Aditya is obsessive - That's a good thing

I read a numerous posts saying that Aditya is obsessive. Yes, he is. And that's a good thing guys. He is NOT PSYCHOTIC, he is obsessive. And you should be. True love borders on obsession. There's a thin line between being obsessed and being psychotic and Aditya hasn't crossed over. Yet.

Why do I support him ? Well, lets just say that I am talking from personal experience. When one partner is unsure and undecided the other needs to step up.

Does it seem forceful at that moment ? Yes.

Is it necessary ? Absolutely. No doubt about that.

He is the kind of guy who can sustain a long distance relationship. Even if the relationship transcends time zones and you are thousands of miles away from the person.Why do I say this ? Because my partner is like him. Did I doubt his love for being mere obsession ? Yes, I did. Just like the whole fandom is doing Aditya's right now. 😆

But, when I look back now, I realize that what he did was necessary. Absolutely required. And I am indebted to him for his 'obsession'.

Aditya Hooda is force of nature, who can do enough for both of them. When push comes to shove, you need to take drastic measures and that is what he is doing. The love of his life is getting married to someone else, how can you expect him to be RESPECTFUL ?

I wouldn't respect a guy who doesn't move mountains in such a situation and instead decides to be so-called RESPECTFUL. Screw respectful, life will give him thousands of chances to be mature and respectful, but this is definitely not one of them.

Aditya is not afraid to proclaim his love for Zoya. How many guys actually stand up to their parents as strongly as Aditya does ? You need to give him points for not falling for any of the emotional nonsense like Papa Hooda's statement - I had no response for Waseem because you have done something shameful. What a load of crap !

The reason adults are not able to be 'adults' in India and marry the person of their choice is the societal pressure to conform to a standard. A preset paradigm. You have to be like this, this is what is expected. You step outside the circle and bamn - you are obsessive, unrespectful, immature and blah blah blah ...

Even with Pooja, Aditya's love never wavered. Yes, his definition was love was flawed as he equated friendship with love. But, he was the best of the best friend you could ever imagine. In his flawed way, he did complete justice to 'love' - by being her best friend.

He is one gem of a person. He is passionate about things - be it his career or his beliefs. He doesn't give a rat's ass to what the society thinks about him. Papa Hooda wanted him to be a lawyer, but he loved flying and he chose being a pilot. How many of us actually do what we want to ? Ninety percent of us don't even have the courage to make our own career choices. Forget love !

He is ready to endure humiliation and sacrifice his ego for love. It is easier to stand for yourself and your dignity than exposing your vulnerable side and laying it all out for the other person. He has the goddamn courage to offer his heart on a platter to Zoya - to crush or accept. Whatever she feels like. In my eyes the guy is the very definition of confidence.

I replayed what he said at the very end of the episode multiple times - Main fannah ho jaonga par tumhe dobara galti nhi karne donga.

After being insulted publicly by Waseem and Arshad, he still stood tall on his belief that Zoya and him are meant for each other. No one - nor his parents, nor Zoya's parents, nor Zoya herself can deter this guy. Such passion is rare !

Aditya Hooda is passionate, not unhinged. Yes, he might come on strongly but that's just what he is. It's his innate nature. There were many posts saying that he should back off - why the hell should he do that ? What kind of a person you are if you back off and stop trying for the love of your life. He BELIEVES that Zoya and him are soulmates. And by believe I mean firmly believe.Also, he has so many instances backing up his believes. The CVs have shown Zoya's character to be in love with him. So, why should he back off ? Like that would be plain stupid.

I don't know what kind of a person you are if you backoff from something you feel deep inside your heart - be it your career or your life. And Zoya for him is his LIFE.

This is a beautiful post and i agree with everything you have written⭐️

Loved your post, each word is true. This is what I've felt the whole time along. We forumwasis who didn't call for Adi to back off are in minority. like you said, Adi might be obsessive but one day I'm pretty sure Zoya will be thankful to him for not giving up on the thought that they were meant to be.

Where have you been all this time?

Beautiful post, every word you described is accurate of Aditya.

He is the definition of how love should be. He only has eyes for his love thats it.

Backing off is not in my remit of how love should be, I also was in a very similar situation personally.

Men being possessive isn't harmful if the woman is okay with it. They should protect, love unconditionally.

Aditya Hooda's persistence clutches at my heart strings, it really does.

This is why I always supported his every action, his efforts, his fights, his arguments.

He should not back out or back off!

Aditya you have our support!

