Arjun clearly doesnt love saanjh, and Saanjh is also obsessed - Page 3

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Posted: 8 years ago
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^ He doesn't understand Saanjh's feelings n we are expecting him to understand Maya's 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: nitzy_21

^ He doesn't understand Saanjh's feelings n we are expecting him to understand Maya's 😆

That's the point.. 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes right now Arjun doesn't love saanjh that's what he said in Yday episode... he doesn't love maya either... he doesn't love his mom his bro too... inshort arjun loves himself... the day he realises about love he will first remember saanj than anyone..

Saanj may be possessive but not obsessive... if Arjun falls for maya then saanj will get heartbroken but her frnship is above all these so she will definitely wish good for maya and Arjun... no obsessed person will do this... no obsessed person will openly say that another girl is in love with him jsut like how saanj told Arjun about maya...

Regarding her chipku that's how Arjun and saanj were together from childhood... they were best friends and didn't Mind hanging out like that so why should she distance herself after knowing that he doesn't love her because even as friends they were like that... it's not like she suddenly started behaving like this after falling in love with him...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Akdhaparijatluv


Yes right now Arjun doesn't love saanjh that's what he said in Yday episode... he doesn't love maya either... he doesn't love his mom his bro too... inshort arjun loves himself... the day he realises about love he will first remember saanj than anyone..

Saanj may be possessive but not obsessive... if Arjun falls for maya then saanj will get heartbroken but her frnship is above all these so she will definitely wish good for maya and Arjun... no obsessed person will do this... no obsessed person will openly say that another girl is in love with him jsut like how saanj told Arjun about maya...

Regarding her chipku that's how Arjun and saanj were together from childhood... they were best friends and didn't Mind hanging out like that so why should she distance herself after knowing that he doesn't love her because even as friends they were like that... it's not like she suddenly started behaving like this after falling in love with him...


What a sensible way of putting across a view, amid all the chaos. Well done👏

This forum has a great problem in differentiating between possessive and obsessive😆 Participating in the discussions here is just making even me confused..

In one post many were arguing tooth and nail that Maya is just possessive, now the same is being done to prove Saanjh is obsessive😆 I can just see favouritism and no logic, in both arguments. Hopefully time will clear things.

Whatever this show Beyhad achieves, I sincerely hope by the end of the show people could differentiate between possessiveness and obsessiveness.😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

@bold agree...
As I mentioned in my earlier post..she deserves someone mature..who can give her the deserved time she needs..who can handle her possiseveness..without being possissived..can show her right way ..
And our great Arjun lacks every quality that you mention..
This ladka...kab samjhega
If he understands..any of Saanjh's love or maya's love...
Then..i will go crazy..😉

👏👏..perfect yar...well said
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: nitzy_21

^ He doesn't understand Saanjh's feelings n we are expecting him to understand Maya's 😆

He is in his own world, all to himself😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .bluebolt


What a sensible way of putting across a view, amid all the chaos. Well done👏

This forum has a great problem in differentiating between possessive and obsessive😆 Participating in the discussions here is just making even me confused..

In one post many were arguing tooth and nail that Maya is just possessive, now the same is being done to prove Saanjh is obsessive😆 I can just see favouritism and no logic, in both arguments. Hopefully time will clear things.

Whatever this show Beyhad achieves, I sincerely hope by the end of the show people could differentiate between possessiveness and obsessiveness.😉


I myself get confused as to what terms to use, possesive/obsessive, psychopath/sociopath. But i believe most of us r possessive abt d ones v love, be it parents, siblings, friends or lovers. Saanjh talking constantly abt Arjun n cropping his pics doesn't look like possesive to me. Most of us wudn't do it. It looks obsessive. Itz my pov.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: nitzy_21

As of now i disagree that Arjun doesn't love Saanjh. Have you seen the so called friendship they share? Would any other guy/gal come close to them knowing the kinda 'friendship' they share? They clearly r much more than friends. Moreover, at this age also, they are so touchy touchy. Arjun always needs Saanjh and Saanjh always needs Arjun. They both keep talking about each other. They both deserve each other. The only difference is Saanjh has realised it but Arjun hasn't yet. He will surely one day. I agree with Saanjh obsessed with Arjun part.

Arjun doesn't even look like he likes Maya. He is just drawn towards her because she gives him attention and she is a big shot. Maya deserves somebody who loves her genuinely inspite of seeing her crazyness. She needs somebody who can calm her down, show her the right path and guide her. Somebody who loves her unconditionally and is always there to support her. Arjun cannot do any of these.




@Bold Do you think Arjun can do all this? He is not understanding the love of saanjh even, and context to Maya's behaviour, Maya's love is not that complicated also. If he can't understand maya's love despite so much of hints, how he can understand maya?? he need to get rid of his childish behaviour in order to understand Maya. which I bet he can't do! He is simply flirting with maya which he thinks normal but isnt actually at all of maya. Maya doesn't understand flirting and Arjin doesn't understand love. Yeh kya siyappa hai!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't get why Saanjh or her parents or Vandhana & Ayaan understand that it's not necessary for every friendship to turn into love in the end... with Maya in or put of the picture, Arjun still doesn't love Saanjh not he would, she is just his best friend & no amount of trying can change that... maybe without Maya in picture he would have bended to their wish. And again Maya isn't obssessed... she is just too possessive & she is extreme by nature... whatever she feels or does, she gives 200% in it. People are so hypocrit, if a guy is possessive types he is hero & if it's a girl than she is pyscho... why girls are expected to be damsel in distress... why can they fight for their own choices & rights..?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavyanjali08

I don't get why Saanjh or her parents or Vandhana & Ayaan understand that it's not necessary for every friendship to turn into love in the end... with Maya in or put of the picture, Arjun still doesn't love Saanjh not he would, she is just his best friend & no amount of trying can change that... maybe without Maya in picture he would have bended to their wish. And again Maya isn't obssessed... she is just too possessive & she is extreme by nature... whatever she feels or does, she gives 200% in it. People are so hypocrit, if a guy is possessive types he is hero & if it's a girl than she is pyscho... why girls are expected to be damsel in distress... why can they fight for their own choices & rights..?


Well said... maya isnt obsessed she is just possesive for arjun which she doesn't even possess yet. But saanjh on the other hand is technically obsessing over someone that doesn't love her back ;)

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