Do you want guy like Sid ?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: garima22

Pls be honest as a fan nhi as a girl vote krna...Jst wnt to knw kitni ldkiyo aisa chahti hai...boys dnt vote...Its jst for girls...

Cant stand MCP men who need women who are doormats.

There should also be a poll for the men on the forum. If they had a daughter, would they be ok with their son in law treating her like Did does?

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Sorry to interrupt.

I hv never been a Prince fan to be honest but I respect the guy and Shukla is nowhere close to Prince.

And also if you think domestic violence only occurs if the girl is dominant or aggressive den you are highly mistaken. Also a lot of people who do wrong wid their partners or girls in real life come from gud families and hv sisters . Violence occurs because some people can't control der anger and aggression. It's in people's nature. Situation contributes but situation can't be blamed completely.

Aap baaton hi baaton mein hum sab ladkiyon ko dominant aur aggressive bol rhi ho......when we hvnt even met nor hv we fought in real or here. So judgemental of you .

You want to marry Shukla .....your choice but don't put down others who don't find him suitable.

I wasnt saying shukla and prince are same people......i was comparing ki there was a time he was hated..and people did said that yuvika ke saath uska relation fake hain.......and today he is prince charming to yuvika..... people dint thought at that point that he can keep his girl so happy.....i feel shukla bhi apni wife ka prince charming ban sakta hain aur usse khush rakhta hain. Aapko agree karne ki jarurat nahi hain but yeh mera opinion hain and i wished him best for his marriage. There is no putting prince down in that.

Next point - i have refuted that shukla domestic violence karega.....i dont feel he will.....toh kiske saath karega.....aggressive ho toh karega....agressive na ho toh nahi karega......yeh sab aaya kaha se i dont know.....i have clearly said woh nahi karega in my comment.

Now coming to aggressive and dominant point.....see i clearly dont dislike people who have these traits because i do have a soft corner for shukla ......par shukla ka aggressiveness excessive terms mein hain toh woh issue hain and it does put me off many times.. ...and he has both...aggression and dominance .....i know aggressive and dominant people can be there....i have people in my life jinhe gussa jaldi aata hain or joh dominant hote by nature, without knowing even at times. When i said ki girls who are aggressive and dominant should not marry shukla.....thats because jab two aggressive aur dominant logo ki shaadi ho jayegi......toh i feel uska tikna mushkil hoga....kyonki dono gusse mein rahenge.....toh koi kisi ki baat sunega nahi ...issues sort nahi honge aise......thats what i tried stated in comment too......but main calm aur patient hoon....toh i can handle and its true ki only a calm and patient person can handle shukla and make the relationship work.....balance out ho jaata hain.

I hope i have make myself clear to you now. I dont know why you felt ki main un sabko aggressive aur dominant bol rahi hon joh shaadi nahi karna chahthe......shaadi karna is a very personal choice.....i am no one to comment on that.....main keh rahi thi ki generally un ladkiyon ko shukla se shaadi nahi karni chahiye joh ki agressive khud ho......like devoleena......she stated na ki sid dil ka acha hain but unki nahi nibh sakti for the very same reason. I said us nature ki ladkiyon ko nahi karni chahiye.....baaki kar sakti hain.....ab woh karengi ya nahi.....yeh toh unki marzi hain.........uspe na mere bolne ka haq hain aur na maine bola hain.

Aur ek request hain meri aap se.....jab aap kisi par itna bada blame put kar rahe ho....toh aap please comment ko 2-3 baar padh liya kijiye.....because jaise aap human hain aur aapko bura lagta hain.....doosron ko bhi lag sakta hain.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

First of all i am not putting anyone down here. Just because i said i want to marry shukla toh that doesnt mean all girls are wrong who dont find him suitable....or i want to put down other girls.....this is seriously weird that you got this meaning out of my comment because i read it again and my comment doesnt says so, warna i would have pakka edited that if it was anyway sounding like that.

I wasnt saying shukla and prince are same people......i was comparing ki there was a time he was hated..and people did said that yuvika ke saath uska relation fake hain.......and today he is prince charming to yuvika..... people dint thought at that point that he can keep his girl so happy.....i feel shukla bhi apni wife ka prince charming ban sakta hain aur usse khush rakhta hain. Aapko agree karne ki jarurat nahi hain but yeh mera opinion hain and i wished him best for his marriage. There is no putting prince down in that.

Next point - i have refuted that shukla domestic violence karega.....i dont feel he will.....toh kiske saath karega.....aggressive ho toh karega....agressive na ho toh nahi karega......yeh sab aaya kaha se i dont know.....i have clearly said woh nahi karega in my comment.

