Want to know Adi's history with Sakshi and Anjana

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Posted: 7 years ago
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So what we know as of now - Adi has virtually NO respect for his mom, but immense respect for his ma-in-law.

Reason he doesn't respect is mom, is because she stood by his father even though that father betrayed her. But I don't really understand continuing such a strong hatred towards her - Fine, she didn't leave him - maybe she had her reasons - even if he doesn't understand that she did it so as to save her kids from being in a broken family - he could assume she had some reason -

Besides, if he is so irritated with her not leaving Mr. Hooda when he betrayed her, why is he still staying with his father? The moment he got his financial independence when he became a pilot, why did he not move to his own house and take his mom with him so she's no longer dependent on her cheater husband?

I'm really not buying this extreme hatred ..that lady has stayed on with Mr. Hooda despite his wrongdoings - that only speaks towards her loyalty. Also while what Mr. Hooda did was wrong - seems like it was a temporary phase during which he had an EMA - after that he seems to have come around - so perhaps Mrs. Hooda could have forgiven him ..

I mean i'm sure there is a strong reason for such a hatred and CVs need to give us more history and justify his complete lack of respect towards his mom.

Now coming to Sakshi, I don't get why he adores her so much or what she has done for him that has earned her so much of respect and love? Perhaps she and pooja were his support at the time when Adi's father cheated - perhaps she understood him well - but I don't see what she could have done that he went to the extent of caring for her more than his mother because from what we've been shown until now Anjana does seem to care for Adi ..

I wish that before Sakshi's truth is out we get a flash back of events showing us what led to adi hating his real mom and what made him take to sakshi so much that he so blindly trusts her.

If they don't give us a past, I really can't seem to relate Adi's relation with his mom or sakshi the way it is as of now! And Sakshi is being such a leech ..with her daughter gone she should make some excuse and get out of that house! that too after her daughter did such a terrible thing ..she's also being of no help to anyone or adi ..I don't really get why she's sticking on!


Does anyone have good solid reasons why adi hates his mom so much and adores sakshi so much? i'm not buying that he hates his mom because he thinks she's spineless or he adores sakshi because she has been his support! ..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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first of all he doesnt hate his mom, he jst doesnt like her being spineless n so doesnt respect her much.. hate is a strong word here to use for adi n his moms relation..
secondly maybe adi must have told his mom to not accept his daddy wen he returned back bt she did anyway so that must have shattered him n made him restrain frm his mother n with time that gap jst kept increasing, n he must have felt lack of parental love which he must have found in sakshi, hence he loves sakshi blindly now.. abt leaving the house n going away with mom, i think he ws 16 only wen this thing happened, so he ws not earning to suggest his mother to come n live separately with him n wen he started earning he jst didnt care coz itne din to reh liya tha na usi gharme usi dad k saath to jab apna matlab khatam ho gaya n independent ho g aya to alag ho jaane ka concept usko thik nhi laga hoga..😆 i mean ye to dhoka dene wali baat hoti na phir if he wud have gone to live seperately with his wife n MIL suddenly wen he became independent.. matlab pehle guroor nhi jaaga wen he ws dependent n baadme guroor kaise jagata??
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I sort of agree to almost all your points. I don't like Adi's behaviour with Anjana, at times I do feel for her. For us to relate mlre closely, we need flashbacks of what happened. Sakshi, its better I don't talks about that lady. I begin to wonder if Pooja is more worde or she! Already Adi os hurt becoz of Pooja, had she really cared for him, she would have told him the truth and not playing around with his feelings again! Well I'm happy in one way, that Adi would realise about Sakshi and get rid of her but I'm afraid he will realise in a harder way.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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And I also dont know why she lives with Adi's family. Isnt that strange? Did she use to work here before or something? yeah it would have made sense if she only lived with Pooja and Adi in their house. but its not even Adi's house. Its Papa Hoodas house! I have never seen someone living with their son in law's whole family 😕
and yes the extreme dislike that Adi has for Anjana thats quite strange as well. Adi seems so childish most of the time, I really hope they show his character development during the course of this show. He needs to work on every relationship he has, and we need to see the change in Adi.

We need a lot of backstories for a lot of people hahahah I really hope they show it over the next few weeks!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Adi doesn't hate anyone except poosh.. in case of his dad he's punishing him n disrespecting him to tell him how painful it is when a family member betrays or hurts u.. adi is hurt dur to papa Hooda's ema.. he's hurting him to give it back.. in his mom's case.. he is miffed with her for not taking a stand.. for being weak .. n for passively accepting everything and his cheater father.. so basically he hates none.. it's just that he is hurt...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Happiness514

Adi doesn't hate anyone except poosh.. in case of his dad he's punishing him n disrespecting him to tell him how painful it is when a family member betrays or hurts u.. adi is hurt dur to papa Hooda's ema.. he's hurting him to give it back.. in his mom's case.. he is miffed with her for not taking a stand.. for being weak .. n for passively accepting everything and his cheater father.. so basically he hates none.. it's just that he is hurt...


Miffed is too kind a word to describe Adis feeling to his mum. It hurts to see him treating his mum in such a way. He has shown some stark unkindness to his mum. Supporting Shakshi and giving a mothers right to her is mean. On top of that , his brother Arjun too seem to follow Adi's lead.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: berrysweet


Miffed is too kind a word to describe Adis feeling to his mum. It hurts to see him treating his mum in such a way. He has shown some stark unkindness to his mum. Supporting Shakshi and giving a mothers right to her is mean. On top of that , his brother Arjun too seem to follow Adi's lead.


Supporting sakshi could be justified coz she is like d most ideal n loving as considered by adi... For her mother .. they both have a clash of povs... Anjana's words n actions r nit justified acc to adi.. so more than hatred or anything i think it's lack of understanding.. n we never know k kuch aur bhi hua ho past mein..

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