Choosing one sided love over friendship !

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Phool really disappointed!! she choose pratap over ajabdeh means one sided love over her childhood friendship . I would love to call phool a real fool . Girl you know you are in one sided love with a guy who loves your best friend and your friend loves him back then too you are admant to marry that guy and you are choosing him over a friend who is ever ready to sacrifice her love for you . After knowing ajabdeh was selfless and wanted her (phool's) happiness how can see ask ajab to go back. How can she insult her, how can she break her friendship ?

At the end of the day phool will be left with nothing . She will have no love and no friendship after all what she did today . Pratap won't like her ever, after what she did with ajabdeh and this time i really want ajabdeh to make phool taste her own medicine, for once girl please for heavens sake ! Treat others how you want to be treated. You should know that life goes on. Friends will come and go. Those that stay, are the true ones. Phool is a opportunist .

Phew ! somewhere i still want phool to amend her mistake and show some redemptive behaviorism . I was expecting phool to hug ajabdeh when she was having those flashbacks, completely break down and share her feelings and everything with ajabdeh like a true friend would have done .But now am pondering does phool ever took her as her BFF like ajabdeh ?! I hope she did !

Phool get up from your ignorant and self centered mode .Don't be the one who lose friends, and end up lonely, then only value friendship.

P.S. I have titled it as one sided love because I suppose she is in one sided love for some time not taking all those careless behaviourm phool showed towards pratap .The only thing am concerned about is to discuss how a friend can choose love over friendship ?

Also i would love to hear praphool fans POV ! Guys you can share your thoughts feel free to keep your points !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oho!! Big RES! 😈

UNRES! 😎

Firstly,I don't knwo Didu why u still saying and hoping so much! 😵 ..

From day one,she was a selfish,self centered and egoistic girl who only can see her own benefit ..!! if she wasn't,then she wld have stood up for Ajab's right long back,when she was in Bijolia and made MM love his daughter back.but from there she showed her true colours! Ajab can do anything for her but she couldn't even just go and talk to MM and made him understand that Ajab needs her father.She can be arrogant with anyone where it is not needed but when she should have shown her arrogance,she backed off as she is so innocent!! oh yah,right??

And then .. not only today! When those princesses in Mewar used to tease her regarding PrAja,she chose to go crying to Ajab and ask her to assure that she doesn't have feelings for Pratap! but before that she never felt it necessary to defend Ajab and stand up for her dearest friend. so blinded by own benefit.

Today what she did was normal for me.I knew she was never TRUE FRIEND.Not only saying coz of Pratap.Even before Pratap coming between them,i felt it.she just used Ajab as her servant and enjoyed all facilities and luxury and when Ajab became a threat to her so called one sided love,she chose to kick Ajab out of the scenario.

PLEASE,don't make me talk about agreeing to marry Pratap.i may lose my mind and say something unpleasant for fans. this is height of cheapness and dumbness! there is no Royalty in it as well!
Edited by ...Jes... - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very nice post pankhu 👏! I say to know if phool isn't a good friend , she isn't a good lover moreover a spoilt brat then better CVS turn her completely negative .I never found her sweet or good some I an not expecting her to correct her mistakes .Better she leaves for good even if its the end of ajab-hool friendship .I don't want to see her again like ever .🤢
PS I think some fans won't have anything to say !🤢
Edited by ChiefJustice00 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Res. will write after sometime. But might play devils advocate here. I have been posting to some of the post and threads. You guys can call me beenz
UnRes...

What Now?? What Next??

I am a PrAja fan but wanted to give an unbaised analysis and opinion on this issue..For both of them the entry of Pratap is the most important moment.. There are two scenarios here...

  1. Pre Pratap
  2. Post Pratap

Pre-Pratap Era

Ajab - Ajab is a little girl who craves for any attention that she can get just to prove herself in her mind that she exists. She is a depressed and dejected girl who has lost her confidence and due to which she is not being able to stand up for herself. She is a girl who takes Phool as her anchor, because she is the only one who gives her the feeling of existence. When that anchor turns into daasatva (servitude), and when that friendship turns into giver and taker relationship and when the lines are blurred, both Ajab and phool are not aware of.. The idea of servitude has become so strong that Ajab a rajkumari of a small state thinks, behaves, and dresses like a commoner...