Now coming to aggressive and dominant point.....see i clearly dont dislike people who have these traits because i do have a soft corner for shukla ......par shukla ka aggressiveness excessive terms mein hain toh woh issue hain and it does put me off many times.. ...and he has both...aggression and dominance .....i know aggressive and dominant people can be there....i have people in my life jinhe gussa jaldi aata hain or joh dominant hote by nature, without knowing even at times. When i said ki girls who are aggressive and dominant should not marry shukla.....thats because jab two aggressive aur dominant logo ki shaadi ho jayegi......toh i feel uska tikna mushkil hoga....kyonki dono gusse mein rahenge.....toh koi kisi ki baat sunega nahi ...issues sort nahi honge aise......thats what i tried stated in comment too......but main calm aur patient hoon....toh i can handle and its true ki only a calm and patient person can handle shukla and make the relationship work.....balance out ho jaata hain.

I hope i have make myself clear to you now. I dont know why you felt ki main un sabko aggressive aur dominant bol rahi hon joh shaadi nahi karna chahthe......shaadi karna is a very personal choice.....i am no one to comment on that.....main keh rahi thi ki generally un ladkiyon ko shukla se shaadi nahi karni chahiye joh ki agressive khud ho......like devoleena......she stated na ki sid dil ka acha hain but unki nahi nibh sakti for the very same reason. I said us nature ki ladkiyon ko nahi karni chahiye.....baaki kar sakti hain.....ab woh karengi ya nahi.....yeh toh unki marzi hain.........uspe na mere bolne ka haq hain aur na maine bola hain.

Aur ek request hain meri aap se.....jab aap kisi par itna bada blame put kar rahe ho....toh aap please comment ko 2-3 baar padh liya kijiye.....because jaise aap human hain aur aapko bura lagta hain.....doosron ko bhi lag sakta hain.

See firstly I have read your comment properly before commenting on it. Still if u were hurt den I'm extremely sorry ......but yes your comment felt condescending to me.....since I was the one who had commented on domestic violence.

Secondly I did not get dt meaning from you thinking that you could hv marry Shukla and be happy wid him . As I said personal choice. But then you described the girls who can't marry and be happy wid him and whether you meant it or not....it pointed out all of us who had put up reasons for not wanting such a man.

About the domestic violence thing...mi know you said he won't because he comes from a gud family and has sisters. That's what I was trying to make you understand......it doesn't happen like dt. Many accused come from gud family and have sisters. It's not a criteria and you should not make assumptions based on dt. Having a sister or not..... doesn't change the streak of anger some people hv.

Baki rha Prince.....dt I just felt like clearing out. Prince and Yuvika Ka romance was questioned because Prince was more involved wid Nora . Also he had a girlfriend on Splitsvilla.

Anyways no intention of hurting you. Sorry if I did .

What kind of a guy is Sid?😆 i mean this is a big decision and i need complete information to decide.. watching a 1.5hr clipping of an edited show does not give me enough substance to reach to a conclusion

I had someone like him just got rid of him when the first opportunity came my way

If a girl (or guy) were to consider taking him as a husband, they'd have to be extremely supportive, compromising and understanding.

Doesn't mean they lose their self-respect in doing so, cuz if it happens once, it will happen repeatedly and only get worse.

Arti is actually perfect for him. He does treat her like shit but ever since she started playing 'individually', he doesn't insult her as much.

So if you set a limit with him, which both of you know not to cross, then things could work out.

Okay I tried, sorry, that's the best I can do speaking for shukla jaisa aadmi 😆

Originally posted by: BBfan24x7

If a girl (or guy) were to consider taking him as a husband, they'd have to be extremely supportive, compromising and understanding.

Doesn't mean they lose their self-respect in doing so, cuz if it happens once, it will happen repeatedly and only get worse.

Arti is actually perfect for him. He does treat her like shit but ever since she started playing 'individually', he doesn't insult her as much.

So if you set a limit with him, which both of you know not to cross, then things could work out.

Okay I tried, sorry, that's the best I can do speaking for shukla jaisa aadmi 😆

Even I think Shukla should should marry Aarti and never let her go. She is perfect for him.

@ bold : Lol😆

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

See firstly I have read your comment properly before commenting on it. Still if u were hurt den I'm extremely sorry ......but yes your comment felt condescending to me.....since I was the one who had commented on domestic violence.

Secondly I did not get dt meaning from you thinking that you could hv marry Shukla and be happy wid him . As I said personal choice. But then you described the girls who can't marry and be happy wid him and whether you meant it or not....it pointed out all of us who had put up reasons for not wanting such a man.

About the domestic violence thing...mi know you said he won't because he comes from a gud family and has sisters. That's what I was trying to make you understand......it doesn't happen like dt. Many accused come from gud family and have sisters. It's not a criteria and you should not make assumptions based on dt. Having a sister or not..... doesn't change the streak of anger some people hv.

Baki rha Prince.....dt I just felt like clearing out. Prince and Yuvika Ka romance was questioned because Prince was more involved wid Nora . Also he had a girlfriend on Splitsvilla.

Anyways no intention of hurting you. Sorry if I did .

Did you now got that when i explained what i meant...?...i was just like telling traits which won't go with shukla.....if i am person who is aggressive.....and i marry a person who is aggressive too.....we will have difficulties in sailing our boat together.......gussa aayega toh patience nahi dikha payega koi........usmein forum members aur unke openions ka koi matlab nahi tha......that was a general opinion. I feel one aggressive and one calm person makes the relation balanced.

