Originally posted by: -Halo00-
Can't I say that about you? Not wanting to understand? Reducing and judging Megha's and Rohit's actions as woman and man as opposed to two contestants in a heated task.
I don't see men and women having special privileges in what they can do/say and I give utmost importance to context and circumstance so maybe that's where our opinions differ.
And also, if you truly do not wish to engage in conversation. Just ignore my reply (you have that option); it sends a bigger message than the para you've written me. A bit prideful, passive-aggressive etc.
It was neither prideful, nor passive-agressive. Anyone on IF who have known me even for a while would confirm it to you. I do not like to disrespect and offend anyone irrespective of the reasons and I expect the same in return.
A tiny thing with you is, you presume things. Had you asked me, I would have gone in details explaining why my opinion is what it is but you directly ended up writing that I am reducing Megha's actions. This thread is about Rohit and I was talking about only him. Did I say in my comment that I appreciate Megha or think she has no fault at all? I said nothing about her so why would you presume that I think of her as a saint?
You are again presuming things. I don't even get where the woman card is being played. I seriously don't see it. Had it not been Megha but any guy in her place, my reaction towards Rohit had still stayed the same. Neither I am a pseudo feminist nor I am someone who thinks women should he granted special privileges. You don't even know me and you are passing judgements indirectly that puts me at loss of words. Anyways, it was nice interacting with you.
With love
-Harshada
Edited by IAdoreYou - 6 years ago