Mein behek gaya tha .. - Page 3

Originally posted by: Dragonfly88

The problem is Subha Pooja Yash will always be present as a shadow in their marriage. This is what happens when you come from a broken marriage, you end up comparing yourself everytime some tough point comes. What we as humans don't understand is that when we enter into another relationship the person we are with is different not the same as last one. Zoya is not Pooja and Aditya is not Yash, they have to keep this in mind during their difficult situations. I liked what you pointed out about Adiya not listening to Zoya. Yes! Aditya does have that flaw, he doesn't listen to anyone that easily. Even with pooja sometimes he use to cut her off. Its a flaw in him and he needs to start listening to zoya when she is trying to explain. I don't think this will go typical, we are lucky we have a smart ML who is attentive. He catches on things easily. With Rajveer too he did realize something was off about him by the second meeting itself with just the way he was talking.

@adhira beautiful post. Sorry for keeping my reply short. Atleast till this Thursday things will be like this for me due to navrathri. Though I put this point in my post I want to reitrate it once again. Aditya is trying to be a good husband being romantic talking about responsibility and all. Pooja diary plays the trick here. At this point though zoya is ready for physical intimacy she needs emotional intimacy more. She wants to talk more and yes she would love to be cuddled,kissed too. But she wants the fun of it. That inner child of aditya. She loves that inner child. And being romantic adi forgets his true nature. Hence the regret. He needs to understand he don't have to prove a good husband to zoya. He just needs to be himself. That won't happen unless pooja is eliminated. Presence of pooja brings in yash also. And I loved HC voice modulation for that tum kya kar sakti ho. Even I heard it properly when i rewatched the scene with earphones. I also felt sad for aditya when he told meri galti ko cover up mat karo. He can't take another diary where sweet words became poisonous arrows. And yes that day reading the diary he cried for his baby. That was why his pain was more than that of zoya. That he is the killer of his child. It's a real hard accusation.

@subha cinevistaas MLs are mostly feminist. They are flawed but they stand up for the cause they believe in. Whether viren wadhwa of ek hazaroen meri behna or dev goenka of EHT they had a good character graph. Aditya hooda as far as I can see is also a feminist ML with his share of flaws. Their FLs are also like that. Flawed but have a character graph which can't be recreated. Manvi of ek hazaroen mein,Durga of EHT and Maya of beyhadh are unique. So is zoya. Arjun was not a weak ML but since the show was about Maya or illusion u need to rewatch it to understand him.

Originally posted by: Subha_2601

Actually this is the first time I am seeing patience in Adi after marriage. Adi is trying his best not to make any mistake this time because he was badly blamed for the breakup of his previous marriage. He is trying to be a good husband by defending Zoya, fighting with his mom everyday, ignoring the fact that she's 'avoiding' his intimacy and bringing embarrassment to his family. First time Zoya created a scene, he forgives her and realizes somebody is trapping her because he knows Zoya doesn't drink. Second time the prasad was spiked, he looks at her with questionable eyes but doesn't say anything. Instead he defends her in front of his mom and dad because he doesn't want to hurt her. Zoya avoided physical intimacy twice yet he told her he can wait his whole life but she has to one day allow him to be intimate with her.

U have a point. Whenever something happens to Adi, he ignores it but if something happens to Zoya, he starts reacting. I hope his sharp mind starts solving the phone mystery soon before it's too late. I have never watched Cinevistas previous shows so have no idea how strong are the MLs of their shows. The only ML I know was Arjun of Beyhadh though I never watched it. He was probably the weakest ML of Cinevistas shows and that's because the show was about Maya and her journey. Beyhadh was not actually a love story, it was about a woman's journey from her birth till her death.

I haven't seen much of their shows only dmg which had good ML but got butchered towards the end

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@adhira beautiful post. Sorry for keeping my reply short. Atleast till this Thursday things will be like this for me due to navrathri. Though I put this point in my post I want to reitrate it once again. Aditya is trying to be a good husband being romantic talking about responsibility and all. Pooja diary plays the trick here. At this point though zoya is ready for physical intimacy she needs emotional intimacy more. She wants to talk more and yes she would love to be cuddled,kissed too. But she wants the fun of it. That inner child of aditya. She loves that inner child. And being romantic adi forgets his true nature. Hence the regret. He needs to understand he don't have to prove a good husband to zoya. He just needs to be himself. That won't happen unless pooja is eliminated. Presence of pooja brings in yash also. And I loved HC voice modulation for that tum kya kar sakti ho. Even I heard it properly when i rewatched the scene with earphones. I also felt sad for aditya when he told meri galti ko cover up mat karo. He can't take another diary where sweet words became poisonous arrows. And yes that day reading the diary he cried for his baby. That was why his pain was more than that of zoya. That he is the killer of his child. It's a real hard accusation.

I understand Shruthi even I'm out most of the time due to invitations from friends for navratri :) I said it to subha also that Aditya does what he does out of his past experience, the diary always is somewhere in his subconscious. He trying to be the passionate prem ki barsat pooja wished for. But then in trying he most of the time slips and becomes his childish self. The smile Zoya gets from his childish act should be enough for him to understand she already loved him the way he is. She was upset when he entered the room but when he innocently said can u feed me she forgot her worries and smiled. Seriously shruthi the glee in his eyes while speaking of his future kids really made me feel for the guy who was accused of killing his child