Mistakes which can break friendship in no sec

Hello everyone,
I am back from a long vacation of IF and Beyhadh Forum. I was very less active here and didn't open any Topics. Sorry for that. But I am back now and have watched Beyhadh till 45th Episode. I am going to watch further, but for now on, I have a comment about the Show what I have to discuss with you.

So, from first Episode till now (actually till 45th Episode) Arjun is doing soo many mistakes in his friendship with Saanjh. I mean, how he talks to her is very mean. He is even questioning her if she is jealous that he got soo much success and she doesn't. I mean really? How can you say something like that to a friend of yours whom you know from childhood? I would even not say something like that to my enemy. Saanjh gets always emotional and leaves but after few hours, he comes back to Saanjh and apologizes to her. But then, always the same thing happens. Yaar.. how old is that guy really? I thought we learn from our mistakes, but Arjun doesn't. Next day, he does the same mistake and it goes like that everyday. For example how he said "you middle class people won't understand our high class discussions" Woww!! 👏 This line, I have never heard in my life until Arjun said that. I mean, no one would ever say that never! This was too much.. I got shocked when I heard that. But Saanjh took is cool.. she didn't say anything about it but she was hurt.. But then Arjun kept on saying the same thing that on a day, she got frustrated and gave an answer to him. I understand her feelings sometimes. I know she is too clingy but isn't Arjun clingy aswell? Only at office he doesn't want to talk to Saanjh and finds her clingy, but after office "when he is lonely" he goes to Saanjh's place even at nights and wants to explain her what happened that day. but is that called friendship? really? I find Arjun more clingy than Saanjh. Look with Saanjh's perspective and tell me that he isn't clingy . :O He awlays says he can handle the things but he can't even see the fact which is in front of his damn eyes! Even Saanjh is saying the same all the time but his dumb mind doesn't understand! Saanjh even gave him an amazing argument, that nobody at Fashion Industry got such a Promotion and cabin for it's own so fast than Arjun. And this was true! How can he be soo stupid? Even if I would have loved such a guy, I would have left him alone that he realizes my presence was important to him. I think Saanjh is doing wrong by always forgiving him. He has to understand his mistakes and live with them! When always people forgive him and his mistakes, he will never learn!

What do you think about that?

- Violetta

I agree with you on some points, not all.

No doubt saanjh is wise among both of them , i think impulsive nature of arjun n his greed for his career along with Saanjh loosing trust with arjun will create distance between them but dunno y i feel u can't separate saanjh n arjun completely. In every scenes there are so many subtle hints that their bond is tooo strong to be broken forever

i agree with each of ur word.

I feel arjun wants to see and believe only the things good for him or the things he wants to see... like the scene for his new cabin ... when he saw his desk and chair removed he believed and even questioned Maya that he is fired from the job because he didn't accepted the proposal ... but when the situation turned and he was promoted he ignored the proposal fact and named it talent ...

Originally posted by: rithika2015

i agree with each of ur word.

saanjh shud let arjun fall and then realise her importance and then get back into his life. but she is not doing that because:

she knows arjun from childhood. she has handled all his pains from his childhood and is like a rock support for him. everyone in their houses knows that saanjh is the support and stability for arjun which he needs in his life. but arjun has taken that for granted. he feels she will never leave him at any cost and that forgrantedness makes him say such things to her. even saanjh knows that how much ever they fight she knows that arjun cant live without her and she cant live without him and thats why she forgives him always. it has becum a habit for her to forgive him.

moreover saanjh can see the danger into which arjun can fall and that is why she is not letting him to fall into it. and is bearing with all this

and i guess sometimes friendship is like that. howmuch ever ur friend hurts u if u know he is gonna be in danger u still try to protect them.

if at all arjun has to realise saanjh's value then it can happen only when arjun crosses his line and hurt saanjh in such a way that she can never forgive him and that can happen only because of maya and we will see that sooner.

Their co-dependence is slowly moving from symbiotic to parasitic...