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Posted: 5 years ago

I know some of you may disagree and not like what I am saying but since we all agree that Sana may have PTSD, I’m hoping this will be taken well.

From what I understand, I feel Sana is also a Love addict. Not sure how many of you know but it’s a legit addiction just like alcohol or sex, etc and people like that should take the right measures and seek help. When you’re addicted to alcohol or sex, it’s adviced you stay away from it and work on overcoming that addiction.
Similarly here, Sana before getting into any relationship should seek help. Work on self love and finding happiness within and not depending on an external factor for validation.
Right now, getting in a relationship will not only be toxic for her but also her partner in the long term no matter how well he handles her.

It’s best if she’s adviced to get a grip on her emotions and not encouraged to continue with SidNaaz. Be there for Sid but don’t go expecting a future immediately after you’re out.

I think she understands it to an extent as well but she wants all the love she can get while she can get it. Bahar jaake kuch bhi ho sakta hai, she knows it too. It’s still unhealthy n I hope she realises it.


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Completely agree. They can play home home game for real once outside 😜 Ab ke liye, focus on the real game. Just a shift of focus... go with the flow as she used to.

I just want her to give a wee bit of space to Sid. That’s it.

Agreed. I also want that space for Sid. The guy is already hampered with tons of things, Sana should be a relief for him not his stress.

Edited by One-Of-A-Kind - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Bee93

I know some of you may disagree and not like what I am saying but since we all agree that Sana may have PTSD, I’m hoping this will be taken well.

From what I understand, I feel Sana is also a Love addict. Not sure how many of you know but it’s a legit addiction just like alcohol or sex, etc and people like that should take the right measures and seek help. When you’re addicted to alcohol or sex, it’s adviced you stay away from it and work on overcoming that addiction.
Similarly here, Sana before getting into any relationship should seek help. Work on self love and finding happiness within and not depending on an external factor for validation.
Right now, getting in a relationship will not only be toxic for her but also her partner in the long term no matter how well he handles her.

It’s best if she’s adviced to get a grip on her emotions and not encouraged to continue with SidNaaz. Be there for Sid but don’t go expecting a future immediately after you’re out.

I think she understands it to an extent as well but she wants all the love she can get while she can get it. Bahar jaake kuch bhi ho sakta hai, she knows it too. It’s still unhealthy n I hope she realises it.

I don’t agree with you from my professional capacity nor do I need to spell out more about her in that direction since I will not be disrespectful to mental health here.


As for PTSD, several people with PTSD fall in love while going through it and recover with care and attention and therapy. PTSD is a very common issue for anybody who has has any sort of trauma- accidents, death in the family, bad breakups, anything. God! Sana is just a normal girl who had a crush on a guy which didn’t work out and who was lucky to fall in love with another. Period! Don’t fling nonsense at her.

She has no addiction to love either since she has held off advances from guys who were not into long term relationships or who weren’t pro marriage. Sana wants a man to settle down with. Period. She is 26 and can take that decision for herself. The problem is we are so used these days to snooty girls who reject love and marriage for ambition that when we see it hit our face, we think they are mentally imbalanced.


Yes, she needs therapy for self-love. In fact I personally think 75% of those who are Sidnaaz addicts need therapy for self- love or we wouldn’t be so obsessed with them. So, there.

Edited by Uma2010 - 5 years ago
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