Phool - A Rajkumari from a rich and big state, a self absorbed girl with a self centered attitude. She needs someone to boss over, someone who will listen to everything that she says... Now phool is doing all this to win.. she being a big raj kumari is expected to win everytime. Losing is not even an option. So in order to win she found a person who is willing to sacrifice anything for a little approval is like winning a jack pot for her.

Post Pratap Era...

Ajab - Entry of Pratap made Ajab react different than usual.. Not only she became bold but she also realized that the attraction that she felt at the village Haat bazaar is really strong as they are attracted to each other because of their similarities. Ajab also realized that pratap is attracted not because she is useful and is a good help but because she is a good human being, behaviour and maturity... Now Ajab has karn (karn of mahabharat) syndrome... She is ready to sacrifice anything for phool as phool was there when she needed someone the most... When phool confessed her feeling she gladly sacrificed everything and even helped her without thinking about the bigger picture... The sacrifice is just a payback..

Phool - Phool in her mind is at equal status with Pratap.. so that is why in her mind she is not thinking that Ajab is a competitor... Phool was not interested in pratap till the moment her sub-conscience said that PrAja are together... after the afgan war when she realized that this new toy may not be easy to get, she gets insecure. Being brought up like a princess she is not supposed to come in second position and that too from a samant's daughter. If you notice she even extends her hand to be taken and here the benefit of the doubt goes to her as pratap says "yojana to aapki thi"... Well the plan was phools... Now why does she ask ajab to go? She has duyodhan syndrome... Imagine if duyodhan knew that karn is a pandav and his immediate competitor would he have kept any friendship? he would have done the same.. Asked him to leave. Phool is no exception to this.

Now the decisions that these two girls have taken have put a big ring around everyone.. A ring called Suffering... Be it Pratap, Phool, Mewar, US, JB, Hansa and including Ajab... Now what they have to decide and figure out is :

Ajab - I have sacrificed now WHAT NEXT?
Phool - I have pratap who loves someone else... I got my Trophy... now WHAT NEXT?

Sorry if I have hurt anyone... Just my Point of view... Maybe totally wrong...
Edited by twisted_beenz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChiefJustice00

Very nice post pankhu 👏! I say to know if phool isn't a good friend , she isn't a good lover moreover a spoilt brat then better CVS turn her completely negative .I never found her sweet or good some I an not expecting her to correct her mistakes .Better she leaves for good even if its the end of ajab-hool friendship .I don't want to see her again like ever .🤢

PS I think some fans won't have anything to say !🤢

just tell me how and why she wil turn good now? 🥱 if it happens then lame move by CVs!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@jana @vidya : I am off to bed now am gonna reply both of you tomorrow tehe 😃.
Edited by pankhudi_TiaRa - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: twisted_beenz

Res. will write after sometime. But might play devils advocate here. I have been posting to some of the post and threads. You guys can call me beenz


Haha I will await your thoughts beenz even if you play devils advocate ! 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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phool character has to go down step so that pratap can run away from her. but this one is straight downfall for her. once pratap will know it was phools decision to send ajab away chapter close for sure from pratap side whatever is left from our ajab side. now she needs to work.
don't get phool though why she wants to hang on pratap like leech.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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really liked ur post Pankhu di ⭐️
true..Phool's makin a big mistake..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sometime I had started thinking she was good. But she is selfish, self centred, self absorbed. All pride but no self respect. Pratap does not want her still she wants him and will get him no matter what! So easily she is using her powerful family and position but forgetting her best friend. Earlier she seemed to not use her brain. Now not using her heart.
Spoilt, attention seeker and too much entitlement complex.

Sad how she wants to keep Ajabde at bay.

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