Come let's do this - Page 5

It takes two hands to clap! At least one party should make some effort to stay calm & walk out of the meaningless arguments if it gets ugly!
It is very difficult to control emotions, but really what is at stake here?! What are we arguing for? Just for a fictional show or a character ?
There are much bigger things in life that we really care for! Aren't we?

Originally posted by: Veronicalocks

Even I was attacked personally here... But never made it such a big issue like u... N bring a complaint box. Pls stop creating topics just to bash other member.. Disgusting ... Penfolk!! Everybody can't agree with what u say

Originally posted by: Fernandes43

It takes two hands to clap! At least one party should make some effort to stay calm & walk out of the meaningless arguments if it gets ugly!
It is very difficult to control emotions, but really what is at stake here?! What are we arguing for? Just for a fictional show or a character ?
There are much bigger things in life that we really care for! Aren't we?

Originally posted by: dexter3108

True. The forum is now divided into so many groups, not just Maya and Saanjh supporters. It is sad that some people are turning this forum into warzone, even to the extent that some people have to explicitly write in their post that "please don't bash me. I am not defending/ I am not supporting" .I feel like shouting "You can defend and support anyone you like. Go ahead". But sadly any opposing POV is not tolerated and people jump to 'mock' the OP. It is ok to disagree and write your view in respectful language even if you think the post is absurd. But what some people are actually doing is mocking the intellect and morality of a person just on the basis of what they want to see in a fictional show. Really? It is just a goddamn show.

What is the use of pointing out logical fallacies, hypocrisy, and ethical violations in each and every post? This show is supposed to be an entertainer, not a moral science documentary or mathematical logic course. People would write what they want to see based on what excites them the most. That doesn't mean you will start comparing it to their real life choices and ethical standards. If someone likes horror movies, it doesn't mean he believes in ghost or if someone likes action movies, it doesn't mean he goes around creating ruckus everywhere.

Also, this business of "earlier you said this and now you are saying this, you hypocrite" needs to stop. As the show progresses, new plots are revealed and people are expected to reevaluate the characters and align accordingly. They may or may not change their views, it is completely upto them what they want to see. People change their views all the time and that doesn't make them a hypocrite.

So if you do not agree with someone's post, either express your disagreement respectfully or if you cannot do it, refrain from posting please.

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Penfolk, was your earlier username Kaushi?

Originally posted by: Penfolk

Exactly. You can go check on the thread which compelled me to make this post. I walked out soon after being name called as ClownFolk (🤣) and I have already decided to never ever post on any such thread. I also saw another person who didn't agree being name called by the same TM.. and I know the TM is a record breaker of slangs, slanders, s**t shaming and personal attacks.This topic has only been meant to provide info to new members etc, to ignore hers and anyone else's ugly posts and only report. I myself will only do that too, would never confront that particular person or others of the same clan but will keep reporting shits.

It makes me really sad! The show is offered as an entertainment to larger audience out there & discussions/debates should stay that way as only a fun!

Originally posted by: Penfolk

Of course I and you are not the same in so many ways.

And of course I never said anyone to agree with me. And of course I don't have the right to personally attack anyone who doesn't agree with me. And of course I WILL LET EVERYOE KNOW WHEN YOUR SOO RIGHT FRIEND PERSONALLY ATTACKS NOT ONLY ME BUT EVERYONE WHO DISAGREES WITH HER.

Why don't you tell your 'always right' friend to not bring every disagreement down to personal attack and name calling rather than giving me lecture on what NOT to post? Disgusting!

I haven't been in any one forum for too long, but I think this beyhadh forum lacks tolerance. there is no coexisting of opposing viewpoints and healthy discussion of the show, characters and the plot. It's as if you are the main leads fan, this Maya supporter, and so on and so forth. I don't wanna get dragged into he said/ she said, but i am all for a healthy discussion with both sides of the coin. If you have something cool to say, based on yore experience with other shows, general observations, that's what enriches my experience of 20 mins of the show. At the end of the day, we are a product of our thoughts, so let's share something, discuss ideas. Other day, I saw someone mentioning thr show taking inspo from gone girl, which I thought was neat, would love to continue that!

Instead we have posts- young girls- calling characters, actors s**ts, hoes... sarcastic comments on certain groups of people.. it doesn't make for a lively forum.

I accept I called OriginalsFan having a sick mentality. And I apologise for that. I'm extremely sorry OriginalsFan for any post or comment of mine that hurt you. As my post says, if someone feels like they can report any comment of mine that sounds abusive. Nowhere did I say I should be spared.

As for me, from today onwards I'll only make posts, and not comment on any anti or pro threads. Anyone who wants to comment on my thread is welcome to, I will accept every anti and pro comment.