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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: TheUnique



FYI I am not an ArYa shipper ... I find Saanjh irritating not cuz of silly reasons like she cums in between my Arya scenes .. cuz seriously Kushal's acting puts me off & spoils the scenes itself for me. I find her irritating cuz I find her misery as self created with a whole lot of help from Vandana & Suman. Hence her crying does not have any impact on me & hence I do not feel any sympathy for her.
Also I do not understand this game '' do not let Arjun know the truth '' that the whole of Mathur family is playing. Arjun has not married Maya yet. He himself has told Suman its just baby steps in a relation. So there's still time . So y doesn't this Mathur family or even Sanjh tell him about her feelings ... Let him decide after that. Keeping Arjun in the dark & telling everyone one not to tell & then crying like a fool makes Saanjh's character irritating as well as annoying.

sorry to interrupt..do you really think saanjh should tell arjun now...But I feel she should not and she won't because she could see them in love and she won't take away that happiness in arjun just because she loves him.if she comes between Maya and arjun in future only when Maya becomes a threat..if saanjh proposes arjun ,only thing that will happen is break up of arjun with Maya.person like saanjh won't appreciate that...I am not calling saanjh as Mahan here I am just explaining you that is how saanjh is characterized from the beginning.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: TheUnique



Well Arjun didn't think she invaded their space when she sat with them . 😆
But my comment was not what Maya or saanjh felt to TM. It was about what a normal girl like you & me would do ...will we be comfortable enough if our fiancee had a bestie like saanjh ? Would we have left them alone knowing that the bestie is head over heels in love with him?

You are right cuz in saying Maya is always like that ... but we know Maya is possessive manipulative arrogant tremendously damaged person .. so that was quiet expected from her . But here I see no wrong in not leaving them alone cuz saanjh is not just a bestie .
Saanjh on the other hand is brought up in a cocoon .. everyone is there for her & she's crying buckets for only one thing that she didn't get. She snaps at her boss at her colleagues & even that person on the plane! ... just cuz she's heart broke doesn't give her the right to take it out on anybody who isn't even at fault. These little things show saanjh too can bring out her claws if triggered.

Different people different thought process. You & I can never agree cuz we see things in completely different perspective. So I find this topic extremely silly as y everyone can't stand saanjh ?

so what do you want to do now..just give up her friend ship and get lost or be around and take the wrath of Maya...what do you want her to do...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33
Well, I haven't said Saanjh killed pandit yet, but I can way it now or later if I feel she has. What's the big deal if I or others discuss this possibility? So now we can't discuss anything about Saanjh either because we must have some agenda? This is not to the TM but to everyone. Why can't people discuss? Many here discuss that Maya will turn murderer, complete negative and so on? Have anyone opened a topic and assumed those to be Jeenifer haters? Like I just don't get why those who don't praise Saanjh, find her irritating and so on are assumed to be Jeenifer fans or Maya fans? Even if I never liked Maya, i would still have not liked Saanjh because erasing Maya doesn't make the character Saanjh likeable. It's because the character itself is the problem. As for people assuming, then like I said everyone assume about characters here. Heck, i even thought what if Arjun killed the pandit except I never said here like I never discussed about Saanjh killing pandit either. Does that mean I hate Arjun now as well? There have been many articles about Saanjh getting involved with Ashwin and many scenes and hints in the shows too that Saanjh is not all white. So obviously people will discuss the possibility especially since it's a thriller show. In thriller, it's usually the one which no one thought to be turns out to be the master mind or the killer. So some assume Saanjh while I may think it can be even arjun. It doesn't mean now they hate the character and that's why they are saying.

So much assumptions. As always Maya fans or those who don't praise Saanjh every now as tagged as Jeenifer fans. That's a good way to discredit the character Maya and how much the character Maya is loved and well written which I hope CVS continue doing so and never disappoint. Good way to discredit that and just say oh, people must love Maya because of Jennifer and hate Saanjh because of Aneri. It's easier to think that way than admit the fact that how terrible character Saanjh is since obviously fans would just like to blame other facts as supposed Jeenifer fans behind it than realizing the fact it's the character Saanjh which majority don't identify with or relate to. Majority of Maya fans are not even Jeenifer fans. Yes., sure Jeenifer is doing excellent job as Maya and it has a hand it making Maya so connected to viewers to sympathize with Maya because even if a character is written well but if the actor playing isn't great, the character doesn't become famous and loved. But that doesn't mean people love Maya because of Jeenifer. I barely see any Jeenifer fans in this forum. Just because Aneri doesn't have much fans compared to Jeenifer, so people just like to blame other fans to sympathize with Aneri thinking that Saanjh must be disliked because Aneri doesn't have much fans while Maya must be loved because jennifer fans has more fans. Like I said, good way of assuming rather than looking the fact with the way terrible way the Saanjh is written and shown. Easy ti take Saanjh bashing as Aneri as they can't differentiate between actor and character yet accuse others of doing the same when most of Maya fans are not even Jeenifer actress's fans. The only reason Saanjh is even a little bit likable is because of Aneri's good acting, not because the character Saanjh. Or, at least for me that's how it's. Look at Aneri on twitter. She takes Saanjh's bashing so nicely and know people are hating on Saanjh, not her. I wish her fans could do the same and knew twitter the difference between real and reel rather than always accusing others
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Posted: 8 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: _Darling_

