Were Zoya and Adi too childish??

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Earlier they showed how kiddish Adi was.Even in her Diary Pooja wrote how Adi never understood her.
Today they showed how Zoya was immature.She was living in her dream palace and could not understand what problen Yash was going through.

So were Zoya and Adi realy kiddish??
How do you think Pooja and Yash shoukd have overcome this problem??

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SQ.com

Earlier they showed how kiddish Adi was.Even in her Diary Pooja wrote how Adi never understood her.

Today they showed how Zoya was immature.She was living in her dream palace and could not understand what problen Yash was going through.

So were Zoya and Adi realy kiddish??
How do you think Pooja and Yash shoukd have overcome this problem??

The problem with Puja and Yash was that they never communicated their issues...
In a marriage, no two partners are same..there will be always difference of personalities, belief etc...but if one is not liking something or is having difficulty in adjusting, you need to communicate!!
If Puja would have told Adi how childish she thinks he is or how she wants more than friendship, he would have adhered to it...or atleast given it a thought!
Similarly if Yash would have shared his problems with Zoya, she would have lend a helping hand or maybe given some solution..
not sharing your issues with your partner, and expecting them to be as perfect as you would like, is unfair!!
Both Adi and Zoya were truly in love with their spouses and they WOULD have tried to make changes or adjustment!! I am sure...
but keeping them in the dark and then being unsatisfied or unhappy with the outcome is not fair according to me!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolgal270

The problem with Puja and Yash was that they never communicated their issues...
In a marriage, no two partners are same..there always will be always difference of personalities, belief etc...but if one is not liking something or is having difficulty in adjusting, you need to communicate!!
If Puja would have told Adi how childish she thinks he is or how she wants more than friendship, he would have adhered to it...or atleast given it a thought!
Similarly if Yash would have shared his problems with Zoya, she would have lend a helping hand or maybe given some solution..
not sharing your issues with your partner, and expecting them to be as perfect as you would like, is unfair!!
Both Adi and Zoya were truly in love with their spouses and they WOULD have tried to make changes or adjustment!! I am sure...
but keeping them in the dark and then being unsatisfied or unhappy with the outcome is not fair according to me!


True...
They should have atleast once talked to them...
They woukd have understood I am sure
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes dy were childish, dy cudn't understand d unspoken, but dtz not a big mistake. It wud hv been a mistake if Poosh clearly told Adiya wt dy expect or wt r d probms n still Adiya didn't change. Adiya just needed a push from Poosh. Look at dm both now, battling against such odds.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolgal270

The problem with Puja and Yash was that they never communicated their issues...
In a marriage, no two partners are same..there will be always difference of personalities, belief etc...but if one is not liking something or is having difficulty in adjusting, you need to communicate!!
If Puja would have told Adi how childish she thinks he is or how she wants more than friendship, he would have adhered to it...or atleast given it a thought!
Similarly if Yash would have shared his problems with Zoya, she would have lend a helping hand or maybe given some solution..
not sharing your issues with your partner, and expecting them to be as perfect as you would like, is unfair!!
Both Adi and Zoya were truly in love with their spouses and they WOULD have tried to make changes or adjustment!! I am sure...
but keeping them in the dark and then being unsatisfied or unhappy with the outcome is not fair according to me!



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yash did say to Zoya .." Tum mumbai nahi jaana chahati ,,,aur mom aur mahi masoori nahi rehana chahatey..mein piss gaya hoon " . So Zoya's response was buy the house for them.. I wonder why She didn't want to move to Mumbai ..any ways Yash was also working there. Zoya was not working in Masoori..so what was holding her back
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Posted: 7 years ago
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To a certain extent AdiYa were childish and to a certain extent PooSh never communicated clearly... I think PooSh underestimated their respective spouses.. Their attitude is like Jaane do year yeh nahi samjhenge... They try once or twice and then they give up.. In today's scene Yash was telling Zoya her problem, she offered a solution in the best of her capacity but then that was not found feasible by Yash and then he gave up.. He didn't try to further explain the financial crisis he was facing.. Same with pooja.. When Adi refused to go with her, she tried pacify but then did not discuss her discontent... They thought that it was futile to tell them their problems as they won't understand which is not true.. The fact that Zoya came out of her comfort zone all alone, trying to reestablish her husband's business, trying to reconcile with her mother in law , the fact that Adi gave a big amount of 5 cr. without even a question speaks volume about to the length and breadth they could go for their beloved spouses had only they knew what was troubling them...
Another thing could be that PooSh were somewhat philosophical types and didn't want any solutions to their problems like Zoya was offering and just wanted someone to hear them ... lol
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Posted: 7 years ago
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So today they showed the real problem in ZoSh marriage. This couple too had understanding problem. Even I found Zoya's solution too silly. Mumbai mein sab mehenga hai toh ghar kharid lo. It was a dumb solution. The guy is complaining about increase in house rent and here madam is telling him to buy a house. May be because she belonged to a rich family so she didn't understand what's a financial problem then.

I guess Yash thought Zoya is way too nave and innocent so there's no point discussing anything with her so he kept all his problems to himself. But he should have at least tried to make her understand.

Yash and Zoya also had understanding problems.

Both were childish but circumstances completely changed both of them.

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