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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 7 years ago

Zoya was very clear with Wasim today.She doesnt want to get married. Not to Arshad not to anyone else. I guess this is something Aditya also has to hear. Aditya also has to understand. She doesnt want marriage. Today pain of Zoya came out in the open. Her scars in her marriage with Yash for five years. The man for whom she had left her family and of course that girl had shared many intimate moments with her husband in those five years. The very same intimate moments that burn her. Because the thought itself makes her remember he had shared those moments with another woman. The diary which Pooja wrote in which she had been mentioned as an incapable wife who didnt understand her husband she didnt have it in her to go through that accusation once again. I really felt for her when she told problem is not Arshad, problem is me. The girl's scars are not healed. When she talks about friendship what she seeks is that emotional bonding. Some kind of peace. Not what a husband expects from a wife. At this point she is unable to give a man that.

She has created an identity in work and let whoever be the man Wasim put in front of her, she knows that guy will support her in her career, but how long a man can wait for a woman without conjugal relation. Her dialogue to Wasim today made it clear to me, this girl cannot go close to a man in an intimate way at this point and she herself is not sure when she can do it, and if ever she will be able to do it.

Zoya's decision with heart was wrong. So is Wasim's decision with head. To think once the woman is married she will oblige the man and then everything will fall into place. When people force her to give conjugal rights to her husband. When in the initial phase he will be fine, but as time goes by patience vains, first indirect cues will be there, then direct cues and live in a marriage suppressing her feeling maybe giving him just her body out of obligation. That's what Wasim is pushing Zoya into.

If Adi had proposed her, she might have rejected she might have spoken to him her point of view and then maybe they would have taken the decision jointly. Whether to get married, wheither to stay friends and give their relation time or remain just friends. Neverthless one thing is sure if Adi had proposed she would have spoken her mind.

Now with the mess Wasim is going to create Adiya marriage will happen. A marriage in which Zoya is not prepared to give conjugal rights. How will it be for Adi, will he stray or will he stay true to her. For her he might be ok with friendship, but what about the world which will make her see him as her husband. How much she will endure, whether she will adapt or walk out. It is an interesting scenario destiny is bringing up for Adiya by literally pushing Zoya into a marriage which she doesnt want.

On a side note I enjoyed the way Zoya taught Adi to look at his parents from the prism of love. Actually he taught her friendship and she is teaching him love. To have someone in your life who will never leave your hand. Pooja didnt get love because she couldnt give love, Yash didnt get friendship because he couldnt give friendship. Just like Pooja and Yash fulfilled their incomplete part, Aditya and Zoya complete their incomplete part.

PS: A small sneak preview into Seven Vows my fiction: Sridhar Verma at the age of 22 had everything a youngster his age wished for. Youngest of four brothers he is pampered to the hilt by his family. Being a handsome young man he is the college heartthrob.

People say Success is his middle name as he is the university topper and one who is selected for Paper presentation in the Youth Economic Forum in United States of America. This beautiful and perfect world of Sridhar Verma comes crashing down in a second. He realizes to gain what he has lost he has to traverse a tough journey fighting traditions and superstitions to create a new perfect. Will Sridhar successfully take this journey that has more thorns than roses. A journey that challenges him at every turn with new truths. Each truth breaking him from inside while he smiles for the world.

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Meera

@MeeraHK

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Posted: 7 years ago

Nothing more to add

I know it's heart wrenching to see adi broken but no other go

have to wait for a while

superb post

also I felt anjaana Tells Papa hooda look for new secretary we he appoint zoya as secretary after marriage

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mans1234

@mans1234

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Posted: 7 years ago

loved the sneak peak to your book .. i wish the best for your book .. hope it gets all the success ..

hmm today firstly aditya needs to slow down .. i get right now he is a lil worried about this entire arshad scenario but he needs to get what is zoya going through .. she is so not ready ...

if aditya would have proposed then aditya would have lost his love and zoya would have lost a very dear friend .. both would be miserable ...

arshad i dont get him .. did he get upset or jealous .. he barely knows zoya .. how can he be so expressive about her .. then precap that dance .. the way he approached .. i dont get the guy he is so off .. sometimes he is too good and sometimes he is like zoya is meant to be with me ..

ok yesterday i mentioned and now too i feel that they are comparing aditya and arshad where arshad vl come out more of a good guy and better than aditya .. are they making aditya look too childish .. i love the bacha in him but he is lot more than what is being showed .. i dont know how vl he react when he comes to know zoya is not ready to marry anyone .. i mean vl they make arshad the great guy who gives away zoya .. i hope u got my point ..

hmm .. though the track just started and with time things vl get clear .. but now i wish arshad turns negative or becomes grey to get zoya ..

hmm i anjana and arshad might join hands and vl be able to put sakshi drama to end also .. they joining would make sense as arshad wants zoya and anjana wants zoya out ... this is possible only if they want arshad to be grey ..

yay papa hooda is back 😃

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geet0910

@geet0910

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Posted: 7 years ago

Lovely analysis. Today i loved how zoyas small pov was shown. I want more of her inner feelings n inner demons to b explored though, but as u r saying i think that will come out maybe later or if adiya marriage is happening soon then after marriage. I want adiya marriage sooner than later becos this fandom is losing patience again😆 as usual n expected. 3rd angle who is positive n shown as perfect n mahaan never brings any good to the show which negative 3rd angle does bring. Anyways looking forwrd to how adiya marriage happens now.

P. S lovely sneak peek of ur book. Seems a good n bful story.

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Mystique

@mystique_4008

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Posted: 7 years ago

I think next week the track will develop properly, this week is just dancing and jealous drama 😆

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Pooja Menon

@pooja-menon

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Posted: 7 years ago

Wow..you penned down Zoya's perspective really well 😃

It will be very suffocating for Zoya to be in a relationship with Adi now [forget even Arshad].

I wonder will Adi realise this sooner than later and back out...or would they reach the marriage stage? 😕

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 7 years ago

@Meera Adi will have to go through heartbreak

@mans now everyone wants Arshad to be grey or bad. Comon he is not that. He is a good guy. And it will be like that. Adi will be a bit immature which is his true nature. And you are right if Adi had proposed that day it might not have turned out that well. That's why I had written that day also Noor saved Adiya that day by spiking Zoya drink

@geet Tahir told his role is for one month, so atleast 2-3 weeks we will have to bear him for sure. Yes not having Adiya together will create issues. And you are right, more of Zoya's viewpoint will come only after marriage. Thanks for liking the sneak peek of my fiction.

@cherry yes next week only the track will develop

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alizia_malik

@alizia_malik

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Posted: 7 years ago

You are right about one thing that If Aditya had proposed then Zoya would have shared her personal views with him without any hesitation. And I would have loved them trying to heal each other. This jealousy track doesn't make much sense just to garner TRP.. hope it atleast does that.😕 I guess unwanted marriage is in track which will be so cliche. Them trying to fight their dark side together and helping each other out of hidden scars would have made it so much more intense and mature story. But yeah it is ITv show which will go with some drama obviously. But hopefully they show this fighting your inner self meanwhile helping each other out sooner than later.