Well, I haven't said Saanjh killed pandit yet, but I can way it now or later if I feel she has. What's the big deal if I or others discuss this possibility? So now we can't discuss anything about Saanjh either because we must have some agenda? This is not to the TM but to everyone. Why can't people discuss?

Hello,
firstly I didn't say we can not discuss about Saanjh and secondly what possibility are you talking about? If you can say it's Saanjh then the possibility can be Vandana, Suman, Ayaan, Prem or even Mr. Malkani.😆
I am just trying to say that people starting giving the fault to Saanjh for nothing. we didn't get any proof that she was.. and I really can't understand if Saanjh could be the murderer then why did she do it? She is better thing to do by crying behind Arjun. When you are talking about possibilities then every possibility shows to Maya! For example the earring or that pandit insulted Maya when Arjun was around and now she even got the feeling that he would leave her and even asked him if he would leave her and panicked. These are the possibilities and they are only showing that Maya could do it. Even some people are saying it could be Ashwin as the way the pandit looked at Maya and Maya at Pandit it looked like they know each other before, maybe it could be Ashwin's plan to make Maya look like a murderer. So.. even this is a possibility. But which kind of examplation would you give when you assume it's Saanjh?

Many here discuss that Maya will turn murderer, complete negative and so on? Have anyone opened a topic and assumed those to be Jeenifer haters?

See.. the same thing I have mentioned happens again! I said people mistaken characters with actors.. and the same way you are talking like. When did I say anything about Aneri in my Post? Read it again please, before mistaking actors with characters. And coming to your questions. No, no one would open any Topic about why people assume that it's Maya the murderer.. yaar.. it was clearly to be seen in the Precap 2 epis ago.. Sorry but, I again don't undestand why people say it could be Saanjh... not atleast now. She may be the murderer, I don't know. But we have no proofs and for what she may do it. She has no connection to the pandit, she only went their to pray.


Like I just don't get why those who don't praise Saanjh, find her irritating and so on are assumed to be Jeenifer fans or Maya fans?

To be honest.. even I have opened a whole Topic only about how irritating Saanjh is! That doesn't mean I am a Saanjh fan and a Maya hater. And why (If I can ask) why should I be Maya hater then? Only when I am saying the truth in my Posts that Saanjh is irritating? The only thing I hate is FAN GROUPS!!! Why do people even fight? We all watch the same show.. why people have to have a favourite character or a couple in a show? If you think, I am Saanjh fan then think like you want. I am no one's fan actually. I am just watching the show and giving some truth points about the show and fans how react to some situations.

Even if I never liked Maya, i would still have not liked Saanjh because erasing Maya doesn't make the character Saanjh likeable. It's because the character itself is the problem.

I too agree with you. I don't like Saanjh's character and even Maya's! I can't have a connection to any of these girls. One is sycho and other one is no less!

As for people assuming, then like I said everyone assume about characters here. Heck, i even thought what if Arjun killed the pandit except I never said here like I never discussed about Saanjh killing pandit either.

See... even now I would ask you why you think that Arjun did it? The same what I said above about Saanjh, the same thing goes here aswell. Why would arjun do this?

Does that mean I hate Arjun now as well?

No, that doesn't mean like that at all.

There have been many articles about Saanjh getting involved with Ashwin and many scenes and hints in the shows too that Saanjh is not all white. So obviously people will discuss the possibility especially since it's a thriller show. In thriller, it's usually the one which no one thought to be turns out to be the master mind or the killer. So some assume Saanjh while I may think it can be even arjun. It doesn't mean now they hate the character and that's why they are saying.

I understand but when you assume that the person could be the murderer, then you should give atleast 1 example.

So much assumptions. As always Maya fans or those who don't praise Saanjh every now as tagged as Jeenifer fans. That's a good way to discredit the character Maya and how much the character Maya is loved and well written which I hope CVS continue doing so and never disappoint. Good way to discredit that and just say oh, people must love Maya because of Jennifer and hate Saanjh because of Aneri. It's easier to think that way than admit the fact that how terrible character Saanjh is since obviously fans would just like to blame other facts as supposed Jeenifer fans behind it than realizing the fact it's the character Saanjh which majority don't identify with or relate to. Majority of Maya fans are not even Jeenifer fans.

