Was adiya totally responsible for poosh affair !! - Page 3

Originally posted by: brishtii78

You said it right, cheating has no justification!!!! Yes, two ppl can be totally different from each other, but thats where communication plays its part. If you want something from your partner... say it!!! Say it loud and clear. You need to be open with them. Hiding your desire and problems wont solve the issues. If you are not open to each other than you are betraying both yourself and your partner. And before you cross your boundaries think what it would be like if it was done to you. Being selfish is one thing... but cheating is a sin. When you cheat... you dont only break someone's heart... but you break their trust, you shatter them completely. You wouldn't want it to happen to you so dont do it to them.

They showed Adiya was at fault, yes to some extent where they didn't see everything eye to eye with their partners. But it was Poosh who was the sinners. Pooja wasn't convincing enough to Adi and Yas hid everything from Zoya. What tupe of marriage were they in??? Tgey lived separate life from their partners and never told them anything. They broke their trust... they walked out of their boundaries and cheated their partners who believed them with their eyes closed and loved them immensely. That was just simply wrong!!!! They can never justify it.

Originally posted by: Cherryfairy

I think it's high time cvs reveal directly about the affair instead of just giving hints of it I just read a comment on twitter from someone and they feel pooja cheated but yash didn't 🤔 🤡

Originally posted by: Sovereign_K

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">I won't say EMA has justification. Nothing can justify that disgusting act. But I do feel Adiya are equally responsible for the failure of their marriage.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Poosh were also responsible. They saw their marriage drowning and they did not do anything, just let it drainhaving an EMA. EMA was not the solution, communication was, but they did not communicate openly with their partner.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">And a relationship works through communication, you need to communicate through words. I found Adiya at fault in the way, they took their partners for granted. Pooja was so hurt the way Adi reacted to her when she asked to accompany her. And Zoya kind of imposed her likes on Yash. But that doesn'tgive them the right to find the kind of partners they wanted from outside.😡I hate Poosh with a passion for betraying Adiya like that.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">From the start, they were not meant to be.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Both are at faults at their own places, but if Adiya were forgivable thenPoosh weren't.</font>

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

You voiced out my thoughts 👍🏼

The problem with ZoSh and AdiJa was communication gap. @bold - Exactly! Adi never tried to see what Pooja desired as he was content with the way things had been before they got married and he thought things were the same after as well. Zoya who was not aware of the harsh realities of life courtesy living under the pampered shadow of an over protective father never knew the implications of financial crisis. In her naivety she suggested to Yash to buy a house in Mumbai of all places where even a modest 1 BHK is over a cr 😳 forget a duplex. I am not saying these reasons were enough for Pooja and Yash to turn their back on their partners but it was certainly a reason why they drifted apart despite being together.

And another most important thing to note here is that we still don't know if PooSh really had an affair or not. Yes, they had applied for divorce and yes, they had been spotted together numerous times too. Maybe he was just a soul friend like how u have a soul mate. Maybe they wanted to divorce their partners so that they could move on in their lives too. And then we have Pooja's diary - but let us not forget that some pages were torn or who knows whatever Arjun read later on could very well be implanted by the person who wants to hide the bigger truth. So that the focus remains on PooSh affair? Never say never 😊

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Adiya had their own flaws. And they did the mistake of thinking their marriage was perfect since their spouse didnt voice any open disagreement.

But going for EMA poosh did a crime, because EMA is not the answer for the problem in your marriage.

It is like keep a happy face in front of the world and then do things what you want from behind. I always say people who look too good to be true always have skeltons in their closet.

Originally posted by: rs..shailu29

Extra martial affair has no justification.
My question is were adiya totally at fault .

My answer not really

Only a weak and fickle minded ppl look for outside pleasure .

Ppl dislike home food so we go to restaurant for eat something different and tasty
But daily if we have outside we end up to doctors.

nyc example 😆

Having friends is ok sharing and caring is also ok
But sin is having an affair .

Ok affair is also ok but hiding it with ur spouse staying in marriage it's the worst that ppl can do .
Poosh have done that sin and adiya are punished unnecessarily.


Today they showed adiya failed in there marriage
But my question is how ?
Being naive and kiddish is that a sin or route to failed marriage.

I feel adiya we're not the failures it was poosh who failed miserably.

They failed in expressing to there spouse what they needed in life .
Adiya were human like we all are
They don't have X-ray in there system to get clear pix .
Nor poosh were matured enough to make them understand.

If zoya was innocent Yash could have explained her like Adi does now she could have u sterstood that maintaining 2 houses is not easy
Pooja could have made Adi understand what her interest were .
Instead they chose outsider to fulfill there wish

That wasn't good.

Adiya are sweet simple ppl so are poosh but communication was needed .
If it didn't work better get separated.
I respect ppl who take the upright decision of taking divorce to be with ppl they like .

Ppl should never ride on both the end will be like poosh
But they got peace what about adiya they get to see there failed side .

Poosh were cowards who could neither be faithful nor upright decision makers they just rode on 2 wheels .

If it takes to hurt someone badly do it end it but backstabbing is not acceptable.

Poosh were not only coward but confused individual who didn't know what they wanted in life .

They were not perfect themselves but wanted pitch perfect spouse .
Let me tell about my life .
I didn't know anything when I married it was arranged marriage.
My hubby had different tastes altogether.
But slowly we build that foundation which is needed by expressing firmly even if one doesn't agree we compromise
One day his wish is granted other day mine .
It took 5 yrs to get to know each other but it's beautiful.

Patience is the key ego has no place one has to go down to make the other happy .

It's not complicated but ppl make it .
If arranged marriage is so love marriage should be easy
Why poosh lost that logic .

Silence is sometimes strong weapon but sometimes it's the weakest link.

Few times by words things get sorted why poosh failed in it.

There is no justification for having an affair only a weak minded ppl do such things

Originally posted by: -Tulips-

I will just copy and paste what I wrote in Shruti's topic

In today's episode, Sagarika bhabhi answered few of the questions that AdiYa had in their minds regarding their relationship with their spouses. They would often wonder what made their spouses to cheat them when they loved them so much. They only blamed their spouses for cheating on them but never really thought if there was something wrong in their relationship or in their behavior with their spouses.

Today Sagarika bhabhi answered those questions. She made AdiYa realize at some point of time, they didn't understand their spouses and took them for granted.

The cvs didn't justify cheating/extra marital affair. They just conveyed that something AdiYa unknowingly did make some mistakes. They were not perfect as they thought nor their relationship was perfect

It was a beautiful scene and Harshad and Jenny and the actress playing Sagarika nailed it! Hats off to these 3 of them!

Originally posted by: rs..shailu29

In a way ur right

Cv's have kept the story in cliff hanger .
They had affair or not it's other thing
Poosh decision to take divorce that can't be ignored
Let's see how the story unfolds

But I feel adiya we're responsible for an extent but not totally
Poosh were equally responsible they failed to communicate

Originally posted by: rosemahal

Right dear cheating is cheating .if we have any problm wth partners just kah do naa adjust nhi ho rha ... move on but cheating on back is like brutus act ...poosh were like good actors jo acted so well before their partners result is death...

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Yeah even I am going by that theory for now 😆