Are the makers trying to show Poosh weren't bad?

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Isha

@tereliyex

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Cherryfairy
Havnt watched the episode yet but I really hope they are not trying to justify EMA through poosh otherwise show will turn into silsila part 2 🥱 🤢 AdiYa were not perfect spouses but they did not deserve to be cheated upon nobody does

I agree. I don't think anyone is a perfect spouse, let alone AdiYa 😕
Marriages take so much compromise and commitment, I felt even PooSh handled things so immaturely. So I don't know in what universe they would be considered rightfully in love

I was about to make a post about the title song and how I don't think either ZoSh or PooYa had "bepanah pyaar it seemed like all they had was attraction and friendship.
But even then as so many others said, separation and divorce were always options. And not just divorce after the affair was going on for a while, but rather the minute they knew they weren't in love with their spouses anymore.

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delena90

@delena90

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

There is nothing wrong with acknowledging that they may have failed as spouses. Cheating does not happen in isolation. Nothing justifies cheating. But it is only a symptom of the actual problem which was the lack of trust and communication between both sets of partners.

Yash and Pooja were 100% wrong and lacked courage to walk away from a relationship that was not working. But that doesn't absolve Aditya and Zoya of responsibility towards their own marriages. No relationship is without it's problems and fights. One can't brush it under the carpet and assume "love is all we need" and "everything will be okay". Life doesn't work like that. And both Aditya and Zoya were too wrapped up in their own worlds to see or acknowledge the reality of their lives and marriages.

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Deepthy

@deeps07

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Why cant they just show.like.adithya pooja and yash zoya were never meant to be together..what they considered as love and married each other was pure stupidity and when life happened,they messed up...poosh understood it sooner..and somehow they died...now its adiyas turn to understand that..just show they were just not meant to be..and be content with it...and move on...i dnt want any justification of poosh love story. ..neither do i want to show them as poosh were evil or bad people..just some nasty mistakes done by people which cannot br forgotten..it needs to be forgiven to be forgotten .am.i even making sense..😕

Sorry..i saw aditya.crying..😭..and i feel all so down..whts wrong wuth people...why do they hurt each other so.much..

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geet0910

@geet0910

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Cherryfairy

😕 how and why are they justifying cheating

@delena90 just answered it😆

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reddyr

@reddyr

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Posted: 7 years ago

#15

I think thw writers are going to take us through adiyas journey of denial, self doubt, blaming the world, blaming themselves, blaming each other to finally accepting what happened , making peace with it and understanding the extent of the faults and problems in their marriages . Its going to be a jouner and not cut and dry as saying yes poosh were at fault . I think thats obvious they were but for the chatavters themselves its going to be an emotional jouney to process it

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Author Sneha

@AuthorSneha

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Posted: 7 years ago

#16

TM, cvs are just trying to paint a realistic picture.

Generally on shows u see the other woman who wants to snatch the hero is evil etc...

But here they are showing Poosh are Not evil. Just normal human beings who made a mistake.

Nobody is justifying poosh for their affair. Cheating and extra marital affair can never be justified. But there are reasons for why it happens

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Pri89

@Pri89

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Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll
TM, cvs are just trying to paint a realistic picture.
Generally on shows u see the other woman who wants to snatch the hero is evil etc...

But here they are showing Poosh are Not evil. Just normal human beings who made a mistake.
Nobody is justifying poosh for their affair. Cheating and extra marital affair can never be justified. But there are reasons for why it happens

True that.. Why people want yash & pooja to be negative? They were normal people who made mistake. People need to take a mature take on the matter. In the real world, even the most perfect of marriage falls apart. Cheating is not justified nor can be forgiven but there are reasons for why it happens.. and the reasons are often not that the husband was gold digger or wife didn't connect. There are more sensible reasons for it. If everything could have solved through proper communication than no marriage could have fallen apart.

That's the beauty of bepanah. I have trust in CV's they won't justify cheating but they won't show lame excuse either that yash was gold digger ..etc etc

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Delena98

@Delena98

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Posted: 7 years ago

#18

When were they trying to jutify? Zoya did mention she will never forgive Yash for what he did. But the fact that she is trying to understand what went wrong in their marriage is i think a good and different approach as compared to other shows on tv. As someone mentioned they had already mentioned during the launch that Adiya will find their own mistakes and overcome it in their own journey.

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prs_725

@prs_725

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Posted: 7 years ago

#19

i dont think so. Today she basically said that what Yash did she can never forgive him and neither can Adi. They understand why it lead to them cheating but at the same time Zoya realizes no matter how bad ...he doesn't deserve to be hated on bc she once loved him ..i agree with her ..she isnt really siding Yash but the right vs wrong and to prove tht she wasnt soo bad that she cant tell he was depressed or she didnt make such a terrible choice tht he had to go kill someone ...they basically are saying shes a killers wife which she knows is not true ...

how can you move on in life if someone has tarnished someones reputation..the person you quit your family for? they arent justifying cheating but shes trying to just move on ...and i think this will help her bring closure ..

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Subha

@Life_Is_Dutiful

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Posted: 7 years ago

#20

I read this thread before but I thought lemme watch the episode and then I will reply. After watching it, I really don't think they were justifying PooSh affair.

I don't agree with Zoya completely. She wants to reopen the case because she is feeling guilty of not being a good wife but by taking this step, she is ruining not just hers but Aditya's life too and even if she wins, she will still be called a bad wife for not realizing her husband was cheating on her.

But at the same time, I really didn't feel they were justifying PooSh affair. They are just trying to show that not everyone is perfect, everybody makes mistakes. AdiYa also made mistakes in their married lives but that doesn't mean PooSh were right in having affair.

We need to wait till tomorrow's episode to know the truth. After yesterday's dull episode, today's episode was awesome for me.