Wait wait wait.. I know, Saanjh is irritating and for some very terrible. Even I admit, I do skip her scenes always. But that doesn't mean Maya can be better. I hate it how she looks at Saanjh. The way she looks at her is soo terrible. Maya is the one who is trying to rip Saanjh out of Arjun.


Yes., sure Jeenifer is doing excellent job as Maya and it has a hand it making Maya so connected to viewers to sympathize with Maya because even if a character is written well but if the actor playing isn't great, the character doesn't become famous and loved. But that doesn't mean people love Maya because of Jeenifer. I barely see any Jeenifer fans in this forum. Just because Aneri doesn't have much fans compared to Jeenifer, so people just like to blame other fans to sympathize with Aneri thinking that Saanjh must be disliked because Aneri doesn't have much fans while Maya must be loved because jennifer fans has more fans.

Again, I am asking. when did I say anything about Aneri or Jennifer? Why do you almost only talk about Aneri having less fans and Jennifer more than her? You made me think right now. That I was right thinking like this. Because you showed it by talking only about the actors in your reply.

Like I said, good way of assuming rather than looking the fact with the way terrible way the Saanjh is written and shown. Easy ti take Saanjh bashing as Aneri as they can't differentiate between actor and character yet accuse others of doing the same when most of Maya fans are not even Jeenifer actress's fans. The only reason Saanjh is even a little bit likable is because of Aneri's good acting, not because the character Saanjh. Or, at least for me that's how it's. Look at Aneri on twitter. She takes Saanjh's bashing so nicely and know people are hating on Saanjh, not her. I wish her fans could do the same and knew twitter the difference between real and reel rather than always accusing others
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Uff.. I am sick and tired of saying the same thing all the time. -.-



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: JennyPenny

BINGO.

I have the same feelings that you had when you wrote the post but I think it's because her character is SUPER irrating.. Like you can't identify with her at all. Like she's so annoying and her behavior is weird AF.

Like that movie, Mujhse dosti karogi. Rani's character was SO ANNOYING. It was a major turn off.


People assume it's Saanjh because they can't really think that Maya would be the villian of the show even though they clarified a gazillion times that she's playing the antagonist and protagnist.

I am glad, someone thinks the same like me.😆

Yes, they can't see her bad and once I even read a comment on this forum that if Maya would be the murderer then Arya wouldn't be the end game.

I thought by opening this Topic, I would get an answer to my queries.😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: TheUnique

Lol 99 % ppl of this forum doesn't think Saanjh has killed pundit! That would be illogical.

Nope.. There were really many posts stating the same. And that's why I have opened this Topic to discuss about it why people think like it but still.. I didn't get any answer... I too think that's illogical that's why I have opened tihs Topic na.😆

If Maya has ppl who support her & think she is good & blah blah blah like you said then Saanjh has her supporters too who thinks she is the most sorted out person out there in the show.

Rather Maya supporters actually admit she has grey shades & she's no saint. .

They have to admit it.. because they see it in the show that Maya is not a normal kind of girl like in saas bahu dramas.😆 I still don't get it why everyone getting into fan groups in a forum. We do watch the same show right? So, why peoplel should have any supporter? I am no one's supporter and I am glad I am not.😆

About insecurity of Maya...well she got Arjuns love but still is insecure about Saanjh... So tell me what would you do if you were in Maya's place where you are aware your fiancee's bestie who happens to be a woman is actually in love with him & also threatens you that next time if you don't keep your thing safely she might not return it!

Between.. Saanjh said this after that look of Maya. Have you seen the look of Maya when she sees Saanjh everytime? Try to put yourself into Saanjh's place. How would you react to some girl who tries to take your best friend away? And the one sentence of her, she only meant that Maya has to take care of Arjun if she can not then she won't get him again. That doesn't mean, Saanjh will rip him off of her.

Would you still feel completely in peace when you see your fiancee with her & leave them alone cuz u r mahaan & secured?

No, but I would have somehow told this to Arjun.. that I don't feel good when he hugs her etc..

Arjun might not know Saanjh loves him but Maya knows. On the plane I found Maya doing what Saanjh had threatened her off... guard what is hers .

Sorry.. I didn't watch that episode.. so can't reply to this one.

And coming to insecurities I can say Saanjh is insecure as well. The fit she threw after she saw Arjun had gone to Mauritius with Maya at the airport & then when she saw the selfies that Arjun had sent her with Maya... Arjun isn't even her lover & she gets so pissed off seeing another woman with him & ppl call maya insecure!

