Arhaan gave ring to Rashmi - Page 3

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Rashmi dint file any case on him I think. But she said in IV that her relationship was abusive. To which nandish replied asking does she even know what's being abusive. I never raised a hand on Rashmi . Nandish said this in IV. If she was talking about mental abuse then he also went through it. Nandish explained the details so well. He explained the insecurities in their relationship. He also said may be today he would handle things differently since that time they were immature.

So I don't think she filed any case and in fit of anger she filed and then took the complain back. The way he explained his relationship with her. He is not women beater.

@ bold : I didn't mean dt. Was just giving an example.

See I don't think we should believe that any celebrity ....be it Rashmi or Nandish...give every detail to us or whatever they say is the gospel truth. Like Katrina said in an interview.....that people believe everything celebs say in an interview is the truth and there is nothing beyond that....which is never the case.

Not saying Nandish is a bad person or he did whatever he was accused of .....I'm just saying we can't just go by either of their words .....bcz they only say whatever they wish people to hear.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

I am ok if he comes back but don't want any cheesy romance😆

We are not so lucky 😂

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

@ bold : I didn't mean dt. Was just giving an example.

See I don't think we should believe that any celebrity ....be it Rashmi or Nandish...give every detail to us or whatever they say is the gospel truth. Like Katrina said in an interview.....that people believe everything celebs say in an interview is the truth and there is nothing beyond that....which is never the case.

Not saying Nandish is a bad person or he did whatever he was accused of .....I'm just saying we can't just go by either of their words .....bcz they only say whatever they wish people to hear.

In BB we see Rashmi doesn't know to articulate properly. In anger she over exaggerates it.

This same Rashmi during a fight said if Sid is dying she won't make him drink and just keep water at side.The same Rashmi pulled his jacket yesterday and he pulled her pony tail.

Even when she went to complain BB regarding he intimidating her again she couldn't express and chose wrong words and made it sound something else.

My point is here Rashmi fails at expressing and in anger she just over does it.

Nandish explaination sounded factual logical he explained everthing so properly without even making her look bad. None of them are my favourites for me to defend anyone.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

In BB we see Rashmi doesn't know to articulate properly. In anger she over exaggerates it.

This same Rashmi during a fight said if Sid is dying she won't make him drink and just keep water at side.The same Rashmi pulled his jacket yesterday and he pulled her pony tail.

Even when she went to complain BB regarding he intimidating her again she couldn't express and chose wrong words and made it sound something else.

My point is here Rashmi fails at expressing and in anger she just does it.

Nandish explaination sounded factual logical he explained everthing so properly without even making her look bad. None of them are my favourites for me to defend anyone.

I agree Rashmi is not very good wid her words and mostly ends up making bad points .

But if there was a case filed.....a lawyer must hv heard it too. I hv no idea if there was an actual case. I hv just read about it here .

Factual and no nonsense statements which don't accuse others are actually smart ones. Might be genuine .....might be well thought of .....we can never actually know..

PS : I'm not blaming Nandish. Just generalised view .

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I agree Rashmi is not very good wid her words and mostly ends up making bad points .

But if there was a case filed.....a lawyer must hv heard it too. I hv no idea if there was an actual case. I hv just read about it here .

Factual and no nonsense statements which don't accuse others are actually smart ones. Might be genuine .....might be well thought of .....we can never actually know..

PS : I'm not blaming Nandish. Just generalised view .

If u go through their IVs u will automatically understand their story .

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Exactly why talk about two people's married life we have no idea about.

They are public figures and always surrounded by media. It's not that difficult to get an idea. I went by what's sounds more logical and sorted out.

I m also not taking sides but if I compare both their IVs .... Rashmi IV was more of accusations and blame game and nandish IV was more like explained their situations and even tried understanding her side also and how as on today he would handle it better. Truth speaks for itself.

In BB through I like Rashmi but she fails to articulate properly.

She had to tell BB Sid intimidating her and she told something else. Sid was very angry like when did I try to touch in wrong way.

Rashmi even said in anger that she won't give water to Sid even if he is dying and just keep a glass besides him and walk off. This was so bad. The same Rashmi pulled his jacket yesterday and his pulled her ponytail.

