Originally posted by: Penfolk
@TheUnique Exactly so . But for that the woman needs to behave properly too. You cannot go and ask to fit cctv cameras there, most immediately after marriage.To make a new house your own, you need time and most importantly make the dwellers believe that you are ready to be a part of them. I am not even arguing that maya didn't do so. She most vividly did so, tried to be a part of Sharma house. Why it wasn't possible is a completely different issue discussed a million times. And that's how I'm surprised to see even questions coming up that she was quite normal before 3 years just cuz she didn't fit cameras in her in laws'.
I see it had only one issue for her not being accepted in that house and that was V. Maya was trying hard to be the good wife.She thought of that 2BHK flat as her new home. That was the only thing that was genuine of her. She was trying hard. But V with her pre conceived notion about her didn't budge.
I just wanted her to give her a chance ...if proven wrong then V could go back to her I told u so ...and people wouldn't find her this annoying.
V never behaves rationally. She should have considered Arjuns happiness also... Sone moms however unwilling at some decisions taken by their children but still for their children try to look pleased and accept things.
I don't remember... Did Maya tell she wanted CCTv cameras installed in her sasural? Cuz I don't remember that scene. I thought since she came she was behaving properly trying hard to be the good wife. It was sasuma who was not behaving properly that time. Throwing her clothes out of the WM... making weird angry faces when Jhanvi called Maya to say Ashwin is alive and Maya got scared and broke down. Serving food to her sons but not her... not taking food from her hand... Treating her like a doormat... Her constant taunts were somewhat unbearable even for viewers... & all in the name of being a petrified concerned mom!! Well her concern lead to such a drastic change of events that now one of her son is in jail and the other in Maya's jail. Had V accepted her this would not happen . Had Saanjh not called Arjun in the middle of the night to discuss family matters and he sneaking out to meet her leaving a sleeping wife & then saying ILU to her ...things would not be so drastic. ...maybe... cuz we never were shown... what would have happened had things fallen into place.
For every Maya's extreme reaction there was always a small cause and this small cause led to extreme reactions from Maya and creating havoc in people's lives. It's the butterfly effect that things are this bad and ugly between all of them
Edited by TheUnique - 8 years ago