Firstly.. this was not discussed in this Post actually.. even I didn't mention this in my post. I too think she is gone gaga over Arjun..😆 Right now, Maya has rights on Arjun than Saanjh ... and I am good with it.😆 everyone knows, saanjh could do everything for Arjun.. but killing someone? She might kill Maya yes..😆 but not a pandit...😆

If you respect other people's opinion then you should be fine with some people not finding the selfless & pure Saanjh not so & we should be fine too if you find Maya insecure manipulative murderer & totally negative & not someone who should be getting all the sympathies but rather the little angel heart broken Saanjh who should be getting that. Absolutely fine with me

I respect other's opinions but a opinion includes a person's thoughts and atleast 1 examplation why the person thinks like this. And that's why I won't understand why people thought like that because no one could ever write a post here why that peerson thought like that and then I would accept and understand that opinion of that person. But when an opinion doesn't make sense then other person tries to make that person understand that it doesn't make sense so they think for another option. I think I made myself clear what I was trying to say.
And, i never said that I think Maya is the murderer, but for now on, she is looking like this. even the way she looked at Saanjh... See.. in my opinion I stated my opinion and gave an example. And so people can understand others opinions. I don't like it when people come and give false informations and say that it's their opinion but without giving any examplations.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile



So what do you expect to behave when she saw the man whom she loved with someone else !That's called feeling hurt .She was feeling hurt and there is nothing wrong in that.Saanjh told Maya to take care of things and she won't return it back which means to protect her relationship with arjun and don't be careless about it.Protecting a relationship doesn't mean who don't even give space him with his friend.Maya isn't doing it because saanjh told , isn't Maya the same even before.Her ways of protecting relationships are different.She even said from now on you will love me only.

Yes same! That saanjh didn't tell him about her feelings to him, is her problem. When she stalks him and goes to Mauritius is her problem.. but when she sees him being with another girl.. that must be hurt a lot. And I admit it, I skipped that scene, I couldn't see her hurt. tHis is really bad for her. And then when she knows her love of her life is with someone who is not good. Saanjh saw her real color...now she iwll try to protect him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tu-jo-mile

Where is the chemistry? Are we watching a different show? Maya forced herself on Arjun..she bought the love didn't earn it..using money and power to woo a guy is not love..is possessiveness..to me sanjh is also irritating..she thinks Arjun belongs to her..which is illogical..but Maya also Took the wrong route to get Arjun

But you are wrong. Maya didn't force him. But bought him with money and fame and job.. but Saanjh is not best.. I agreee.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: lumos_31

@theUnique
If Saanjh comes in ArYa scenes she's annoying, irritating, does not give ArYa space, stalks them blah blah blah. Now when Maya has not let Arjun and Saanjh be, she's protecting her love? Did she think Arjun would fall in love with Saanjh in that one flight? Or does she not trust Arjun? She ruined the SaaJun scene for me by so desperately wanting to be with Arjun in that flight. And Maya broke Arjun's phone, did not allow arjun to go for lunch with her, and the expressions she gives when Arjun talks about Saanjh or when she sees saanjh and Arjun together were before Saanjh 'threatened' Maya.
And FYI, Saanjh did not throw a 'fit' because Maya went with Arjun. She was upset because she saw Arjun happily at the airport with Maya when he told everybody he is going alone. At that time did Saanjh know Arjun will fall for Maya? Arjun isn't her lover but doesn't she love him? You would be happy seeing the person u love enjoying a holiday with someone u know loves him?

Very well said!👏 This was what I have tried to say👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Your post is completely sensible and brilliant.👏

I love Maya but I don't dislike Saanjh either.Infact Aneri is doing a marvellous job as Saanjh.Saanjh's character was level headed and smart in the beginning but in between she started behaving in a foolish manner.I don't blame her.She had fallen for her closest friend and she was hoping that he would reciprocate.But that didn't happen and she suffered a heartbreak.I am now looking forward for her to move on and emerge as a strong character.

Now coming to your post,I find it really absurd when people start blaming Saanjh out of nowhere.Why is it necessary for Saanjh to become the 'villain' for Maya to prove herself?? Maya can prove herself through her own merit.I believe that she can overcome her flaws like any other human being.If Saanjh turns negative for Maya to turn positive then it would be like any other cliched show where there is the good one and the bad one.Why can't we see that all three of them,Maya,Arjun,Saanjh are human beings and they have their own set of flaws too?? Neither of them is an angel nor is anyone the devil.And as far as I know Saanjh,she can be anything but negative.

Wow!!!👏 Just perfectly described my pov!!!👏 I have nothing to say more than quoting you words👏

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