Are the makers trying to show Poosh weren't bad? - Page 3

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Maybe they are going to show us a very strong reason of them being together.. really excited but scared at the same time!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I do not think that CVs are trying to justify Poosh and the affair. They cheated, it was wrong but that doesn't make them bad people. EMA is wrong, but having EMA doesn't make a person bad. I like how CVs are doing their job. [I remember CVs saying that a man or a woman who cheats are not bad people.]

They were wrong in having an affair behind their partners back but they were not bad people. Poosh were not perfect so as Adiya, they made a mistake. We, as humans, are meant to make mistakes and learn. But Adiya is learning from the mistake of Poosh.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I am totally against extra marital affairs.
You don't like the marriage then get a divorce & move on.
Adi & Zoya will be hurt but they will eventually move on.
But what Yash & Pooja did is inexcusable.
I hope the writers won't justify their betrayal.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maryam2

Maybe they are going to show us a very strong reason of them being together.. really excited but scared at the same time!

Exactly thts what i am feeling too...exciting but scary...even though we knw its for adiyas good...its going to be a rough journey..i mean..its all fictional..yet its giving this vibe as if really happening..

And one thing i dnt knw whthr to be afraid or not abt is...what if yash and pooja were not planning to move on leaving their spouses..in the first episode..yash did look like his.mind was upset abt something..but his concern and care for.zoya was also genuine..what if he was not planning to.leave zoya..instead yash and pooja had accepted they cannot be togther since they cant hurt tjeir spouses..i dnt knw what to.feel abt it..the divorse papers could have happened when they were fighting with their own decisions..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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EMA is a crime...And nobody in right senses will support Poosh. I despised these two individuals right from the beginning. This in no way is a Fresh Concept ..just a messed up way of justifying that it ok to have an EMA if you're respective spouses failed to connect.
What is beyond me is that if you get married and if there's no emotional connect you can have an extra marital affair. I would never want to see or even know about Yash and Pooja's cringe worthy romance
The problem ls that the makers did not show the start of the relationship between Pooja and Yash. ..its not easy for two married individuals to get into an EMA so casually. The makers have totally skipped the complexities of this type of relationship. This casualness is what is making Poosh's character so shallow and no one can ship their so called love as they are portrayed as only cheaters.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: malarmia

I am totally against extra marital affairs.

You don't like the marriage then get a divorce & move on.
Adi & Zoya will be hurt but they will eventually move on.
But what Yash & Pooja did is inexcusable.
I hope the writers won't justify their betrayal.

No one can ever justify ema..not even the writers..but what u write..@bold..like in yash and poojas case..its difficultnto draw that line..what if they didnt realize the cause of unhappiness until they found each other...until poosh met both had their life with its own ups and down...they had their own complaints but they didnt want to.make an issue on it as it can be seen the many times pooja tried to.justify adityas childishness with saksji...and yash didnt even show to.anybody what he was.missing..they were settled with that life..and they were ready to face it for the sake of their marriage..and thia was all until poosj met each other..after them knowing each other..as a friend first..they may have realised somethinh is very wrong in their married life..but wjat happens later tells if their.relationship was understandable or not..if aftr finding themselves to be in love they have decided to.leave their spouses and elope..then they cannot be justifed to.any end..but what if they were going to sacrifice their.love for their spouses befr their death..they are not bad people..if they fell.in.love..the.most decent thing would have been to confess the situation and not hide it.. either leave their spouses after confession..or sacrifice for their spouses happiness..but wjat if they didnt get the chance..and their accident took place befr they could do anything abt it...
Its.my messed up thoughts...dmt want to support poosh for ema..but i have a feeling this can be a possibility..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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How can people having an extra marital affair not be called as bad people? Isn't cheating bad? Isn't lying to your spouse bad? Adiya were not perfect so what, even I'm not perfect, how can someone say they weren't wrong or bad?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Having ema is bad..but what if after realizing they loved each other they decided to forget abt their feelings for each other and move on with their spouses..then would.it be called an ema?..
What i mean is..even though aditya and poojas relationsjip was a filure..and same with yash and zoyas...they were married for 3 and 5 years..thst a long time..there would defintely be a sense of responsibility by the way their characters was shown in the first episode..it would be difficult to love their spouses the same way they have feelings for each other..but it would be even difficult to.leave them...so i was thinking there is a possibility that they would have decides to forget each other and carry on with their spouses and follow their marrg..
I dnt like poosh..but this is the thing coming in my mind since the beginning..i wont say happy weddes.life to.poosh..ratger i would say go to hell..but yea..i wouldnt say they were bad people if this was the scenario..🤔
Edited by deeps07 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Madhu_Scarlet

How can people having an extra marital affair not be called as bad people? Isn't cheating bad? Isn't lying to your spouse bad? Adiya were not perfect so what, even I'm not perfect, how can someone say they weren't wrong or bad?


It's not as simple as AdiYa not being perfect. They barely participated in their own marriages. Marriages are hard work. It's not about just loving each other. It is about being present and compromising and being an active participant in the day to day happenings of the shared life.

Yash and Pooja were "bad" to AdiYa but that does not mean they were fundamentally bad people. Did they lack morality in this situation - of course but again it does not mean they lacked morality in every instance of their lives.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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My thoughts from the beginnng was that cvs wont malign poosh...they have shown Adiya in such poor light ...that even adi has acknowledged that I will let go if its impossible to stay back.

Falling out of love is one thing...Then falling in love while being married to a person who you no longer connect to is something else. This is betrayal..forget love ...u r destroying the trust incorporated by the other person..

If pooja took time to sign or backed off...was yash going to fall in love with zoya once again..

If yeah finds someone much better than zoya and pooja put together..how can this trait of his be defined...that's how for many of them from a one time offense it become habitual..just like one keeps on borrowing money and doesn't bother to return..


Edited by Harshadholic - 7 years ago

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