Arjun's mother - Page 2

Originally posted by: chokri

I agree. She is very boring and predictable now. Always blabbering the same thing like parrot. I don't know what happened to that angle where she was trying to make a place in Arjun's heart.

She thinks she has already made place in Arjun's heart while she hasn't. And personally, I believe only Maya can help her in making that place.

Originally posted by: chandra1998

Exactly my point! People say Maya is obsessive, psycho and all that but she was introduced to us like that in the very beginning itself. If she suddenly changes her attitude, it would be indigestible. And if Arjun cuts all ties with his mother, they will blame Maya for that. Vandana herself is creating distances between them by not giving him enough space.

The mother is just being protective . . . She feels based on arjun s actions that he too loves saanjh but doesn't understand . Her only intention is to make him realise so that he doesn't go through pain in future. She dint have good impression about maya. She doesn't trust her and scared for arjun s future.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

The mother is just being protective . . . She feels based on arjun s actions that he too loves saanjh but doesn't understand . Her only intention is to make him realise so that he doesn't go through pain in future. She dint have good impression about maya. She doesn't trust her and scared for arjun s future.

Maya yes she was introduced to us in this way but don't forget other characters are also humans . . . . They aren't God or goddess . .

What's the point of forcing Arjun to fall in love with Saanjh? If he is to love her, he'll fall for her anyway. If not, do whatever is possible, he WILL NOT love her. Its his life and he should at least be given the liberty to take decisions for his own life. He is not a child. He is grown enough to understand what's right and what's wrong for him. And about other characters, I would say right now they are all being selfish. None of them is thinking about Arjun. Nobody wants to see what he wants. Maya and Saanjh are both hell bent on separating Arjun from one another. They should at least give him the right to decide what he wants.

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Yup In same way..we can't just expect from Maya that she will leave Arjun for nothing..like Aabla mahaan nari . .

She is the hero of the story..and "psycho"..if you wanna call..

So for her doing all these things are normal..lkke obsessive ones

But for his family isn't so normal..

Like Vandana . .she is just too much poking in every matter of Arjun.

Exactly! Poking nose is irritating. He is not a kid. He should be free enough to decide what he wants.

Originally posted by: chandra1998

What's the point of forcing Arjun to fall in love with Saanjh? If he is to love her, he'll fall for her anyway. If not, do whatever is possible, he WILL NOT love her. Its his life and he should at least be given the liberty to take decisions for his own life. He is not a child. He is grown enough to understand what's right and what's wrong for him. And about other characters, I would say right now they are all being selfish. None of them is thinking about Arjun. Nobody wants to see what he wants. Maya and Saanjh are both hell bent on separating Arjun from one another. They should at least give him the right to decide what he wants.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

They aren't being selfish. Maya has shown a side to saanjh she is scared of. More then her love she is scared of maya. She knows there is something wrong with her.

Vandana saw maya breaking the glass and even she knows about the saaya date. . . . And now even pandit also told her . . So she is just protecting her son.

Everybody loves arjun , knowing his innocent nature they are just protecting him.

Vandana never forced anything on arjun but it's just she feels arjun loves saanjh and wants to make him realise . . . . .

What made her realise that? Because Arjun is protective of Saanjh? Because Arjun cares for her? Because he is comfortable with her? Because she is special to him? That makes her realise that Arjun loves her? But he is also protective of Maya. He also cares for her. He is definitely comfortable with her and he himself said once that she is special to him. Does that also mean he loves Maya? And Vandana is absolutely forcing him. Her talking rudely to him for not rejecting Maya's proposal shows that. Arjun is not given enough freedom to choose what he wants. May be its neither Maya, nor Saanjh for him. May be he finds someone new. I'm sure she'll do the same thing for that girl also. And yes, even Saanjh is being selfish. Let's believe that she is protecting Arjun from "Psycho" Maya but even before coming to know that Maya is a psycho, she cut out Maya from ArYa's picture. How would you justify that?

Me too. 😆 Vandana should first try to concentrate on mending his relation with his son who even today can't see his mom in her . First gain that place be Arjun's mom first & then advice him on his relationships 😆 U r right here all the sane women want everything forcible & I thought only Maya was the obsessed person 😆

Originally posted by: chandra1998

What made her realise that? Because Arjun is protective of Saanjh? Because Arjun cares for her? Because he is comfortable with her? Because she is special to him? That makes her realise that Arjun loves her? But he is also protective of Maya. He also cares for her. He is definitely comfortable with her and he himself said once that she is special to him. Does that also mean he loves Maya? And Vandana is absolutely forcing him. Her talking rudely to him for not rejecting Maya's proposal shows that. Arjun is not given enough freedom to chose what he wants. May be its neither Maya, nor Saanjh for him. May be he finds someone new. I'm sure she'll do the same thing for that girl also. And even Saanjh is being selfish. Even before coming to know that Maya is a psycho, she cut out Maya from ArYa's picture. How would you justify that?

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Wasn't she cutting to paste it on her scrapbook ! Are these big crimes to pick and grind about them. Characters are human and not gods . . . Forcing someone would be like maya s proposal taking him to place where he couldn't say no . Nobody forced arjun but trying to make him realise isn't wrong . Making one realise and force are two separate and would any mother her son to fall in pit . . . The pandit said he will leave the hands of right and join the hands of wrong people. Well I sum up this post saying she never put gun on his head and told to reciprocate to saanjh.

Well, that's what you think. I cannot change your opinion nor can you change mine. So peace. 😃 tada!