But in your comment you said ki i feel aggressive aur dominant ladkiyon ke saath hota hain domestic violence...woh toh i dint wrote na........see i agree with your point.....ki achi families ke log bhi ho sakte hain involve ......to be truthful.....i dint wanted that just because of a show.....siddharth should be made to look like a person jisse koi shaadi na karna chahe....kya sirf yeh show decide kar sakta hain ki kisiki shaadi honi chahiye ya nahi......bahut cheejein hoti hain....and people do change for good.....may be when he falls in love.....he become a better version of himself for her ......ya kya pata usne aaj tak na uthaya ho haath kisi ladki par.....we are not sure ki uski married life mein domestic violence pakka hi hoga.......toh i just wanted to wish him good in his life.....nothing more......yeh sirf show hai......woh itna kharab bahar nahi hain is show se.....its like his worst side put on display.

Jab nora nahi thi ....tab bhi prince bash hota tha yuvika ke liye.....i have no idea about other girlfriend.....i just hope that shukla settles happily and if he marries, makes life good for his lifepartner.

Mujhe bahut bura laga tha because i normally dont judge people that way......main member discussions ke liye hamesha if par bhi kehti rehti hoon ki its not allowed.......i always respect everybody's opinion and it need not match mine......its good to know that your intention wasnt to hurt me.....main bhi aapko hurt karna nahi chahthi thi....i am sorry too. 🤗

One thing I ❤️is my freedom.

Being with him seems like being in virtual cage.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

there is a similar thread on sana dad agreed for marriage.....there also i read domestic violence word and here also i read the word.....i wanted to say that i dont think sid will commit domestic violence and thus i included that in my comment ...aapse agrue karne ka ya aapka openion overrule karne ka iraada nahi tha......though i do agree that this taking words in my comments might sounded wrong to you.....i have faced this before once too......i will take care that while writing my comments now.....i wont take words from doosre ke comments......toh it doesnt end up sounding like that to anyone. I am sorry regarding this.

Did you now got that when i explained what i meant...?...i was just like telling traits which won't go with shukla.....if i am person who is aggressive.....and i marry a person who is aggressive too.....we will have difficulties in sailing our boat together.......gussa aayega toh patience nahi dikha payega koi........usmein forum members aur unke openions ka koi matlab nahi tha......that was a general opinion. I feel one aggressive and one calm person makes the relation balanced.

But in your comment you said ki i feel aggressive aur dominant ladkiyon ke saath hota hain domestic violence...woh toh i dint wrote na........see i agree with your point.....ki achi families ke log bhi ho sakte hain involve ......to be truthful.....i dint wanted that just because of a show.....siddharth should be made to look like a person jisse koi shaadi na karna chahe....kya sirf yeh show decide kar sakta hain ki kisiki shaadi honi chahiye ya nahi......bahut cheejein hoti hain....and people do change for good.....may be when he falls in love.....he become a better version of himself for her ......ya kya pata usne aaj tak na uthaya ho haath kisi ladki par.....we are not sure ki uski married life mein domestic violence pakka hi hoga.......toh i just wanted to wish him good in his life.....nothing more......yeh sirf show hai......woh itna kharab bahar nahi hain is show se.....its like his worst side put on display.

Jab nora nahi thi ....tab bhi prince bash hota tha yuvika ke liye.....i have no idea about other girlfriend.....i just hope that shukla settles happily and if he marries, makes life good for his lifepartner.

Mujhe bahut bura laga tha because i normally dont judge people that way......main member discussions ke liye hamesha if par bhi kehti rehti hoon ki its not allowed.......i always respect everybody's opinion and it need not match mine......its good to know that your intention wasnt to hurt me.....main bhi aapko hurt karna nahi chahthi thi....i am sorry too. 🤗

@ bold : This I accept was my mistake. Misinterpreted it. My mistake and I apologize. Sorry .

And yes I get ur point about people of equal nature shouldn't marry. Not dt I completely agree bcz in real life I hv seen both ....I mean opposites and alikes.....having a happy marriage........but yes I completely understand your point.

Dekho....I don't think people mean Shukla Ji can't get married 😆. Just der personal opinion ki unko wo pasand nai. Aur I get it ki maybe he isn't this way outside the house but I believe his character traits must be same. I don't judge on one incident. It's the whole sequence of it. Maybe Pura scenario sach na ho......but insaan itni der ek Jaga par rhe toh some of his characteristics show. We'll dts my belief....may not be true .

Maine toh abhi kisiko Bola ki Aarti is very gud for him. So der you go.

About Prince's bashing.....pta nai Yaar ....I wasn't a part of the forum den. Bas was stating some facts I knew.

I hope you understood why I reacted the way I did. I might hv come across as rude and sorry about dt too. Hope you forgive and forget dt. I actually know you for sometime and I like ur opinions mostly.