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Posted: 5 years ago
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There's no place of a leader when it comes to friends....if one is a leader then other will be a follower and in this case both people can't be termed as friends !

Sid does have a habit of dominating others and imposing his opinion on his 'friends' ....He needs to realize that friendship is not one way but it goes both ways...It's not possible for everyone to do what he wants or thinks is right...everyone is entitled to have an opinion and he needs to respect that

Now, Sid has taken a complete u--turn and has changed his game overnight....I guess Asim is confused by this sudden change and thus is unable to completely trust Sid.....Asim had the guts to share and clear this out with Sid yesterday which shows that he is straight forward.

Sid himself said that he doesn't like if his friends speak to other group members, now if he himself is doing it then Asim questioning him on the same is not wrong ! Asim sopke very politely with him yesterday and explained how and what he was feeling.

Shahnaz flipped so many times yet Sid keeps 'forgiving' her..Sid knows that Asim and Shahnaz don't like each other, he knows that she keeps flipping n yet Sid supports her.....This is bound to make Asim feel insecure

If Sid saved Asim then even Asim has supported Sid through thick and thin....Sid didn't do any 'favours' by saving Asim ....that's what friends are supposed to do for each other

Plus Sid has a tendency to become excessively rude at times which doesn't go down well with the ones he's having an argument with be it any contestant for that matter

So, I don't feel Asim is being unreasonable here

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi

There's no place of a leader when it comes to friends....if one is a leader then other will be a follower and in this case both people can't be termed as friends !

Sid does have a habit of dominating others and imposing his opinion on his 'friends' ....He needs to realize that friendship is not one way but it goes both ways...It's not possible for everyone to do what he wants or thinks is right...everyone is entitled to have an opinion and he needs to respect that

Now, Sid has taken a complete u--turn and has changed his game overnight....I guess Asim is confused by this sudden change and thus is unable to completely trust Sid.....Asim had the guts to share and clear this out with Sid yesterday which shows that he is straight forward.

Sid himself said that he doesn't like if his friends speak to other group members, now if he himself is doing it then Asim questioning him on the same is not wrong ! Asim sopke very politely with him yesterday and explained how and what he was feeling.

Shahnaz flipped so many times yet Sid keeps 'forgiving' her..Sid knows that Asim and Shahnaz don't like each other, he knows that she keeps flipping n yet Sid supports her.....This is bound to make Asim feel insecure

If Sid saved Asim then even Asim has supported Sid through thick and thin....Sid didn't do any 'favours' by saving Asim ....that's what friends are supposed to do for each other

Plus Sid has a tendency to become excessively rude at times which doesn't go down well with the ones he's having an argument with be it any contestant for that matter

So, I don't feel Asim is being unreasonable here

Thankyou, very well put!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaditi123

Asim wants to be a leader but he has no leadership qualities. Hell he has no personality to speak of. So so bland. Even if he separates and forms his own group with Himanshi & Shefali....he'll never be the leader....Shefali will be and that will be a damn weak group to boot and it's not Sana but it was the eliminated Master mind Arhaan who put this dent in the group. Ever since he called Asim a Chela, he hasn't been the same. Either he goes back to his Chela status or he goes out. Shukla is the alpha leader and he'll never back off.

Was that a joke??,,, 🤣,, If there is any one in the house who speaks with humbleness and respect it is Asim.He has got the best speech and a soothing voice. I would anytime prefer to listen to him rather than the vibrating and aggressive voice of Shukla which many times we dont even understand what he speaks .

He is at a disadvantage because of his age when it comes to leadership. And first of all i don't think he is trying to be another leader here. Why the fight took place today i m still not clear so can't comment on that. All these are assumptions that he is getting possessive and insecure and all.

What are the qualities of alpha leader ?. being aggressive, dominating, flirting ,commanding, stopping his own friends from talking to others but then flipping from own rules . if that's what is alpha leader then yes he is .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Asim is being unreasonable

Look how Shukla snatched the fruit from his hand , that's how he is. He does not value friends, he needs people who follow orders.

Not only that, he is the biggest hypocrite who does not follow what he preaches.

Asim has had enough of his fakeness. Good riddance I say

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