My two cents on Sidnaaz
So its kind of clear Sid is pissed at Sana for Paras thing and not GG and KA. GG and KA kaand might have made him jealous but not angry and hurt. What I think both Sana and Sid are behaving like teenagers in love and they are hopeless cases. Both are at fault for not being mature and having a sensible conversation like a 39 and 26 year old. Sana may act kiddish but she listens to Sid if he conveys something clearly and not in riddles.
Few days back Sid said ātum kisi ki nahi hoā, ātum un logon se baat karti ho jinhone mere bare mein itna bura bhala kahaā. (i.e, Rashmi and Asim). But then Sid talks to Paras and Shefali who clearly disrespect Sana and cannot stand her.May be it hasnāt happened in front of Sid but Sana has said that she has problem with Paras and mahira . But Sid thinks itās because she has feelings for Paras that is why she wants to avoid them. Again communication gap and lack of understanding between Sid and Sana.
Coming to the statement ki tum apne maa baap ki nahi ho. Sid is pissed that Sana forgave Paras and said attachment word again even after knowing he disrespected her father. After this Sid strongly believes she is not a loyal person. But Sanaās intentions were not the same. She just didnāt want Paras to feel demotivated and affect his game coz she understands this show is important for people. Here Sana was just being humane. Though she should have avoided the attachment word. It went against her. But didnāt Sid is doing the same thing. Rashmi called him bh****d on his face thrice and also said āteri maa ghar pe khana banati hai wo bhi naukrani hui kyaā. Isnāt Sid is also being cordial to Rashmi now. He also went to the extent of consoling her during the family task coz he knows she has disturbed relationship with her family. Sid was genuinely kind and caring towards her that day. Isnāt Rashmi is also Sidās ex just like he believes Paras is Sanaās ex (although itās not applicable). If Sid can be kind towards Rashmi after she said many things about his character, personal life and family members then why different rules for Sana. Sana even went onto the extent of calling Paras her brother in front of Sid. Rashmi is actually his ex and Paras is just a strong crush. And all this is happening when Sid havenāt even confessed and given any commitment to Sana. She asked him clearly if you say anything to me I wouldnāt look at GG and KA but he refused. The problem is Sid expects Sana to behave as his wife without making his feelings clear. Sana has very loudly and clearly said I love you, live in relationship. People say Sana always says wo wala I love you nahi, ye wala I love you but come on sid is not stupid. He clearly knows which I love you. Salman cleared it and Why would sana talk about live-in rlnshp if not wo wala I love you. Sid is way too intelligent and observant to understand. Either he wants Sana to clearly say wo wala I Love you and commit to him completely but Sana is scared and confused coz she has said everything indirectly but sid didnāt say anything in response. Now Sana canāt do anything more than this. Come on, being a girl, how much more open can she be on national tv. Lip kiss bhi maang li , usko kar bhi di indirectly.
My analysis is Sid is insecure because of age thing and his past baggage. He canāt commit to her without clearing everything and that he wonāt do in the show. But still expects Sana to understand everything, be loyal to him like a wife (not even a girlfriend). But Sana is also in a game show. She also needs to play. She is playing and also being loyal to him at the same time. But sid is still insecure. And this is because of the conversation gap between them. They are behaving really silly. I would say Sid is being more stupid here. He could have handled the situation but the guy has really serious relationship issues, is scared of getting hurt. But then he himself is inflicting the pain on himself.
Also sid accepted in front of his mom ( her mom did say yes yes yes good choice) which means he is serious about Sana. I wouldnāt believe ever that Sid was just attracted to her and didnāt think of the future with her. He somewhere was thinking about serious relationship or may be marriage with her. Otherwise he wouln't have behaved like this in a show.
At the end of the day, they both need to talk maturely which I think sid wonāt do in the show. My only fear is what if situation worsens from here and it cannot be amended after the show.
Edited by soulstarspirit - 5 years ago