Thanks for this post 😊 I don't find him obsessive even if it coming across as that way. I get why he is being like this . Aditya doesn't want Zoya to ruin her life by entering a loveless marriage also he is afraid of losing her. He was away for 6 months trying to move on from his past the last thing he expected was to fall in love with Zoya now that he has realised it, he doesn't want to lose her at any cost.

Originally posted by: harsha..

I read a numerous posts saying that Aditya is obsessive. Yes, he is. And that's a good thing guys. He is NOT PSYCHOTIC, he is obsessive. And you should be. True love borders on obsession. There's a thin line between being obsessed and being psychotic and Aditya hasn't crossed over. Yet.

Why do I support him ? Well, lets just say that I am talking from personal experience. When one partner is unsure and undecided the other needs to step up.

Does it seem forceful at that moment ? Yes.

Is it necessary ? Absolutely. No doubt about that.

He is the kind of guy who can sustain a long distance relationship. Even if the relationship transcends time zones and you are thousands of miles away from the person.Why do I say this ? Because my partner is like him. Did I doubt his love for being mere obsession ? Yes, I did. Just like the whole fandom is doing Aditya's right now. 😆

But, when I look back now, I realize that what he did was necessary. Absolutely required. And I am indebted to him for his 'obsession'.

Aditya Hooda is force of nature, who can do enough for both of them. When push comes to shove, you need to take drastic measures and that is what he is doing. The love of his life is getting married to someone else, how can you expect him to be RESPECTFUL ?

I wouldn't respect a guy who doesn't move mountains in such a situation and instead decides to be so-called RESPECTFUL. Screw respectful, life will give him thousands of chances to be mature and respectful, but this is definitely not one of them.

Aditya is not afraid to proclaim his love for Zoya. How many guys actually stand up to their parents as strongly as Aditya does ? You need to give him points for not falling for any of the emotional nonsense like Papa Hooda's statement - I had no response for Waseem because you have done something shameful. What a load of crap !

The reason adults are not able to be 'adults' in India and marry the person of their choice is the societal pressure to conform to a standard. A preset paradigm. You have to be like this, this is what is expected. You step outside the circle and bamn - you are obsessive, unrespectful, immature and blah blah blah ...

Even with Pooja, Aditya's love never wavered. Yes, his definition was love was flawed as he equated friendship with love. But, he was the best of the best friend you could ever imagine. In his flawed way, he did complete justice to 'love' - by being her best friend.

He is one gem of a person. He is passionate about things - be it his career or his beliefs. He doesn't give a rat's ass to what the society thinks about him. Papa Hooda wanted him to be a lawyer, but he loved flying and he chose being a pilot. How many of us actually do what we want to ? Ninety percent of us don't even have the courage to make our own career choices. Forget love !

He is ready to endure humiliation and sacrifice his ego for love. It is easier to stand for yourself and your dignity than exposing your vulnerable side and laying it all out for the other person. He has the goddamn courage to offer his heart on a platter to Zoya - to crush or accept. Whatever she feels like. In my eyes the guy is the very definition of confidence.

I replayed what he said at the very end of the episode multiple times - Main fannah ho jaonga par tumhe dobara galti nhi karne donga.

After being insulted publicly by Waseem and Arshad, he still stood tall on his belief that Zoya and him are meant for each other. No one - nor his parents, nor Zoya's parents, nor Zoya herself can deter this guy. Such passion is rare !

Aditya Hooda is passionate, not unhinged. Yes, he might come on strongly but that's just what he is. It's his innate nature. There were many posts saying that he should back off - why the hell should he do that ? What kind of a person you are if you back off and stop trying for the love of your life. He BELIEVES that Zoya and him are soulmates. And by believe I mean firmly believe.Also, he has so many instances backing up his believes. The CVs have shown Zoya's character to be in love with him. So, why should he back off ? Like that would be plain stupid.

I don't know what kind of a person you are if you backoff from something you feel deep inside your heart - be it your career or your life. And Zoya for him is his LIFE.

Disclaimer : These are totally my personal views. No offense intended.

A very well written post. The kind of equation Adiya share is diff, so dis is acceptable but thr r many guys out there who r delusional dt d other person loves dm.

Originally posted by: anjaanichudi

A very well written post. The kind of equation Adiya share is diff, so dis is acceptable but thr r many guys out there who r delusional dt d other person loves dm.

Being a man i guese itz easy for Adi d way he is, can Zoya be like Adi without ppl turning her into a Maya?