would u prefer husband like adi? - Page 4

Originally posted by: tvdluverr

Yes, because my character is a bit like Adi's, and he is a loyal, loveable person.

The thing is, Pooja had 'fairytale romance' expectations.

I hate that type of romance. I would hate being with someone who just does absolutely anything you ask of him, and worships the ground that you walk on. A husband is not a dog that you bring everywhere. I have experienced people like that which is why I hate it. It's suffocating.

Arjun seems to be a bit like that with Noor. I would hate to be with him. He may be a good guy but his self-righteousness would grate on my nerves so bad (that's just me) and having a lapdog husband would make me feel trapped.

Having different interests is perfectly okay with me, infact that's even better. And I would not want to force someone to come with me to somewhere I like but they don't and vice versa. I need my space and my partner need theirs too. I like the fact that Adi gave Pooja her own freedom and liberty, yet he loved her more than anything.

Adi has flaws, but then again everyone does. His flaws can be redeemed, and it actually depends on how you deal with the situation as a wife too. Pooja did not handle it well.

Another thing worth mentioning: whilst Pooja got irritated about Adi's idea of spending their anniversary with friends, I would actually love that. For me, family is everything (that includes close friends) so I would love to spend a day like that with my husband and other dear ones. Maybe not all the time, but I wouldn't get irritated over something like that.

I honestly think it depends on what type of person you are and how compatible you can be with someone like him. What's good for one person might not be good for another. A spouse is not a 'one size' sort of thing where everyone can have either a certain 'good type' or 'bad type'. It really depends on each individual.