Arjun. ..tu utna lucky nhi hai - Page 10

Kal se I'm trying to say that Maya should have left the mandap kyunki dulha hi bhaag gaya. She was humiliated if at all then by her own groom.

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

We aren't wailing ms.. we are just feeling it is funny how this is considered mahaan in few ppl eyes.

Yeah things went as we liked day before episode but u were no where day before when vandana was given earful from arjun ?

Were u wailing on that day that u cudnt make ur saanjh & vandana ka post ????😆😆😆

How didn't what we wanted not happen? Lmfao
We wanted ArYa, two people who LOVE EACHOTHER, to get married
And that happened! So why would we wail
We are wailing about how someone was inconsiderate about the brides feelings at the mandap and wanted to self proclaim her one sided love in front of the whole world at a sensitive time like that!

Originally posted by: iMini

About how Maya must have felt - I sensed that she felt hurt, not because of Saanjh's actions but because of Arjun's. Maya shouldn't have felt hurt because of Saanjh's actions because she must truly know what it feels like to see your love being married to someone else.

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

We aren't wailing ms.. we are just feeling it is funny how this is considered mahaan in few ppl eyes.

Yeah things went as we liked day before episode but u were no where day before when vandana was given earful from arjun ?

Were u wailing on that day that u cudnt make ur saanjh & vandana ka post ????😆😆😆

because I don't waste time making posts on every single thing that happens on the show. Clearly I would make posts when saanjh takes the front. When she did... I too did.

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

I'm not saying sanjh won't have any pain her only love being married away. But her coming to this wedding is not a way to move on.

She shud have stayed away and heal her heart with help of her father or someone close. The process of healing is that. When u know u can't control urself when u see ur love going then u shudnt be coming to that place at all.

But the thing is she made someone's marriage a show for herself without being considerate to the girl like her feelings. Even if she didn't come maya wud have married yday bcoz she & arjun were already decided whatever they will be marrying. And arjun even shut vandana when she stopped marriage.

Yea he said he wouldn't leave until he makes Maya his wife ;)
So either way we knew that the wedding would've happened at any cost

Originally posted by: ishakumar

Knowing what it feels like and being humiliated in front of the whole world are two different things tho. Once issues become public they are not little anymore, they become big issues cuz the whole world will talk about it then 😉

I don't know - everybody can perceive the situation differently. I personally I wouldn't have felt slightly humiliated - but hugely hurt because of my grooms insensitivity to my own believes. I don't see how anything Saanjh did could humiliate Maya - she is a self made woman and any other woman's actions cannot reduce her respect.

Originally posted by: iMini

I don't know - everybody can perceive the situation differently. I personally I wouldn't have felt slightly humiliated - but hugely hurt because of my grooms insensitivity to my own believes. I don't see how anything Saanjh did could humiliate Maya - she is a self made woman and any other woman's actions cannot reduce her respect.

Publicly claiming her love to Maya's husband would reduce any woman's respect whether self made or a house wife. A woman's humiliation is enough to bring down her respect in the eyes of the crowd, just my thinking... it wasn't the right time or place to make such claims on Saanjhs end. Everyone already knows how she feels but publicly trying to make herself seem mahaan seems OTT

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

I'm not saying sanjh won't have any pain her only love being married away. But her coming to this wedding is not a way to move on.

She shud have stayed away and heal her heart with help of her father or someone close. The process of healing is that. When u know u can't control urself when u see ur love going then u shudnt be coming to that place at all.

But the thing is she made someone's marriage a show for herself without being considerate to the girl like her feelings. Even if she didn't come maya wud have married yday bcoz she & arjun were already decided whatever they will be marrying. And arjun even shut vandana when she stopped marriage.

One thing a lot many of us are forgetting that Arjun is Saanjh's friend first - love later. We shouldn't be ignoring the scene where Saanjh said that 'i willint be letting anyone compromise Arjun's happiness'. For Saanjh, she doesn't trust Maya and like any sane friend - she will not be 100% happy with an untrustworthy person being married to her best friend. All of us have seen the kind of bitch Maya has been to Saanjh since day one (at office, at Maya's home, at hospital). Anybody in Saanjh's place would have hated Maya.

Originally posted by: iMini

One thing a lot many of us are forgetting that Arjun is Saanjh's friend first - love later. We shouldn't be ignoring the scene where Saanjh said that 'i willint be letting anyone compromise Arjun's happiness'. For Saanjh, she doesn't trust Maya and like any sane friend - she will not be 100% happy with an untrustworthy person being married to her best friend. All of us have seen the kind of bitch Maya has been to Saanjh since day one (at office, at Maya's home, at hospital). Anybody in Saanjh's place would have hated Maya.

I beg to differ
I feel the biggest reason Saanjh subconsciously hates Maya is that Arjun loves Maya. There will always be that jealousy whether it's prevalent or not. If Maya can be jealous seeing saanjh with Arjun, I'm sure Saanjh will be jealous to see Maya with arjun
Same thing with vandana.
No matter what Maya would do for her family it will never be enough for vandana because at the back of her head she will subconsciously always want Saanjh to be her bahu instead of Maya

Originally posted by: ishakumar

Publicly claiming her love to Maya's husband would reduce any woman's respect whether self made or a house wife. A woman's humiliation is enough to bring down her respect in the eyes of the crowd, just my thinking... it wasn't the right time or place to make such claims on Saanjhs end. Everyone already knows how she feels but publicly trying to make herself seem mahaan seems OTT

Wasn't it needed at that time? She did it when Maya locked herself in the room. For Saanjh, it was needed to make it clear to Maya that Arjun cannot be separated from his loved ones since we all know Saanjh doesn't get any great positive vibes from Maya. If that's seen as disrespect then well - shouldn't respect and trust be earned?