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Hi All. Sharing my views on Adiya relationship equation.
Writing for the first time on this forum. Hope I do justice to it! Let me know your views.
Love has different shades, that is something everyone knows.
But how different shades constitute love, understanding that is very important.
BP is showing exactly that. ⭐️
In Adi and Pooja's case, they were best friends. They loved being with each other. Adi's love for Pooja constituted more of friendship and attraction but he wasn't mentally connected to her. He looked at he er and said, "I'll make her happy" but he never looked at her and said, "I'll make her happy the way she wants" That's where lies the difference.
For Pooja, she did love Adi, made his problems, her problems. Made his likes, her likes. Tried to keep up with his pace so that her love can survive. But she never got what she expected from the relationship.
And she was really bad at communicating the same to Adi. That's why she fell out of love and fell in love with Yash later. Cause she found what she wanted in him. She was guilty about it cause she had loved Adi and he was still his best friend, but she also could see she had got what she always wanted from someone else.
Now coming to Zoya and Yash.
Zoya loved Yash with everything. She trusted him enough to leave her family behind. She always tried to keep him happy but her ways of doing that were very less as she was a pampered child. But loving someone isn't enough. She never tried to understand him. Never tried to bridge the gap between him and his family. Never tried to make his situation better as a whole. In short, she never could be his friend. She used to take everything as he said at face value. And she could never see beyond that. A friend would've seen beyond the words he was saying. But she could never do that.
Coming to Yash. I have thought a lot about this one. And tried to understand from every perspective and this is my understanding.
Yash loved Zoya only superficially. I mean, he fell in love with her only cause she is beautiful and delicate like a doll. And he had completely closed his eyes on her inner strength. He treated her like her abbu did.
Pampered like how she was raised. But never loved her in true sense. Never gave her the equal stature in marriage. Never thought she was capable enough to understand him. Never supported her for anything.
He was always cribbing that she can't understand him to Pooja. But he never understood Zoya either. He also never tried to bridge the gap between Zoya and her abbu. So the whole, understanding level was lacking in their relationship. He never could complete her in true sense.
And now Adiya. As Adi said, "Hamare rishte mein dosti bhi hai aur pyaar bhi"
Zoya is Adi's first love, and we all know that. Cause he never loved Pooja. But loves Zoya selflessly. He wants to give all the world's happiness to her. His own pain doesn't matter to him in front of her happiness. That's why he got ready to get her married to Arshad, cause he thought that's what she wants. "Tumhare liye duniya se ladne ka mann karta hai. Duniya jahaan ki khushiyaan cheen laane ka mann karta hai" That's his love for Zoya.
Now the million dollar question. Zoya's love for Adi. Her love is something that has more understanding than infactuation. She cares for him deeply enough to not let him separate from his family. Even if it means being the target of continuous disrespect. She loves him so much that she will keep fighting for his sake, irrespective if he is with her or not. She will support him on everything cause she gets that very strength and support from him only. She realises that he is the only person that has truly understood her. Her love for him is at another deep level that she could never have for Yash. This is something that she will for sure make him understand in coming episodes. She truely wants him with all his perfections as well as imperfections. She loves him and everything that comes with him. That's where her love for Adi is different from what she had for Yash. She might have loved Yash but he could never take that place in her life that Adi has done.
Phew! I hope did justice to writing about them! 😃
