Possessive vs. Obsessive

It's definitely for sure that I am OBSESSIVE! The think is, I am possesive aswell but not too much than obsessive. When I had a BF I would definitely be somehow possevise aswell, I would definitely want the guy to be only with him, but I would definitely not make him do what I say. I would not make him stay with me or I will not make him not look at other girls. As it's his own decision. But I am in love then it's not possessive .. IT'S OBSESSIVE and yes, I get obsessed soo easily and that kind of feeling hasn't left yet for like 2-3 years. People call me obsessed, I thought it's a bad thing. I thought it's bad to be obsessed, but after knowing the definition, I would not add possessive and obsessive in a bad (negative) categorie. . I would call me Obsessive just because I would want to be with that person, want to stay every seconds with that person.. but I would definitely not expect the same from him. It's very difficult for me to explain why I would add myself to obsessive categorie as I never saw any obsessive person in my life.. rather I saw always possessive people.

What do you think? It's a Topic which makes me get interested, please let's discuss about it. :)

nice topic and poll naz

Originally posted by: xsumi

nice topic and poll naz

well im not even being biased but i think i am maya, im obsessive 😆

i have done some crazy and obsessive things in the past for my ex crushes 😆 yikesss cringing 😳

i dont think i am possessive. never been controlling, im not gonna beg for someones love and make myself look like a fool. im not gonna cry over a man who doesn't love me... because personally speaking i know there is someone out there who will accept me for who i am

Thanks baby.. this topic is very interesting for me.. I don't know if you feel the same.

I won't call you biased aswell..😆 You dont know whatever I have done for my love.. whatever I would not do!

Yes! I would never beg for people's love but I would MAKE them beg for my love!! 😆 But I have cried a lot for my love.. who still doesn't even know anything about my feelings. The last line you said, I know what you mean and many people say the same. But sorry.. I don't think so.. If it's so, then why do people die at young age or without finding their soulmate? Then why it's the use to have a soulmate?

Lol.. vio mata..good topic..

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Lol.. vio mata..good topic..

Truth to be told..

I am like maya..

Just extreme about my things...

Can't let anyone take my things..be it my phone or..pet...

Viomata..check my new post..about Maya.. there I have uploaded her new pics...😉

Tell how are they..😃

If so,, then you are rather possessive than Obsessive. People who are possessive don't let other people play with him/her nor to share things.. like you said.

Originally posted by: ..Violetta..

Thanks baby.. this topic is very interesting for me.. I don't know if you feel the same.

I won't call you biased aswell..😆 You dont know whatever I have done for my love.. whatever I would not do!

Yes! I would never beg for people's love but I would MAKE them beg for my love!! 😆 But I have cried a lot for my love.. who still doesn't even know anything about my feelings. The last line you said, I know what you mean and many people say the same. But sorry.. I don't think so.. If it's so, then why do people die at young age or without finding their soulmate? Then why it's the use to have a soulmate?

Originally posted by: xsumi

i agree i find this topic interesting too 😆

well naz we are girls, girls go crazy to do things for their love 😆

@bold ... well said 👏😆]

same with me i have cried alot in the past, went through depressing moments but those days are gone. now i want men to cry for me. im not gonna be vulnerable anymore and i have stopped being obsessive and possessive. im none of those now

i feel you should not cry anymore for your love naz and move on from guys who just does not understand ur feelings.

im not like maya and saanjh begging for a man. Gosh forget men. i'll just wait until the right time to find a guy n get married.

well if people die young without finding their soulmate then that was destined too. my pov

No no no...😲 I have no feelings for that guy anymore.. Until he comes and begs for my love, I would not do anythnig.. and if he doesn't do then it's his decision.. I can't do anything about it. But I don't want any guy to marry me for my money only. I am not rich or so.. but he kinda poor as his dad died 2-3 years ago. and his mom gets money from the country.. and I am 100 per cent sure, when I go to him and tell him that I love him, he would not think and say yes and would want to marry me.. and only for one reason.. to have money and to live in germany.! And this is not what I want.. And I am not talking about Maya nor Saanjh. I am not thinking like maya.. Maya is possessive aswell as obsessive but she doesn't show it. As much as Saanjh cant share Arjun with Maya so Maya can't share arjun with saanjh! The characters are kinda weird lol😆

I am Addicted right now. addicted to a man who deserves it. That guy who is in my heart is already in my avi and siggiebox 😆🤣

Yeah same.. I too dont think of marriage or love.. until I found the right one..

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Lol.. vio mata..good topic..

Truth to be told..

I am like maya..

Just extreme about my things...

Can't let anyone take my things..be it my phone or..pet...

Viomata..check my new post..about Maya.. there I have uploaded her new pics...😉

Tell how are they..😃

the example you gave was wrong actually. 😆 even I cant share my phone with anyone else.. 😆 this has something to do about personal things.. not about feelings or so... You failed the topic babe 😆😆 jaa and study the topic 😆

Originally posted by: ..Violetta..

the example you gave was wrong actually. 😆 even I cant share my phone with anyone else.. 😆 this has something to do about personal things.. not about feelings or so... You failed the topic babe 😆😆 jaa and study the topic 😆