytime Asim actually complains the whole bully gang start screaming crybaby and sympathy! You know Asim is the one person who could have actually played this card if he wanted to, but he didn’t. Anytime he’s getting bullied- he keeps fighting back with his bullies even if it’s 5 vs 1. Also sympathy seeking would happen if he like GG went an sat in a corner and cried about how he’s getting bullied for the cameras! Has he ever done that. No. Has someone done that. Yes! Sana has and Sid has in the CR recently!
2. Pushing things beyond a limit- alright. Let’s tackle this one!
let’s just talk about yesterday’s episode for the same. First it started with Paras trying to shift blame of task ruination on Asim which is Paras forte in the game. Sid joined in coz Asim decided to blame Sid for one of the tasks. Agreed Asim’s shoe thing looked bad but Sid nullified it coz he went on Baap again. The whole gang tried to bully Asim again and if he didn’t fight with them there and then he would have been scapegoated instead of paras. So he stood up for himself!
Also Sid threatened to break his face and called him the biggest girl in the house. ( instigation?)
After that Shefali Chadhoed on him and was almost on top of him. He stepped back and then Mahira screamed at him too. Both Shefali and Paras passed homophobic comments on Asim during the fight.
After that Paras came to talk to Asim and Asim said I’m in no mood, but na that’s okay coz Paras ka mood banta hai but Asim ka nahi. Later when Asim went to Paras in the kitchen Asim is accused of instigation. Anyway Paras Asim argument, Sid butts in and threatens Asim again and then both Sid and Paras say the vilest thing - that they both will celebrate Asim’s death with giving each other perfumes! ( where do you categorise this)
So I’ll tell you what I’ll accept Asim does answer back when bullied and he doesn’t stop, even if it’s 4 vs 1 most times! The whole group of Sid, Paras, Mahira and SJ instigate him and bully him all the time and he does Give it back in the same dose- he does poke too but the difference is 1 man poking 4 people singularly against 4 people bullying, poking one person all at once! So if he overstretches things I don’t blame him after the incessant bullying he’s enduring.
Also if I was in Asim’s place and had to handle this kind of behaviour of 4 people bullying me constantly. I would have had a mental breakdown or gone batshit crazy. I’ve had some personal experiences on both side of the fences- growing up in a Boarding school- where I’ve supported bullies( horrible decision in retrospect but I was a kid) and then been bullied by the Same people I supported!