Not Maya but saanjh

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sup3rman

@sup3rman

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

Depression is madness according to saanjh
I think saanjh is mad not maya
By just talking to doctor nd seeing the self harm marks, she should think that maya has gone through the worst childhood she can imagine, one can develop depression nd with all these depressing things life one can go for self harm or suicide.

I had been through sexual abuse in my childhood, had developed depression, done self harm a lot of times, tried to end my life, hated the wedding topic even but then i found a man who has changed my life completely i learned to trust again nd yeah now i'm a happy married woman, been in marriage for 5 years now nd yeah have some issues still, have mood swings sometimes i feel sad for no reason but still i'm good, i'm not mad nd no depressed person is mad. huh

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@xsumi

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

Your story can really teach saanjh a lesson. Being depressed is not wrong. Many people experience depression. And having mental issue is not wrong at all, saanjh is acting as if Maya can't love arjun because she has mental problem. Well she suffered a terrible childhood and trauma has affected her after life and there's nothing wrong. I don't even know what's wrong with saanjh. If saanjh was in Maya's position she would have understood but because she has never experienced difficultly in her life, she is judging Maya too easily

And about those marks, saanjh assuming Maya self harmed herself, it could easily be ashwin who harmed Maya, but nooo saanjh will run along to ashwin and ask about those marks and she will easily be indoctrinated by ashwin

And lastly, I'm very sorry that you experienced sexual abuse in the past, it must have been very difficult to overcome such a sad trauma. I'm glad you have now found happiness in your life and I pray you always keep smiling 😊 ❤️

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

Your story is really touching. More power to you.

Even I feel the same regarding saanjh. She's an educated fool who thinks depression is mad.

But I have seen people in my personal life going through it closely. They aren't mad but they have mood swings & feelings like emptyness, worthlessness, more assurance & support, mainly love, care.

She's in dreams that if a person is suffering from depression they aren't eligible for marriage.

What an idiot !

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Mithila

@Mithikush

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Your story is really touching. I hope Beyhad team read your story and changed their stupid thought . Sometimes I also took medicine for depression bcoz of official pressure, family pressure but that doesn't mean I'm mental. How funny!!!!! Isn't it? When I watched yesterday's episode I was like . Saanjh misuse her position. One of the most stupid scenes was stupidity of the manager of Insurance Company. As per I know they didn't give any information of their clients over phone. Very disappoint.

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Bharathi_gurti

@Bharathi_gurti

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

Yes I agree with you completely..and I am happy that you are blessed with a good life dear...my heart goes out to such children..still in my eyes Maya is a child..instead of trying to stop the wedding saanjh should understand her medical condition with mayas story and let arjun know about Mayas illness..and arjun should decide what he wants...saanjh can't decide for arjun...but let's wait and see..

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

I would like to appreciate your courage sharing your personal information. Not everyone has the courage to do that. I feel bad for you about what the trauma that you have undergone but happy for you that you got a sensible partner who understands you and is patient with you.

Arjun has every right to know about Maya's past fully but it has to be between Arjun and Maya. I understand Saanjh's concern for Arjun but she cannot spoonfeed Arjun all her life. Maya should be given a chance to reveal her past to Arjun whenever she is comfortable in doing so. Who is Saanjh to decide what is right for him and what is wrong for him? She is only his best friend and there is a limit to friendship. If she thinks she can get Arjun like that, she is wrong.

Maya might have done 1001 things but that does not justify Saanjh to check her personal files and manipulate the health insurance company to get the information and checking her purse is even worse.

Edited by katrinasalman - 8 years ago

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Isha Kumar

@ishakumar

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Kudos to you for sharing such a personal thing with us! I admire your bravery and courage! May god bless you with more and more happiness with each passing day! May you be so happy that you dont have time to remember all the pain that life had given you...
coming to saanjh, she has totally crossed all lines! This firl just doesnt know where to stop! She seriously has to stop acting like only she cares about arjun and only she can protect him! Maya would have told arjun about her condition one day or the next! Maya has to be comfortable to tel arjun about such a sensitive issue but saanjh rushed it like she was winning some race. The way saanjh has brought it to arjun is totally disgusting!
I hope that all this backfires onto saanjh and arjun clearly tells her to back off from him and maya! He is not a child that she constantly has to come and hold his finger... he is a grown man with a woman coming into his life now! Saanjh has to learn to give the couple some space!!!

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Barmeenluv

@Barmeenluv

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

You ar brave that you shared with us your story.and yeah Saanjh needs to be thought a lesson that she shouldn't poke her nose into Arya life and how dare she to check Maya bag.Checking someone's bag is really so pathetic without their consent.Seriously Saanjh it proves you are pycho possessive

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Sanjana luhana

@Sanjana212

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

You are really brave to share your story. Good to know that bow u r living a good and happy life.

Accordingto sanjh, maya does not have a right to love arjun just because she is not depressed. Being depressed does not mean that you are mental or whatever. Whatever sanjh is doing is too much. And how can the manager of insurance company can give someones personal information to another person without their permission. Sanjh is believing whatever she is being told and what if maya tells her about ashwin, will she believe her?? I really dont think so kyu ke kuch bhi ho galat maya ho hai uske liye. Now she is try to prove maya mental to arjun to get arjun back.

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sup3rman

@sup3rman

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

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Thank you so much everyone u guys are really gem !!
its really very difficult to handle such things in childhood where the abuser is your close relative nd ur parents have blind trust in them, i still couldn't tell my parents that when i first harmed myself, my parents shouted at me, i didn't even know what i was going through then my aunty understood this thing she talked to my parents nd took me to her friend who's practicing psychiatrist nd then after many sessions i got courage to tell her completely nd to say no that abuser.
Even i didn't tell my husband the 3 years of our married life but he was so patient, he always told me share whenever u want to, we lived our life three years just like friends not anything but he was fine with it he didn't even ask my parents or anyone.
nd its really difficult to portray that u are strong in the world out there but in the night ur demons come out to haunt u.
Back to our story, saanjh should not interfere in anyone's personal life, she's interfering.
Nd when she is all ready for arjun's happiness then why is she finding ways to refrain arjun from being with maya. I know she is a friend nd she cares for arjun but she should understand that friendship has some limits especially when it comes to anyone's privacy.

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