Hugging issue( proof)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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So I made a post few hours ago in which I said how the hug between ayat and Zain was not okay and it was not just done once but it was repeated several time. But I only saw like one person agree on that and others were like no. "Yr deen. Look at yr self .. I shouldn't even be watching this serial. "Hey Did I say I am perfect and I am following everything that is said in islam. No ..but I am admitting and saying that I am not. But some people have made up there new islam called " intention islam" guess what in intention islam everything is based in your intention. U can do anything anything in the world but with good intention
Club party, drink, wear shorts, hug or do anything u like. But what ever I don't really care about that anymore .. All the comments I read so far. People are like no ... Everything is fine if yr intention is fine. Fine u guys live with yr opinions . Continue hugging ur non Mahram cousins .. And i continue with what I think
But I got this proof please read it. Even hand shake is not allowed


This custom is bad and reprehensible, and it goes against the pure sharee'ah. It is not permissible for you to kiss them or shake hands with them, because the wives of your paternal uncles, the daughters of your paternal uncles and the daughters of your maternal uncle, etc., are not mahrams for you. They must observe hijaab in front of you and not appear in front of you wearing their adornments, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

"And when you ask (his wives) for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen, that is purer for your hearts and for their hearts"

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I m also muslim...& i dont found tht hug inappropriate...
& by linking it to islam is nt good...bcoz she didnt commit a sin...
as we all know Sin is whn u do sumthing. bad KNOWINGLY...!!
1st of all I dont think tht any of the Shareef Muslim girl cn think or feel sumthing whn her jiju or Cousine bro hug her whether in happiness or in sadness...
ppl here in forum r saying its a Sin...if it is a Sin...!!thn Ayat hug Zain Unknowingly...!!!
Evn in Roza if u drink or eat sumthing Unknowingly...is Nt A Sin...My mom always says tht "Allah ne khilaya hai"..
bt in the same way if u eat & break ur fast Thn It Is A Big Sin...


this wht i just posted in another thread...Thts Wht I feel ...!!!



Edited by MamuKiBhanji - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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the verse u quoted is from Surah AihZaab...(i think)
& this ws fr Sahabis...to do parda from Hazhrat Muhammad SAW Wives ...
i remember i read it in class 9 ...& the other part of the verse is...
"They(Wives of Hazrat Muhammad SAW) r Umul Momineen(Mother of Pious or Muslim )"


Bt yes I do admit muslim girl has to do patda wid Namahram..
bt Cousines r nt the one U dont know at all...U play wid thm in childhood together...& meeting ur cousine is obvious If u meet ur phuphu or khala or chachu or Mamu etc.

& as far as I know U cn talk to ur cousine cn do jokes bt u have to be in limits...

& i just want to ask u IF U Dont get married to ur cousine & marry sumone which is nt from ur family...wht ur children ll call ur cousines??? ...in my family i call all my parents cousines as Mamu khala chachu etc.

I also call my cousines who r older thn me as Bhai...& dont evn think the way u think...I know My limits...
Edited by MamuKiBhanji - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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waiting...!!!!
y r u nt replying...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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so no reply...!!!

I think this prooves everything...!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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OH COME ON! Zain considers Ayat as his sister! he is her BHAI! how can you even doubt his intentions...i'm muslim and wat you are telling me is wrong in so many ways!!

Zain is Ayat's brother in law...and also her BHAI! i hug my cousins all the time...specially in times when m feeling low! but is that wrong...no! cause my intentions are pure just like Ayat's! Allah knows our intentions, our thoughts at all times...so who are we to judge?

come on now i have come across 2 billion topics on this already...can we pls stop with this and stop making Islam look like the most complex religion ever...cause in reality our religion is beautiful, pure and simple...in our religion intentions are considered more than your actions...! so pls give us break!

i'm sorry if this is rude but i'm so over you guys portraying us like some strict, sick minded group of people who take everything in a negative way!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ammie-

OH COME ON! Zain considers Ayat as his sister! he is her BHAI! how can you even doubt his intentions...i'm muslim and wat you are telling me is wrong in so many ways!!


Zain is Ayat's brother in law...and also her BHAI! i hug my cousins all the time...specially in times when m feeling low! but is that wrong...no! cause my intentions are pure just like Ayat's! Allah knows our intentions, our thoughts at all times...so who are we to judge?

come on now i have come across 2 billion topics on this already...can we pls stop with this and stop making Islam look like the most complex religion ever...cause in reality our religion is beautiful, pure and simple...in our religion intentions are considered more than your actions...! so pls give us break!

i'm sorry if this is rude but i'm so over you guys portraying us like some strict, sick minded group of people who take everything in a negative way!

yeah...
Islam is the religion which deals with every aspect of lyf in a best way...
i think its better nt to reply these type of ppl...!!
I m Muslim & I m proud 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MamuKiBhanji

yeah...
Islam is the religion which deals with every aspect of lyf in a best way...
i think its better nt to reply these type of ppl...!!
I m Muslim & I m proud 😊


its ridiculous how some people preach their opinions in the name of religion...this is the reason why our religion is misunderstood by people coming from other walks of life!
you are right...no point replying to people in need of an excuse to bash the show...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ammie-


itsridiculous how some people preach their opinions in the name of religion...this is the reason why our religion is misunderstood by people coming from other walks of life!
you are right...no point replying to people in need of an excuse to bash the show...

u know i m waiting fr TM reply...bt He/She ll nt reply...

they r just here to define their religion...which is far more away from Islam...!!

they ll just misguide ppl who dont know much abt Islam...

Topic Maker quoted half part of the verse as a proof ...!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^ exactly what bigger sin could there be than representing your religion in the wrong light! 😵

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