So Rashmi fails to articulate and over exaggerates in anger.

I m taking anyone sides but I think truth speaks for itself.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

They are public figures and always surrounded by media. It's not that difficult to get an idea. I went by what's sounds more logical and sorted out.

I m also not taking sides but if I compare both their IVs .... Rashmi IV was more of accusations and blame game and nandish IV was more like explained their situations and even tried understanding her side also and how as on today he would handle it better. Truth speaks for itself.

In BB through I like Rashmi but she fails to articulate properly.

She had to tell BB Sid intimidating her and she told something else. Sid was very angry like when did I try to touch in wrong way.

Rashmi even said in anger that she won't give water to Sid even if he is dying and just keep a glass besides him and walk off. This was so bad. The same Rashmi pulled his jacket yesterday and his pulled her ponytail.

So Rashmi fails to articulate and over exaggerates in anger.

I m taking anyone sides but I think truth speaks for itself.

What is the truth ? There is no universal truth in the world. None.It's all perspectives and experiences. What is the truth is different for every one.I don't care about IV's or articulation when it comes to a failed marriage no one can know the true story until unless some one has stayed in that very house and witnessed all that the couple went through.So personally i won't judge any one.

Regarding Rashmi and Sid ,Rashmi has her flaws like every human being.But the things Sid is doing these days there is absolutely no justification for it.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

What is the truth ? There is no universal truth in the world. None.It's all perspectives and experiences. What is the truth is different for every one.I don't care about IV's or articulation when it comes to a failed marriage no one can know the true story until unless some one has stayed in that very house and witnessed all that the couple went through.So personally i won't judge any one.

Regarding Rashmi and Sid ,Rashmi has her flaws like every human being.But the things Sid is doing these days there is absolutely no justification for it.

The truth is Rashmi went to tell BB about Sid intimidating and she ended it making it sound like molestation. The truth is Rashmi doesn't know to speak and in anger over exaggerates a lot of things. This truth is learnt by me through the show .

When two people nandish and Rashmi themselves are speaking about it and then looking at what they are speaking and their nature . The truth can be figured out.It's not that both of them dint speak anything and I m making judgement on my own.

Now there are news of rehab around Sid. Lot of people think it's true considering the way he looses control and his agression in BB. That's how people put 2 and 2 together. None of us went to see him whether he was at rehab or no but we make a judgement on the basis of what we see.

Even Shilpa and Vikas thing... In BB Vikas was always clear with that issue and tried to solve it with Shilpa and infact he even wanted to work with her. But Shilpa her truth was changing and she was using that news to stay relevant and even in BB 12 she brought it. Sooner or later her own fans left her. Nobody knows the truth but there is way we figure out right or wrong we judge.

From what I gathered from regarding nandish and Rashmi were both at fault in relationship. She had insecurities due to her childhood stuff while nandish was free bird and couldn't handle her possessiveness. Both were immature.

As a reader viewers I can see he explaining the situation rather not trying to paint her black and put himself in victim situation. When a person speaks truth they really don't paint anyone as villian.

Like I said there is certain way we jugde things.

Even Sachin and juhi parmar I saw on pati patni and Woh show . In that show her treating Sachin very badly like naukar. She used to dominate and harras him. Now recently they are divorced. I dint go to see what happened in their house but based on her nature and behaviour I supported Sachin.

Oh great now prepare for shadi drama on biggboss 😆😆

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I'm taking it that you don't know Nandish personally. If you do......den too here is something I feel we should all know.

What happens widin a marriage and between a married couple is something that only the two people concerned know. Sometimes even the people who look very calm and innocent from outside do unexpected things in a fit of anger or in some situation.

Domestic violence isn't something one can just know and judge from outside . It might be just one time.....but dt counts too. We can never know. Even courts can't be accurate on this.

I'm neither supporting Nandish nor Rashmi......coz I wasn't der to witness what led to the separation. But I just want to say it's better not to discuss such matters here when we don't know anything for sure.

Exactly. You can’t judge a person by their behaviour in public. What goes on behind closed doors in a relationship is a totally different thing.